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Quran - Surah An-Nur [24:30]: Tell the believing men to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts. That is purer for them. Indeed, Allah is Acquainted with what they do. Hadith - Al-Tirmidhi 3118: Whenever a man is alone with a woman the Devil makes a third. Hadith - Al-Tirmidhi Do not call on women in theabsence of their ...


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Chatting with guys online will do no good to you. It is just not permissible in Islam. If you think you need to attract a good Muslim man, than chatting with boys won't help, nor will following them on Twitter. Get closer to Allah, purify yourself , so that He will purify one for you. Start wearing an Abayah. Many good Muslim men search for women who veil ...


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According to the fatwa listed below, you shouldn't work for them because of this ayah in the quran: but do not help one another in sin and transgression [al-Maa’idah 5:2] Full fatwa here about a web developer asking about making a website for selling music which is haraam, which inturn means a web developer shouldn't help them achieve their goal. Then I ...


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We are not to look at women, and are to lower our gaze and this is clear in the 30th verse of Surat Annoor: Tell the believing men to lower their gaze as well as this Hadith: I asked the Messenger of Allah (sallallahu 'alaihi wa sallam) about (the Islamic ruling on) accidental glance (i.e., at a woman one is not Islamically allowed to look at) and ...


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First I'd like to mention that the mixing in schools, universities and is haram and very dangerous especially for young and also for adults. Because it leads to many evils and haram things. The Prophet Muhammad PBUH said in the Sahihayn: ‏ "‏ ما تركت بعدي فتنة هي أضر على الرجال من النساء‏"‏ ‏(‏‏(‏متفق عليه‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏ "I am not leaving behind me a ...


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Generally yes, keeping in mind the following special cases in which you can't marry her: She is your sister in Milk, i.e, her mother breastfed you or your mother breastfed her, this is because the prophet said: The Prophet said about Hamza's daughter, "I am not legally permitted to marry her, as foster relations are treated like blood relations (in ...


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God is very clear on who is and is not permissible for a Muslim man to marry. As explained in Surat an-Nisa: [4:22] And do not marry those [women] whom your fathers married, except what has already occurred. Indeed, it was an immorality and hateful [to Allah ] and was evil as a way. [4:23] Prohibited to you [for marriage] are your mothers, your ...


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If a man feels some attraction towards a woman whom it is permissible for him to marry her, and vice versa, there is no answer to the problem except marriage. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “We do not think that there is anything better for those who love one another than marriage.” (Narrated by Ibn Maajah, 1847; ...


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Lets start with touching, as that sounds like the most innocent of actions you've described in your question: It is haraam for a man to touch the hand of a girl who is not his mahram, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than for him to ...


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As mentioned in other questions and answers, Islam stipulates some rulings around interaction between genders. Starting at the top (most general): And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way. (Surah Israa, verse 32) Based on this, we know that Islam regulates interaction between genders. What ...


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I would like to give another solution in which you don't have to marry a second wife or divorce your present wife. As you mentioned masturbation, what is wrong if you ask your wife to do it for you with her hand. It is completely allowed and there is no difference of opinion among scholars. It will fulfil your needs to a certain extent.


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Absolutely not. But one can have a second wife. Up to four are allowed as you might know. Masturbation is somewhat controversial in Islam. It is not clearly forbidden. There are views that say it is strictly forbidden. But there are people who say it is allowed in case it can save you from a bigger sin. In your case I would say, sure you can do it just ...


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Allah Says in Suratul Isra'a Ayah 32: وَلَا تَقۡرَبُواْ ٱلزِّنَىٰٓ‌ۖ إِنَّهُ ۥ كَانَ فَـٰحِشَةً۬ وَسَآءَ سَبِيلاً۬ (٣٢) Nor come nigh to adultery: for it is a shameful (deed) and an evil, opening the road (to other evils). (32) Zina is Haram, and in this Ayah it is clear that Allah did not say do not commit Zina, no he says do not even come close ...


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Islam discourages unnecessary mixed-gender intermixing: No person (man) should be alone with a woman except when there is a Mahram with her. Sahih Muslim 1341 c A man is not alone with a woman but the third of them is Ash-Shaitan. Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2165 [grade: sahih] So relationships like "girlfriend" and "boyfriend" are not appropriate, and ...


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Before marriage, every man is Non-mahram for a girl(except close relations, and i hope you are aware of those relations). And Islam does NOT allows any type of intimacy, specially physical, with them. Here is the list of Mahram in Quran: "And marry not women whom your fathers married, except what has already passed; indeed it was shameful and most ...


