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Why is it recommended to perform wudu' when one is angry?
This concept comes from a weak chained Hadith:
إِنَّ الْغَضَبَ مِنْ الشَّيْطَانِ وَإِنَّ الشَّيْطَانَ خُلِقَ مِنْ
النَّارِ وَإِنَّمَا تُطْفَأُ النَّارُ بِالْمَاءِ فَإِذَا غَضِبَ
أَحَدُكُمْ ...
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Is it a sin if my actions cause others to swear?
I quote here a relevant passage in the Qur'an:
And do not insult those they invoke other than Allah, lest they insult Allah in enmity without knowledge...
[Al-'An'am 108]
Here, Allah clearly ...
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Does God become angry?
Our philosophies for what God should or should not be are irrelevant. God does get angry. It says so in Qur'an:
غَيْرِ الْمَغْضُوبِ عَلَيْهِمْ - not of those who have evoked Your anger
وَغَضِبَ ...
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What is the way to win over lust, anger, fear, tension, ego?
In Islam combating vices of the ego and the flesh are usually referred to as "the greater jihad" or "jihad against the ego (or nafs in Arabic)", wherein jihad means 'struggle.' The term is rooted in a ...
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If the husband hits the wife in anger, can the wife hit back?
At the first place, there is no hitting each other in anger in Islam. Everyone is supposed to be patient and forgive each others' deeds. Hitting is not the solution.
Although, this is a bit out of ...
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How to control anger according to sunnah?
There are ahadith which describe the importance of controlling anger:
Abu Huraira reported: I heard Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) as saying: One is not strong because of one's wrestling skillfully. They said:...
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Saying something bad in private about parents?
Never should a question be "Will Allah punish me" because that is impossible for anyone to know but Allah Himself!
Someone could do the worst of crimes, yet Allah forgives Him.
Rather, the ...
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Why is it when I pray, something bad happens?
Walaikum Assalam wa Rahmatullahi wa Barakatuhu,
Don't feel like that. It may be a trick from Shaytan. Pray Salah and ask help from Allah. Ask Allah to forgive your sins, ease your difficulties.
If you ...
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Sometimes my parents are yelling and angry with me for no reason
Walikum Assalam
Minor mistakes or doing things as you have free will to which are not harming anyone in real is not sinful act. you are not arguing is may increasing your reward and you may see that ...
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Does questioning someone's imaan out of irritation make me a disbeliever?
Section o8.7 part of The Reliance of the Traveller (a Shafi'i fiqh book) contains a description of the relevant action that makes someone a disbeliever:
(11) to say that a Muslim is an unbeliever (...
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Am I still Muslim, and married to my husband, after saying bad words out of anger?
Yes you are :) Not all sins are blasphemy. By cussing, you've committed a sin (and seems like you regret your actions so make tawbah/repent) but you have not rejected the deen so you're fine, sister :...
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How to control anger according to sunnah?
It is said to drink cold water, sit down, say bismillah and alhumdulillah when drinking. If that doesn't work try laying down.
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What is the way to win over lust, anger, fear, tension, ego?
These are all common problems almost everyone goes through.
A wise person is one who understands them and tries to stay away and when he/she is afflicted with one of these, he/she knows and tries to ...
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