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Will Allah forgive for dating a muslim guy?

I'm in a relationship with this muslim guy and we're from the same ethnicity and we do have plans for the future but I still don't know if what I'm doing is right...
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Do I have a liability towards my wife's brothers?

My mother-in-law passed away last year and ever since, I have taken care of her children's financial responsibility. They do not see their dad, after their parents divorce. I moved into their house, ...
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Is it must to follow a negative result after praying istikhara

Assalamu aleykum I had relationship with a boy for nearly 2 years. We chose each other for our deen and planned to get married. Alhamdulilah our parents accepted. Within our relationship we had ...
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My partner isn’t a practicing muslim

Salaam all, I was born into a Muslim family. However when I was roughly 12/13 I lost my path in Islam and did some displeasing things up until I was 20. I ended up getting pregnant with my partner ...
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What is the ruling on marrying your second cousins son? [duplicate]

I needed to know Is it permissible to marry your second cousins son? So his great Grandad and my grandad Are brothers (both from our fathers side). Therefore I am his second cousin once removed. To me,...
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What are responsibilities of muslims towards a grave?

Assalamu'alaikum I would like to know what the responsibilities are of a muslim towards a grave of a deceased family or friend? For instance, with regards i) maintenance of a grave: who is ...
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How to display displeasure to my wife

What is the correct & proper way from Sunnah to display displeasure to my wife? We recently got married & I am concerned that if I incorrectly display my displeasure with her recently decision,...
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Does kissing/touching a non-spouse female break the fast?

I understand that it is wrong to kiss or touch a woman that is not your lawful spouse but my question is : does it break the fast to touch, kiss, or do any non sexual acts with her ?
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Muslim husband seeing his child with her mother alone in their home

My husband just found out he had a 1 year old child. The mother is non Muslim. He goes over there to see baby alone. I do not like mother’s dialogue with my husband. She is personal with him and way ...
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Is it haram to like a boy who is 3/4 years older?? I'm 15 he's 18 [duplicate]

I like this boy who is in his last year of sixth form (yr 13) and I'm in year 10 and I really like him. He's been so kind to me and so funny and I've walked home the same way as him and he ends up ...
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Will Allah punish me for leaving her for sake of Allah?

I was in a relationship with a girl and we were together about 2 years. But when I come to know that Islam doesn't permit us these relationships before marriage. I left her with a message that wait ...
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Sexual orientation

Is it haram to be attracted to the same gender but not have sex with them? For instance having a crush on a female and being female but not dating them or have sex.
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Loves another girl

I'm a girl and gt engaged... I love a girl ,she is 10 yrs younger than me. . And we're in love each other.. bt no any physical relationship.. I was read that is ,In Islam ,if one loves another, tell ...
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Are Oral Pleasures Considered An Act Of Zina if not married?

If so, what are not acts of zina that I could preform to pleasure the one I'm marrying?
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Searching for help in my relationship Islamic wise [closed]

I'm 19 and I just met this guy (27 yo) around 2 weeks ago who works in the same mall as mine. He was the one who initiated whatever our relationship is right now (he has been looking at me everytime I ...
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What if one remains in limit in the relationship during these days?

I have relationship with a girl for about two years. We just text each other. And we promised each other not to come close to each other until we marry And by the grace of Allah we're fullfilling it ...
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Is breaking promise and heart bad?

I have a girlfriend and we promised not to leave each other. But I came to know that these are haram relations. So can I leave her and break my promise and her heart. Can I be forgiven?
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Is it tohmat to assume that two people are together?

Is it tohmat to assume that two people are together if you’ve seen pictures of them together? And then tell your nearest about it even though you aren’t 100% sure?
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Having contact with lover or fiance before marriage

In this new world we adopt many things which are prohibited in Islam. I want to ask that if a person daily contacts his lover or fiance so what does Islam says about this. We think that man and woman ...
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Friends with the opposite gender

I have a best friend from the opposite gender, we talk online through chatting apps and we have normal conversations at school, we are never alone together always in a public setting, we have never ...
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Ties of kinship question

My mother gave me up for adoption.Her parents persuaded (or even forced) her to do it because in where she lives, it was great shame to have illegitimate child. So basically, my family rejected me to ...
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Are we allowed to have friends of the opposite gender?

I stopped my wife from having male friends online and also because of this I blocked all those people from her Facebook account. And whenever she talks to male friends I check her conversation and ...
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Is it allowed to be friends with a muslim Jinn?

I'm really interested in Jinn (how they're made of fire and stuff, I love science), but I'm also religious so I don't have any intention of asking favors or anything, just to talk and be friends. It ...
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Is dating allowed in Islam? [duplicate]

It is essential for anybody to know his or her partner well enough before marriage so that he or she may decide whether to go in matrimonial relation with that person or not. So for that purpose, ...
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Is it haram for a Muslim girl and a Hindu boy to have a relationship?

I met a girl on social site and met her only once during her birthday. The main problem is that she’s a Muslim girl and I belong to a Hindu family. She refused by saying that her religion doesn’t ...
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Do I have to stop my relationship with a girl in another country who I cannot afford to marry?

