Zina is never allowed period. Even if you're poor, you still have chastity and purity to your name. Don't ruin that too by being both poor AND impure (unchaste), giving people even more reasons to reject you.
OP: "in order to maintain our status I can't marry someone outside our status circle. Now I have to get rich no matter what otherwise I will never ...
The verse you've referenced (Quran 58:22) is specifically about those who are at actively at war with Islam and the Muslims.
You are not forbidden from showing affection to those who don't fight Islam and the Muslims:
Quran 60:8 Allah does not forbid you to deal justly and kindly
with those who fought not against you on account of religion and did
Imam Sadiq has quoted from Luqman's will to his son:
You must fear Allah similar to: one who has done the same amount of good done by all humans and jinn, still fears Allah will requite him.
and You must have hope in Allah similar to: one who carries the sins of all humans and jinn, but hopes Allah will forgive him . Usul al-Kafi. Vol.2 Pg.67
وَمِنْ آيَاتِهِ أَنْ خَلَقَ لَكُمْ مِنْ أَنْفُسِكُمْ أَزْوَاجًا لِتَسْكُنُوا إِلَيْهَا وَجَعَلَ بَيْنَكُمْ مَوَدَّةً وَرَحْمَةً ۚ إِنَّ فِي ذَٰلِكَ لَآيَاتٍ لِقَوْمٍ يَتَفَكَّرُونَ
And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs ...
There is no issue in falling in love with anybody in any month of Islam.
.. What do you mean by first line.. falling in love while fasting?.. if you mean you looked at somebody and now feeling that you're in love with him/her?..
If this is so... then its mean dont' look at anybody lustfully. That's sin...
because love is not something as a famous saying.. ...
There are a handful of common solutions to your problem sticking out in my mind right now:
1- The secret most people fail to notice is that one's presence of heart during prayer is closely connected with their presence of heart during making Wudhu (ablution) for prayer. When making ablution take each and every action you make (e.g. washing your face, hands,...
This is a very important question which many people have, but fail to ask.
Firstly, try to understand each and every word of your prayer by knowing what those words mean. Take the feel of what you say in prayer.
Then, try to read Qur'an regularly to attain fear of Allah and afterlife. The more afraid you are of Allah, the more you feel like you're talking ...
Asking for something halal isn't prohibited at all.
Just keep repenting, say astagh-fer-allah hundreds of times a day,he would help you ISA
Ask him ,if she is right for you, help you marry her, otherwise if isn't ask to make you forget about her and full your hert with satisfaction about Allah choice.
Trust me I have tried, I have forgotten her ...
Note: The answer below is assuming that you didn't have a valid nikah with him and were engaged in Zina.
The opinion on islamqa for a related question is that the gift should be disposed off in charity because it was linked to a forbidden relationship.
Whatever was taken in return for the haraam relationships that
involved the evils that you have ...
In Arabic love can be translated to various words. The most common ones are عشق and حب and شغف. The first one does not appear in Quran. The second one is common and will be discussed below. The third one appears once in the story of Prophet Joseph.
There are two instances of love between women and men that are mentioned in Quran, one positive and one ...
All perfect praise be to Allah
Well you have multiple questions in single line, i might to touch the tip of the ice burg.
On love between humans. Read here and follow, but 1 thing i should make clear, love among humans is not only love of opposite sexes only for sex, love is when you for something good for someone else for the sake of humanity.
And of ...
As sallamu alaykum wa rahmatullah wa baraktuhu.
May Allah have mercy on me and you.
I can only imagine all that you've been through and probably are still going through.
Allah speaks about how he fixes the hurt and damaged heart he says
"And We send down of the Qur’aan that which is a healing and a mercy to those who believe”
"Imagine your mother finds out that you are going to hell and she has the capacity to undo all of your actions she would do it by all means."
Yes, because your mother is biased for you. A mother's love can be misguided. A mother can love a murderer. But, Allah is at the same time Just.
Allah loves all people equally, so he punishes those who wrong ...
Wa Alaikum As Salam.
Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) said, لم نر للمتحابين مثل النكاح (There is nothing like marriage, for two who love one another) - Ibn Majah (1847). This hadith establishes that two people may be in love and the best thing for them proceeding forward is marriage.
A marriage based on just love, as long as it is conducted properly (per Sharia ...
The question suggests there's a trade-off between love and honor, but this is not really true. For example, like Christianity, Islam teaches children to honor their parents and family.
Abu Huraira reported that a person said: Allah's Messenger, who amongst the people is most deserving of my good treatment? He said: Your mother, again your mother, again ...
Love is like any other feeling or desire, e.g. huger or thirst, which is in our nature and can't be controlled. It can't be Haram unless you fulfill it in a Haram way.
So, if fall in love with someone, try to fulfill it in a Halal way: Marriage, not Haram way: Zinah
I am afraid I haven't read the poem myself .However I will answer your question to the best of my knowledge.
If a person loves another person for the sake of Allah , then Allah will love that person. The love of Allah is greater than the love your mother shows to you. There is nothing wrong with loving someone. If you love someone for Allah's Sake, it is ...
Love in Islam is halal if you don't hurt someone else and if your intention is to marry her there is no problem with that but if your intention only to do zina or lust this is different ,you should hide this intention from any one, if you can't wait to marry her you should marry her otherwise leave her alone, don't tell her about your feeling or anyone else ...
This link has an answer to your question.
My personal opinion, and I could be wrong, that the woman can choose her husband in Paradise if both of her husbands have been admitted to Paradise by the mercy of Allah (SWT). My opinion is based on this verse in Surat Qaf:
لهم ما يشاءون فيها ولدينا مزيد
They will have in it whatever they wish, and with Us ...
His (the person you want to marry) parents do not have the right to deny your right to marry. Cause, his parents don't have that right, your parents have it. If your parents permit you to marry him, then he may marry you without the permission of his parents.
If a man's guardian deny him the right of marriage, then he may marry himself without the ...
She must choose Allah and the Islam way by herself, otherwise she will have converted more because of your pressure on her than true love for Allah.
Talking to her about Islam and showing her how you feel about Allah is enough to let her think about converting. Even if she doesn't convert, you can still love her, and she can still love you.
You can marry her, only if she accepts Islam and tells Shahadatain voluntarily. This is not a simple decision, but there are many examples of such convergence to Islam. Because if she really loves you, she will accept to research on your family, your thoughts, and your religion. Give here a change, and hope that she will accept the truth.
You have to strengthen your faith. You must ask yourself how can I be better and come closer to my lord. Then go step for step. Do the good and avoid the bad.
Stop listening Music. I know it’s hard at the beginning but you can do it. As more you
Do as more faith will rise.