It is recommended or obligatory to not cut the hair and nails after the month of Dhul-Hijjah has begun, based on hadith:
إذا دخلت العشر وأراد أحدكم أن يضحى فلايمس من شعره وبشره شيئا
When the ten days (of Dhul-Hijjah) begin and one of you wants to offer a sacrifice, let him not touch anything of his hair or skin.
من كان له ذبح يذبحه ...
' if women having resembles like men's so she have to remove her hairs only because its disfiguring the women. She can remove her hairs from upper lips and down lips like you said beard a liking hairs she also remove her hair from her cheeks and calves.
This is not the same as plucking (eyebrows hair removing process) which is forbidden.
Shaykh Ibn ‘Uthaymeen (may Allah have mercy on him) said:
For a woman to cut her hair was regarded as makrooh (disliked) by some scholars, and some scholars said it is haraam (forbidden), and some scholars said it is permissible.