Allah has made us with the desire to come together, men and women, and He has warned us in the Holy Qur'an that from this, we are vulnerable for seduction. You are right that you want to find out whether it is the Will of Allah that you come together in marriage or not.
I would ask a woman whom you trust to discern the Answer of God from the seduction to ask ...
A muslim woman must not even chat with a non-mahram except in case of necessity.
It is good that you did not meet each other as it would have resulted in major sins.
If a man and a woman (who are non-mahrams to each other are alone) then know that the third is shaitan.
The goal of shaitan is to misguide people and make them disobey Allah. ...