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Does “nikah” mean “sex”?

In another question, we have this quote: I heard that the word "nikah" has a disgusting meaning to it? All this time I thought "nikah" meant marriage, but apparently it means to have sex or f***. -...
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Is vaginoplasty after childbirth to improve my husband's sexual pleasure permissible?

After having a child (where the delivery was normal) my husband is having a hard time fulfilling his sexual desire with me; not because of outward appearance, but during sex when he is inside me. ...
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Can a couple consummate their marriage outside the home? [duplicate]

I don't mean outdoors where they can be seen by someone else, but perhaps in a hotel or something like that. For example, they may go out to dinner at a restaurant, and stay the night at a hotel. ...
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Is it permissible to use contraception during intercourse?

After marriage, what if neither of the spouses are ready to have children, but have sexual desires? When the spouses consummate their marriage and have sexual intercourse, is it permissible to use ...
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Is it haram to sleep with my Muslim boyfriend before converting to Islam?

I am a Christian and have a Muslim boyfriend. I am separated, since 14 years ago. I know my boyfriend will not marry me but I do love him, and I promised that he will be my second and last men in my ...
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Does food and prayer become makruh after junub if not bath?

I been told that after junub one should need to have bath/gusul before having food or to pray. Although one can have food or do whatever they want but it is considered makruh and is believed that ...
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Can a woman marry two men if she is sexually unfulfilled by one?

What if a married woman has got strong sexual desire that one husband can not fulfil? Is she allowed to marry two men to avoid haram relationships.
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Does nudity invalidate marriage?

I searched the Internet, and found a fatwa from an Egyptian cleric about that, and I need to know if this is true?
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Is Nikah affected by extramarital intercourse if there has been no repentance?

I married about a year ago. Now I have a suspicion that my spouse may have had extramarital sexual relations before our wedding night. Would our Nikah be affected in any way if there had been no ...
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What should I do when my husband keeps on denying me in bed? [closed]

It has been many months now, and my husband keeps on denying me in bed. I don't know why, he always says he is tired, and I end up crying alone because I feel rejected. I swallowed my pride and ask ...
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Will Allah punish me for thinking about sexual relations?

If I have thoughts about Allah and sexual relations. I won't act on them; I feel like a battle is going on in my head. I don't know what to do I do dikr, I make dua, I beg Allah to forgive and help ...
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Is it permissible to have non-penetrative gay sex (e.g. oral sex) or anal sex using a condom?

Question 1: Can we have non-penetrative gay sex, e.g.oral sex? Question 2: Can we use condom to have anal sex this way there is no risk of disease transmission? Asking on behalf of a friend
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Can you explain the hadiths regarding having sex with captive women?

Please can you explain this Hadith and similar ones? I don't understand that if the Muslims had just won a battle and killed the captive's husband, brother, son or other relatives or the men of her ...
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Is there a halal sex guide for Muslims?

Are there any books in English which describe in detail sexual techniques and positions without compromising the religion in terms of nudity etc.? Muslim doctors are allowed to look at all parts of ...
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How can adventurous Muslim spouses spice up their sex life?

My answer to What to do if the husband wants oral sex but the wife thinks it's haraam? made me think about how Muslim spouses can have an adventurous sex life without resorting to I'm-uncertain-...
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What to do if the husband wants oral sex but the wife thinks it's haraam?

What is the ruling if the husband wants oral sex and believes it is not haraam, but the wife thinks it is disgusting and/or haraam. Does the husband have to just be patient and go without it, or marry ...
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How does one repent from Zina and avoid it?

If a person commits Zina, is this forgivable? If so, then how is forgiveness attained?
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Can a Muslim man who has engaged in pre-marital sex marry a virgin woman? [duplicate]

Is it possible for a guy who has had premarital sex, be married to a virgin girl? To what extent does the Quran and the Sunnah say that a non-virgin only deserves a non-virgin?
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Is it haram to have sex outdoor with one's spouse if no one can see them?

Is it haram to have sex outdoor without anyone looking? For example a car with closed windows or in a hotel. (Only between you and your spouse.)
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Does “The Messenger of Allah forbade having intercourse with a pregnant woman until she gives birth” imply sex with one's pregnant wife is haram?

It was narrated that Ibn 'Abbas said: "The Messenger of Allah forbade selling something from the spoils of war prior to its distribution, having intercourse with a pregnant woman until she gives birth,...
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Before having relations with our non-Muslim spouse, should we say a dua to protect us from evil?

We know that when we are going to have relations with our spouse that we should always say a dua for Allah to protect us from evil. Question is, how does this work if a Muslim is married to a non-...
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Is gay sodomy considered a worse sin than straight sodomy?

The top answer to this question What does the Quran say about homosexuality? says: Homosexual acts are strictly forbidden in Islam. Although it has mainly been focused around men, women homosexuals ...
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Anal sex in a marriage

I am having issues. I am not arguing if it's allowed or not, it is just something that I need to clear up. I keep reading that butt sex is haram because the word tilth is used in the Quran when ...
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Should Quran 42:50 “Or He makes them [both] males and females” be interpreted as referring to intersex people?

To Allah belongs the dominion of the heavens and the earth; He creates what he wills. He gives to whom He wills female [children], and He gives to whom He wills males. Or He makes them [both] males ...
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Is it legitimate to shorten (not shave) ones pubic hair every two or three weeks?

