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Chatting with guys online will do no good to you. It is just not permissible in Islam. If you think you need to attract a good Muslim man, than chatting with boys won't help, nor will following them on Twitter. Get closer to Allah, purify yourself , so that He will purify one for you. Start wearing an Abayah. Many good Muslim men search for women who veil ...


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First I'd like to mention that the mixing in schools, universities and is haram and very dangerous especially for young and also for adults. Because it leads to many evils and haram things. The Prophet Muhammad PBUH said in the Sahihayn: ‏ "‏ ما تركت بعدي فتنة هي أضر على الرجال من النساء‏"‏ ‏(‏‏(‏متفق عليه‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏ "I am not leaving behind me a ...


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Lets start with touching, as that sounds like the most innocent of actions you've described in your question: It is haraam for a man to touch the hand of a girl who is not his mahram, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “For one of you to be stabbed in the head with an iron needle is better for him than for him to ...


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I would like to give another solution in which you don't have to marry a second wife or divorce your present wife. As you mentioned masturbation, what is wrong if you ask your wife to do it for you with her hand. It is completely allowed and there is no difference of opinion among scholars. It will fulfil your needs to a certain extent.


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Absolutely not. But one can have a second wife. Up to four are allowed as you might know. Masturbation is somewhat controversial in Islam. It is not clearly forbidden. There are views that say it is strictly forbidden. But there are people who say it is allowed in case it can save you from a bigger sin. In your case I would say, sure you can do it just ...


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Islam discourages unnecessary mixed-gender intermixing: No person (man) should be alone with a woman except when there is a Mahram with her. Sahih Muslim 1341 c A man is not alone with a woman but the third of them is Ash-Shaitan. Jami` at-Tirmidhi 2165 [grade: sahih] So relationships like "girlfriend" and "boyfriend" are not ...


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Before marriage, every man is Non-mahram for a girl(except close relations, and i hope you are aware of those relations). And Islam does NOT allows any type of intimacy, specially physical, with them. Here is the list of Mahram in Quran: "And marry not women whom your fathers married, except what has already passed; indeed it was shameful and most ...


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Since you're aware of the possibility of sin, there should be guidelines that you must keep in order for you to have a halal relationship. First you cannot be alone with her in a secluded area where no one can see you. This includes outdoors where no one is around. Rasolullah clearly had forbade men from being secluded with a woman who is not related to ...


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Short Answer: No you cannot. This is not permissible in any way, as any and all kinds and forms of relationships outside of marriage is against the Shariah and not of Islam. If you love this women you should marry her through the way described in Islam, if not then you should stay far away from her, and she should stay far away from you. Here is some ...


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And those who accuse chaste women and then do not produce four witnesses - lash them with eighty lashes and do not accept from them testimony ever after. And those are the defiantly disobedient. (4) Except for those who repent thereafter and reform, for indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful. (5) And for those who accuse their wives, but have no witnesses ...


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Allah said in the "Fossilat"(41) Chapter of Quran: {وَلَا تَسْتَوِي الْحَسَنَةُ وَلَا السَّيِّئَةُ ۚ ادْفَعْ بِالَّتِي هِيَ أَحْسَنُ فَإِذَا الَّذِي بَيْنَكَ وَبَيْنَهُ عَدَاوَةٌ كَأَنَّهُ وَلِيٌّ حَمِيمٌ(34)} In this ayah, Allah tells his Prophet, Mohammad (peace be upon him), that good and evil are not equal, and tells him to repel evil with that which ...


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Actually It is so because at that time Zaid(May Allah be pleased with him) was known among people as Zaid bin Muhammad. If you know the history, you may know that Zaid was servant of Muhammad(SAW) given to Him as a gift by Hazrat Khadeeja(May Allah be pleased with her). Prophet(SAW) later said that Zaid is my son(begotten son) because Zaid preferred Muhammad(...


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Feeling love and affection towards others (that includes to opposite genders) is a natural phenomenon. Your question really sounds same as "Is eating halal?". It is OK to love others as long as that feeling is not causing deviations in performing your daily duties and obligations and within the limits of basic Islamic principles(e.g., feeling sexually ...


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A fast review on the quoted ahadith The hadith of 'Abdullah ibn 'Awfa has been qualified as da'if even if it differs slightly of other sahih ahdith like your second quoted hadith which you may find in sahih Muslim, sunan abi Dawod, Jami' at-Tirmdihi and in both the sahih and al-adab al-mufrad of al-Bukahri. The last hadith is originally from sahih Muslim: ...


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Sin is something which you hate others knowing about it. If you did not sin, you shouldn't be afraid and not lie. If he understands you, he is mature enough and likely will live with you peacefully. That way you can know that he is a suitable boy for marriage. Else maybe you should move onto next. Also please remind him about this Ayah, O you who have ...


