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Is it haram for a Muslim girl and a Hindu boy to have a relationship?

Islam discourages unnecessary mixed-gender intermixing: No person (man) should be alone with a woman except when there is a Mahram with her. Sahih Muslim 1341 c A man is not alone with a woman but ...
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What should I do about prior attempts at seeking relationships and the effect it has with my current fiancé?

Sin is something which you hate others knowing about it. If you did not sin, you shouldn't be afraid and not lie. If he understands you, he is mature enough and likely will live with you peacefully. ...
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Is it wrong to "sever ties of kinship" in the case of an abusive relative?

A fast review on the quoted ahadith The hadith of 'Abdullah ibn 'Awfa has been qualified as da'if even if it differs slightly of other sahih ahdith like your second quoted hadith which you may find in ...
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Is it haram to have a crush on someone?

Feeling love and affection towards others (that includes to opposite genders) is a natural phenomenon. Your question really sounds same as "Is eating halal?". It is OK to love others as long as that ...
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Why do we mix faith in God with moral values?

The point is maybe simple if we don't follow the traffic regulation, the traffic would be a mess and in worst case more people would die ... so rules are always needed or necessary. I think this is ...
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Who does "male attendants having no physical desire" refer to in Qur'an 24:31?

Allah says in the Qu'ran: وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ ...
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Is it haram to never speak to a sibling ever again?

"Severing the Ties of One's Relatives" is major sin #9 in al-Dhahabi's Major Sins (pdf), and you can see the evidence listed in that chapter. The primary evidence is Qur'an 4:1, but there's also a ...
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How did Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) maintain relationships with his uncle Abu Lahab?

To answer your first question, I’d recommend reading this article Did the Prophet (pbuh) maintain his ties with his uncle? Despite his enmity, crimes and tyranny against the Prophet (pbuh) and the ...
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Is it allowed to be friends with a muslim Jinn?

The Qur'an tells us that there are indeed some Jinn's that are believers. But I wonder if we can even meet Jinn and contact them first to be able to find a Muslim one. This sounds weird and rather ...
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Do I have to stop my relationship with a girl in another country who I cannot afford to marry?

Assalamu Alaikum - السلام عليكم I request you be careful of this, brother. Stuff like this are not allowed in Islam as it represents those of the disbelievers. You should visit your local Shaykh or ...
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Is it permissible for an engaged women and man to have sex and go out together and touch each other?

According to Shariah, engaged couples are regarded to be strangers for one another before marriage. As such all the normal rules of gender interaction would apply. Therefore, it'd not be permissible ...
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Can my muslim husband have a friendship with an older woman, because she is like his mother?

A woman can not be like a mother to someone by just his saying that. A man and a woman can not be alone with each other, unless they are mahrams: this is a bond that is due to a blood relation, ...
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I had an unlawful relationship. Will Allah forgive me?

If you repent sincerely and refrain from such acts, Allah will forgive you Inshallah. Allah says in the Qur'an (interpretation of the meaning): [39:53] Say, "O My servants who have transgressed ...
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Loves another girl

Considering somebody your sister or brother doesn't change anything in the real relationship. Either a person is by birth or fostering a mahram or becomes one by marriage anything else is just hearsay ...
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Is it wrong to meet a boy or girl before marriage and hold hands and talk to each other on the phone?

As you are in a relationship, this is very tough to get out of it. But you should keep it in mind that this kind of relationship is not permitted by Islam. So, you have to try to validate it as early ...
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What should I do about prior attempts at seeking relationships and the effect it has with my current fiancé?

Finding a suitable partner is not per se haram or a sin in Islam. You can even meet if there's a mahram, some may allow to meet in public as long as the conversation is limited to what is allowed to ...
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Relationship without any physical contact is acceptable?

The Prophet PBUH said: "Allaah has decreed for the children of Adam a share in adultery, he will get it by all means, the adultery of eyes is looking; the adultery of tongue is speaking; the soul ...
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Is it haram to sleep with my Muslim boyfriend before converting to Islam?

Sex outside of marriage is not permissible in both Islam and Christianity. The primary scripture of Islam, the Quran strictly prohibits it: And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it ...
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Why exactly is it haram to have a girlfriend?

Having Girlfriend, is undoubtedly haram is Islam. But however your question is, then how can i know the girl that i would like to marry? To answer this. There is halal ways. If you like a girl and ...
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Ties of kinship question

As sallamu alaykum wa rahmatullah wa baraktuhu. May Allah have mercy on me and you. I can only imagine all that you've been through and probably are still going through. Allah speaks about how he ...
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Are Oral Pleasures Considered An Act Of Zina if not married?

As long as you are not married you are not even allowed to be alone with a foreign person (which your to be spouse is). Both of you are not allowed to talk about such subjects at all. In the time ...
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How can I control my sexual urges since I am unmarried and single?

Alaikum assalaam, Dear sister, May Allah help you with your situation. If you are able to marry, then you should try to do that. If not, try to fast and do other types of worship. Perform your ...
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How can I control my sexual urges since I am unmarried and single?

Asak Sister, May Allah give you sabr to forbear the pain you had to go through. W.r.t your question, the below Hadith is relevent even though it was directed at the male sahaba who present with the ...
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In what circumstance a Muslim can break the kinship?

In the name of God, the Merciful, the Most Kind All praise and thanks are due to God, the Lord of the worlds. We cannot find words to praise Him, as He only sees fit how laudation should be addressed ...
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Between wife or mother who has the right to stay in the son/husband's house?

Stay with your wife. Your mother may be upset right now but she can not be mad at you forever. She raised you and she will understand why you chose your decision. On the other hand if you chose your ...
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Islam related question

Until you are married to her, she is a non-mahram and you shouldn't be with her in seclusion. No person (man) should be alone with a woman except when there is a Mahram with her.[ Muslim and ...
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How can a Muslim woman indicate her willingness to be an obedient wife to a prospective husband?

She can either express her willingness to be an obedient wife verbally and explicitly, or demonstrate it through her actions during the courtship period; different ways she can demonstrate this: ...
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Is it haram to sleep with my Muslim boyfriend before converting to Islam?

Sex outside of nikah (marriage contract) is a major sin, is haram and is a punishable offence under shariah law. I have no background knowledge of your specific circumstances ... but for reference ...
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How to overcome the relationship history of my intended wife?

Let me address your question point by point. My parents found a match for me and we met each other and got engaged. My life immediately got better after we started talking to each other - I ...
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