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"وعن أبي هريرة رضي الله عنه عن النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم قال‏:‏ ‏"‏ لو كنت آمرًا أحدًا أن يسجد لأحد لأمرت المرأة أن تسجد لزوجها‏"‏" (رواه الترمذي وقال ‏:‏ حديث حسن صحيح‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏) Abu Hurairah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported: The Prophet (PBUH) said, "If I were to order anyone to prostrate himself before another, I would have ordered a ...


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Allah said in the "Fossilat"(41) Chapter of Quran: {وَلَا تَسْتَوِي الْحَسَنَةُ وَلَا السَّيِّئَةُ ۚ ادْفَعْ بِالَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ فَإِذَا الَّذِي بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُ عَدَاوَةٌ كَأَنَّهُ وَلِيٌّ حَمِيمٌ(34)} In this ayah, Allah tells his Prophet, Mohammad (peace be upon him), that good and evil are not equal, and tells him to repel evil with that which ...


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Short Answer: No you cannot. This is not permissible in any way, as any and all kinds and forms of relationships outside of marriage is against the Shariah and not of Islam. If you love this women you should marry her through the way described in Islam, if not then you should stay far away from her, and she should stay far away from you. Here is some ...


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Since you're aware of the possibility of sin, there should be guidelines that you must keep in order for you to have a halal relationship. First you cannot be alone with her in a secluded area where no one can see you. This includes outdoors where no one is around. Rasolullah clearly had forbade men from being secluded with a woman who is not related to ...


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And those who accuse chaste women and then do not produce four witnesses - lash them with eighty lashes and do not accept from them testimony ever after. And those are the defiantly disobedient. (4) Except for those who repent thereafter and reform, for indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. (5) And for those who accuse their wives, but have no ...


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Actually It is so because at that time Zaid(May Allah be pleased with him) was known among people as Zaid bin Muhammad. If you know the history, you may know that Zaid was servant of Muhammad(SAW) given to Him as a gift by Hazrat Khadeeja(May Allah be pleased with her). Prophet(SAW) later said that Zaid is my son(begotten son) because Zaid preferred Muhammad(...


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A fast review on the quoted ahadith The hadith of 'Abdullah ibn 'Awfa has been qualified as da'if even if it differs slightly of other sahih ahdith like your second quoted hadith which you may find in sahih Muslim, sunan abi Dawod, Jami' at-Tirmdihi and in both the sahih and al-adab al-mufrad of al-Bukahri. The last hadith is originally from sahih Muslim: ...


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"Severing the Ties of One's Relatives" is major sin #9 in al-Dhahabi's Major Sins (pdf), and you can see the evidence listed in that chapter. The primary evidence is Qur'an 4:1, but there's also a hadith: The person who severs the bond of kinship will not enter Paradise. Sahih al-Bukhari 5984 Ordinarily, severing ties of kinship is a big deal. ...


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Allah Subhanahu wt'ala in the 23th Sura (Chapter of Holly Quran, according to the common sorting): {قَدْ أَفْلَحَ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ(1)الَّذِينَ هُمْ فِي صَلَاتِهِمْ خَاشِعُونَ(2)وَالَّذِينَ هُمْ عَنِ اللَّغْوِ مُعْرِضُونَ(3)وَالَّذِينَ هُمْ لِلزَّكَاةِ فَاعِلُونَ(4)*وَالَّذِينَ هُمْ لِفُرُوجِهِمْ حَافِظُونَ(5) إِلَّا عَلَىٰ أَزْوَاجِهِمْ أوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ ...


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Yes it is allowed, and the best things for those who love/like each other is marriage. This is clear in the Narration from the Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him): لَمْ نَرَ لِلْمُتَحَابَّيْنِ مِثْلَ النِّكَاحِ For those who like each other, nothing has been proven as good as marriage (Translation from Islamic Online university Notes) Sunan ...


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Surah 29 ayah 46 And do not argue with the People of the Scripture except in a way that is best, except for those who commit injustice among them, and say, "We believe in that which has been revealed to us and revealed to you. And our God and your God is one; and we are Muslims (in submission) to Him." Also regarding the behavior of a Muslim ...


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About Divorce: Please look at the bottom of this page. Issue 2548: If a woman lays a condition at the time of Nikah that if her husband goes on a journey or, for example, does not give her maintenance for six months, she will have the right of divorce, the condition is void. However, if she lays a condition that if her husband goes on a journey or, for ...


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Before giving an answer i must distinguish: How and where will this "relationship" take place? Will this women and the men meet? Will they meet in public? How do you define the relationship? How the man will define the relationship? Here are some ahadith (hadiths) -both from jami' at-Tirmidhi- which indicate that a woman shouldn't be alone with a non ...


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