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The point is maybe simple if we don't follow the traffic regulation, the traffic would be a mess and in worst case more people would die ... so rules are always needed or necessary. I think this is logical and therefore you may find rules in each religion, mostly ethical rules. In many cases also the local customs play a role and are mixed with those rules. ...


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Allah says in the Qu'ran: وَقُل لِّلْمُؤْمِنَاتِ يَغْضُضْنَ مِنْ أَبْصَارِهِنَّ وَيَحْفَظْنَ فُرُوجَهُنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا مَا ظَهَرَ مِنْهَا وَلْيَضْرِبْنَ بِخُمُرِهِنَّ عَلَىٰ جُيُوبِهِنَّ وَلَا يُبْدِينَ زِينَتَهُنَّ إِلَّا لِبُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَائِهِنَّ أَوْ آبَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَائِهِنَّ أَوْ أَبْنَاءِ بُعُولَتِهِنَّ ...


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"Severing the Ties of One's Relatives" is major sin #9 in al-Dhahabi's Major Sins (pdf), and you can see the evidence listed in that chapter. The primary evidence is Qur'an 4:1, but there's also a hadith: The person who severs the bond of kinship will not enter Paradise. Sahih al-Bukhari 5984 Ordinarily, severing ties of kinship is a big deal. ...


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To answer your first question, I’d recommend reading this article Did the Prophet (pbuh) maintain his ties with his uncle? Despite his enmity, crimes and tyranny against the Prophet (pbuh) and the Muslims are undeniable, but in response, the answer is no because of two reasons: Allah (SWT) says: “It is not fitting, for the prophet and those who believe, ...


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About Divorce: Please look at the bottom of this page. Issue 2548: If a woman lays a condition at the time of Nikah that if her husband goes on a journey or, for example, does not give her maintenance for six months, she will have the right of divorce, the condition is void. However, if she lays a condition that if her husband goes on a journey or, for ...


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Allah Subhanahu wt'ala in the 23th Sura (Chapter of Holly Quran, according to the common sorting): {قَدْ أَفْلَحَ الْمُؤْمِنُونَ(1)الَّذِينَ هُمْ فِي صَلَاتِهِمْ خَاشِعُونَ(2)وَالَّذِينَ هُمْ عَنِ اللَّغْوِ مُعْرِضُونَ(3)وَالَّذِينَ هُمْ لِلزَّكَاةِ فَاعِلُونَ(4)*وَالَّذِينَ هُمْ لِفُرُوجِهِمْ حَافِظُونَ(5) إِلَّا عَلَىٰ أَزْوَاجِهِمْ أوْ مَا مَلَكَتْ ...


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Before giving an answer i must distinguish: How and where will this "relationship" take place? Will this women and the men meet? Will they meet in public? How do you define the relationship? How the man will define the relationship? Here are some ahadith (hadiths) -both from jami' at-Tirmidhi- which indicate that a woman shouldn't be alone with a non ...


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If you repent sincerely and refrain from such acts, Allah will forgive you Inshallah. Allah says in the Qur'an (interpretation of the meaning): [39:53] Say, "O My servants who have transgressed against themselves [by sinning], do not despair of the mercy of Allah . Indeed, Allah forgives all sins. Indeed, it is He who is the Forgiving, the Merciful."...


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A woman can not be like a mother to someone by just his saying that. A man and a woman can not be alone with each other, unless they are mahrams: this is a bond that is due to a blood relation, marriage or fosterage by suckling and not something established by uttering a phrase. A man and a woman must properly cover themselves infront of non-mahrams, and a ...


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According to Shariah, engaged couples are regarded to be strangers for one another before marriage. As such all the normal rules of gender interaction would apply. Therefore, it'd not be permissible for an engaged couple to go out together, touch each other and to have sex. It's strictly prohibited For more details


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Assalamu Alaikum - السلام عليكم I request you be careful of this, brother. Stuff like this are not allowed in Islam as it represents those of the disbelievers. You should visit your local Shaykh or Imam as you probably can’t leave this state easily. In Islam, these kind of things start only after marriage. Allah created you the way he deemed you to be. Seek ...


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The Qur'an tells us that there are indeed some Jinn's that are believers. But I wonder if we can even meet Jinn and contact them first to be able to find a Muslim one. This sounds weird and rather unrealistic. The Qur'an in fact tells as the origin of Jinn and that they are with or around us, but there's no clue in it on how one might be able to contact them....


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Considering somebody your sister or brother doesn't change anything in the real relationship. Either a person is by birth or fostering a mahram or becomes one by marriage anything else is just hearsay that is far away from the teaching of Islam. Note that many people (including parents) consider somebody like family (and were mistaken as this was the first ...


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