I am in a serious relationship with a girl who lives in another country for 3 months. We want to get married, but I am not financially independent yet. It will take 1 to 2 years for me to become ...
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How can I control my sexual urges since I am unmarried and single? [closed]

Assalamualikum brother and sister, I am so ashamed to ask for a solution to my problem, but, I hope I can get an answer. When I was like around 12 years old, I was sexually harrassed by a married ...
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Is it haram to never speak to a sibling ever again?

To make a long story short I have an estranged relationship with my sister. We grew very much apart after our parents divorced. I don't want to get too much into detail but she did something so awful ...
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In what circumstance a Muslim can break the kinship?

Asalaam Alikum I want to know that in what circumstances a Muslim can break the Kinship. If a Sister leaves the home and marry against the will & in Absence of Moharram, Does the Family can ...
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Is it permissible for an engaged women and man to have sex and go out together and touch each other?

I had a doubt about engaged man and woman. Is it permissible for an engaged women and man to have sex and go out together and touch each other
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Why exactly is it haram to have a girlfriend?

I don't really understand why it is haram to have a relationship with the opposite sex (with no sexual intercourse), or even just be friends. If I meet a girl, I would like to get to know her before ...
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How can I remain in contact with my girlfriend in an Islamic way?

Me and my girlfriend are in an innocent relationship, but after 2 months she said we are doing it wrong: it's against the Islamic way. How can I remain in contact with her in an Islamic way? What ...
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Relationship without marriage [duplicate]

First of all, Assalamu Alaikum I am a Muslim guy and I have been in a long distance relationship with this athiest girl for 4 years now, I told her that I intend to marry her in the future but she'...
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Who does “male attendants having no physical desire” refer to in Qur'an 24:31?

I wanted to ask a question about the following verse: And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [...
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Between wife or mother who has the right to stay in the son/husband's house?

Let's say that a man's wife and mother have a huge argument/fight. This issue has been brewing between them for a while, and there is no way for them to have peace with each other. There have been ...
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Islam related question [closed]

A.O.A dear friends n fellows... I have a question... I have been in a relationship wid a lady... She was my collegue n we happened to develop likeness for each other... N confessed to each other about ...
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How can a Muslim woman indicate her willingness to be an obedient wife to a prospective husband?

NewMuslims.com lists five qualities Muslim men should look for when seeking a wife: 1. Taqwa (piety), 2. Affectionate nature, 3. Obedience, 4. Patience, 5. Contentment. If a Muslim woman was ...
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Can my muslim husband have a friendship with an older woman, because she is like his mother?

What relationships are lawful in Islam with husband and wife? Can my husband be in friendship with another women and give the excuse, that she is just like his mother? Is this permissible in Islam? I ...
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Can a couple consummate their marriage outside the home? [duplicate]

I don't mean outdoors where they can be seen by someone else, but perhaps in a hotel or something like that. For example, they may go out to dinner at a restaurant, and stay the night at a hotel. ...
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Is it haram to sleep with my Muslim boyfriend before converting to Islam?

I am a Christian and have a Muslim boyfriend. I am separated, since 14 years ago. I know my boyfriend will not marry me but I do love him, and I promised that he will be my second and last men in my ...
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How to overcome the relationship history of my intended wife? [closed]

My parents found a match for me and we met each other and got engaged. My life immediately got better after we started talking to each other - I started offering salah 5 times (she does too). We call ...
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For a newlywed couple, is a distanced relationship grounds for divorce? [duplicate]

Suppose we have a newlywed couple who have known each other a short time, but with limited conversations about beliefs/future etc. What if the couple do not get along such as that there is a "...
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Seeking advice regarding the abusive and argumentative relationship I have with my husband [closed]

I'm seeking advice because I dont want to divorce my husband. However, I feel I'm left with no other choice. We recently married back in January 2016, but things have been up and down. I have 2 jobs, ...
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Why do we mix faith in God with moral values?

I am discovering Islam and reading the Quran. I am also looking through this website to add some perspectives. Something that I don't understand is why Islam mixes faith in God - let's say "personal" ...
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Are relations on Earth not valuable for Muslims?

Someone said to me that according to Islam a person lives a small part (1/infinity) of his life on Earth and the remainder after he dies in a new place (infinity). He said, the best parents get ...
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Who can be a chaperone when talking to a potential woman?

I would like to know who can be a chaperone when you want to get to know a potential woman? For the purposes of marriage of course. Can a friend of the woman be a sufficient chaperone? Please offer ...
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I'm a transgender considering converting to Islam for boyfriend [closed]

My boyfriend is muslim. We dated for 2 years and I complete my post op about 3 months ago and am now a complete woman now. About 2 months ago he says he cannot be with me anymore because I'm not ...
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What should I do about prior attempts at seeking relationships and the effect it has with my current fiancé?

My fiancé question me as to whether I have a boyfriend and/or sexual relationship. I told him that I did not have any. But shaitan misguided him and he saw a boy in my Facebook account and thought he ...
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Relationship without any physical contact is acceptable?

I'm a girl of 18 years and have been in a relationship with my cousin brother from past 1 and half year we haven't touched each other yet we just talk on the phone weekly, or after a long time, and ...
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I had an unlawful relationship. Will Allah forgive me? [closed]

I had sex with my boyfriend who is already married. We are planning to marry now. I feel it will be a great injustice for his first wife since he has 3 little kids. Will Allah forgive me for my sins ...