Peace be upon you all. I have a question regarding the shaving of pubic hair. As I understand it, one must shave his pubic hair at least every 40 days for hygienic reasons. However, within a month, I ...
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I had an unlawful relationship. Will Allah forgive me? [closed]

I had sex with my boyfriend who is already married. We are planning to marry now. I feel it will be a great injustice for his first wife since he has 3 little kids. Will Allah forgive me for my sins ...
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Why is there a difference of opinion on sex changes for transsexuals?

Hi I am 27 years old man and I recently found out that the unstoppable urge that I felt since I was a kid is called Transsexuality. Now my question is, why is sex change forbidden for Sunni Muslims ...
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I had unintentional sex with my wife while fasting. Can I still proceed with fasting? Are there other consequences?

I had sex with my wife after morning suhoor at 5:30am. It was the feeling that cause it, it was not intentional. Can I still proceed with my fasting? And what else is implication of this?
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Does oral sex during the day in Ramadan invalidate the fast?

How about, if the wife who is not fasting gives oral sex to the husband who is fasting without ejaculation taking place? Is it permitted?
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If the husband is fasting for Ramadan and the wife is not fasting, is it permissible to have sex?

If the husband is fasting for Ramadan and the wife is not fasting, is it permissible to have sexual intercourse without ejaculation? If anyone did like that due to misguidance, what is the rule in ...
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What can a man do to satisfy his sexual desires when he cannot have relations with his wife?

I know the fact, that a husband and wife are told to distance themselves while a women is on menstruation, but what and how can a man satisfy his sexual desires? I have come to a point where I cannot ...
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Is it permissible to exercise if it stimulates the prostate, building up sexual tension?

When I was working out, I suddenly felt a strange feeling down. At first, I thought that it is coming from my abdomen, but then I realised that sexual tension was building up, so I stopped doing this ...
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Fingering your own anus for masturbation purposes [duplicate]

I'm a 19 year old male, who tried my best to quit masturbation by various techniques from keeping myself busy. However, I definitely intend to quit and the only way to do that quick as I researched is ...
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Is pleasuring yourself without ejaculation permitted?

I know masturbation is haram in Islam, but what about simulating one's sex organs without ejaculation? If I fear I may masturbate, is it permissible to touch or simulate my genitals but just not ...
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In Islam, does masturbation break chastity? [closed]

"And those who guard their chastity (i.e. private parts, from illegal sexual acts). Except from their wives or (the captives and slaves) that their right hands possess, - for them, they are free from ...
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What is Islam's perception of chastity?

The Holy Quran clearly emphasizes that both men and women must guard their chastity. "For muslim men and women, for believing men and women. for men and women who are patient and constant. for men ...
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What to do when I'm incapable of finding a partner to marry due to a medical condition?

I have been suffering with two medical issues since childhood and am on life saving medicines which I have to take three times a day. Due to my medical issues, I have been rejected marriage proposals ...
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Masturbation is haram but what is the scientific reason? [closed]

[topic is masturbation but the question is different. So please read before marking it duplicate/negative. I've already read whole masturbation discussion and posting because I didn't find answer to ...
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Any scientific logic on prohibiting porn (pornography)?

I already know that pornography is haram and harmful. I just want someone to explain me its reason scientifically. Can anybody do that? What reactions looking at nude pictures do in a human body? I'm ...
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Are women who are divorced after the consummation entitled to maintenance?

Can a woman demand maintenance from her husband if she was divorced after the consummation of the marriage? What is the view of the majority of the scholars regarding this?
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Is it haram in Islam to read about sex?

Can I read about sex? I mean is it allowed or is it halal to read about sex? Can we like read about sex if we are reading it for our knowledge?
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Is there any prohibition found that no sex for 40 days after the passing away of a father or mother?

My father passed away few days ago and we are living together. Is there any restriction on having sex with my wife while living in the same house? Someone told me that I need to wait a minimum of 40 ...
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I have been married for 9 months without sex; is my nikkah valid?

I have been married for 9 months and my husband and I have not even had one sexual relation. Is my nikkah valid? We didn't even sleep together on the wedding night.
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In Islam, do double standards apply to women in regards to sex?

Humans in general everywhere let men have sex casually but if a woman does it, it is frowned because of double standards. Question: In Islam, do double standards apply to women in regards to sex? ...
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Is it halal to have oral sex with the spouse?

Is it permissible for a married couple to engage in oral sex? I heard it was forbidden for men to indulge in oral sex but women can do it as she is liable to please her husband in every possible way. ...
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Why does the woman have to go through the pain of giving birth? [closed]

In Islam we are treated fairly and equally in a just manner. However, a woman is told that if her husband calls her then she has to answer, she has to asker permission to go out, she has to serve her ...
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How to attain full purity? Please see details

Assalamoalaikum. I have a question in my mind from past few days. The question is that after having sexual intercourse or, say, after masturbating one does ghusl to attain purity. But what if some ...
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After sex shall we touch our son without Ghusl[Bath]

I'm listening this from my elder's that don't touch or lift the children's without ghusl [taking bath] if couples had sex. But I have one year old boy, Is this right to touch or feed him milk without ...
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If a husband and wife get divorced before the marriage was consummated, is it possible to remarry?

If a husband and wife get divorced before the marriage was consummated, although they made love but didn't have intercourse, is it possible to remarry?
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Is it haram to imagine someone you don't know naked?

It started when I was 12 years old when I started thinking something lewd, like imagining someone (male/female) naked in front of or not in front of anyone. I don't visualize myself and there and no ...