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Advice about "temporary marriage?" (Long Post, trying to save a relationship) [closed]

Salaam everyone. I've come to this site because I need some advice about a bit of a desperate situation with my boyfriend and I'm not really sure where else to turn. SUMMARY: My boyfriend and I have ...
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Do I have to keep relation with my rude & cruel atheist brother? [duplicate]

My elder brother is an atheist and so much rude & cruel to us that sometimes he even beats my parents specially my mother is the victim! You can't imagine what he has done to my family. I don't ...
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Is it okay to lie to avoid hanging out with opposite gender?

Assalamu'Alaikum, Before I was religious, I was friends with many people of the opposite gender (non-muslim). However I have become more religious (Alhumdullilah) and realise it is not permitted in ...
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Sibling kinship

Assalamualaykum I have a situation with siblings who disobey and disrespect my mother. I always fight for her and protect her from their mistreatments resulting in my four siblings turning against me. ...
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Relationship with girlfriend

i have a girlfriend… and our relationship is long distance… we can’t meet even we want…if possible we will direct marry… bt my question is …my relationship will be under zina or adultry? or just haram
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Suffering siblings abuse [closed]

Is there somebody who can help me. I am really going through a hard phase both financially and emotionally My sister has made my life a living hell She always fights with me and God forbid if i say ...
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How to repent for breaking relationship?

I used to like a guy a few years a back. I was 19 back then. I was obsessed with him. I used to make dua to get him as my husband. But i didn’t know if he had any girlfriend or not. But i asked for ...
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How did Prophet Muhammad (pbuh) maintain relationships with his uncle Abu Lahab?

According to this hadith, we must never sever ties of kinship: The severer would not enter Paradise. Ibn Umar said that Sufyan (explained it as): One who severs the tie of kinship would not enter ...
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I am in an online “relationship “ with a girl but don’t know if it’s halal?

So this new Muslim whom I met online and I plan to marry but we don’t know if it would happen due to fear of my parents not accepting due to culture . We are both young (20 and 18) And would like to ...
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This questions is regarding Silat Al Rahim, maintaining ties of kinship. Please see the question below:

I had a fight with my father, left the house and moved to different location, then my father also moved to a different location. I want to patch up with him now but he does not want to keep any ...
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Upholding ties of kinship with deviant relatives

Is it allowed to give salam or to respond to the salam of my family members who follow a deviant sufi sect? If I don't say salam my family members get suspicious and angry at me because I always used ...
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Can I marry the sister of my ex girlfriend?

I had relationship with my cousin 6 years ago. now my parents want me to marry her younger sister. is it permissible? should I accept this marriage? Kindly guide.
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Is it allowed in Islam to see a person you love? [closed]

In 2018, when I gave my first interview I fell in love at first sight with the person who was taking interview without any wrong intentions. Let me tell you one thing here that I used to be a very ...
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From what point is a relationship considered haram?

My question is, is being in a relationship fine if there is nothing haram in it but just a tag. We do nothing haram, nor meet but it's just that there's this relationship tag. Also please let me know ...
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Can a homosexual practicing Muslim still enter paradise?

I know for a fact that every Muslim whomsoever has the Shahada on their tongue will enter paradise. Would that also mean that a Muslim who is in a haram gay relationship/marriage and continues to ...
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If a girl and a boy decided to stop being in a relationship and wait until allah brings them together ..is it permissible?

I've had a crush on a boy when I was small cause of his character,personality and everything.but I never told anyone about it and prayed to allah daily for his goodness,health and everything.i didnt ...
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Relationship and mahram

Assalamualikum. I have a question. I know a boy who is kind of sexually attracted to his mother. But it was all in his mind. He never did anything bad with his mother in reality. His parents are very ...
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Jannah Related Question

Actually my one friend never had any elder nor younger brother and sisters in this world and he spent most of his life alone and he wants to have such relations. So my question is will it be possible ...
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Is talking to a Non-Muslim opposite gender haram?

We knew each other from social media and we have been talking for years.. A few males and a few females.. (im a female) Expect one male, all others are muslims.. and its noted that now when i talk to ...
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Will ALLAH forgive my premarital relationship with my girlfriend

ASSALAMULAIKUN. I have a girlfriend whom I really love, I only love her and have my conversations with her. I don't maintain serious relationships with any other girls. Our relationship have ...
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how often should I contact relatives

Is there any ruling how often we must contact with our relatives in order to uphold ties of kinship? Please help someone.
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Is it required to uphold ties of kinship with non-mahrams?

I know it is obligatory to keep relationships with our relatives which are blood related. So is it obligatory for me to keep relationships with my uncle’s wife or aunt’s husband because they are not ...
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what does severing the ties of kinship mean?

My family has many uncles and aunts and It is not possible to contact with them frequently and they live very far away from us. Will it be severing the ties of kinship if I don't contact with some of ...
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Will Allah forgive for dating a muslim guy? [closed]

I'm in a relationship with this muslim guy and we're from the same ethnicity and we do have plans for the future but I still don't know if what I'm doing is right...
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Is it must to follow a negative result after praying istikhara

Assalamu aleykum I had relationship with a boy for nearly 2 years. We chose each other for our deen and planned to get married. Alhamdulilah our parents accepted. Within our relationship we had ...
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Does kissing/touching a non-spouse female break the fast?

I understand that it is wrong to kiss or touch a woman that is not your lawful spouse but my question is : does it break the fast to touch, kiss, or do any non sexual acts with her ?
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Muslim husband seeing his child with her mother alone in their home

My husband just found out he had a 1 year old child. The mother is non Muslim. He goes over there to see baby alone. I do not like mother’s dialogue with my husband. She is personal with him and way ...
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Will Allah punish me for leaving her for sake of Allah?

I was in a relationship with a girl and we were together about 2 years. But when I come to know that Islam doesn't permit us these relationships before marriage. I left her with a message that wait ...
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Sexual orientation

Is it haram to be attracted to the same gender but not have sex with them? For instance having a crush on a female and being female but not dating them or have sex.
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Loves another girl

I'm a girl and gt engaged... I love a girl ,she is 10 yrs younger than me. . And we're in love each other.. bt no any physical relationship.. I was read that is ,In Islam ,if one loves another, tell ...
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Are Oral Pleasures Considered An Act Of Zina if not married?

If so, what are not acts of zina that I could preform to pleasure the one I'm marrying?
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What if one remains in limit in the relationship during these days?

I have relationship with a girl for about two years. We just text each other. And we promised each other not to come close to each other until we marry And by the grace of Allah we're fullfilling it ...
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Is breaking promise and heart bad?

I have a girlfriend and we promised not to leave each other. But I came to know that these are haram relations. So can I leave her and break my promise and her heart. Can I be forgiven?
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Is it tohmat to assume that two people are together?

Is it tohmat to assume that two people are together if you’ve seen pictures of them together? And then tell your nearest about it even though you aren’t 100% sure?
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Having contact with lover or fiance before marriage

In this new world we adopt many things which are prohibited in Islam. I want to ask that if a person daily contacts his lover or fiance so what does Islam says about this. We think that man and woman ...
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Friends with the opposite gender

I have a best friend from the opposite gender, we talk online through chatting apps and we have normal conversations at school, we are never alone together always in a public setting, we have never ...
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Ties of kinship question

My mother gave me up for adoption.Her parents persuaded (or even forced) her to do it because in where she lives, it was great shame to have illegitimate child. So basically, my family rejected me to ...
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Are we allowed to have friends of the opposite gender?

I stopped my wife from having male friends online and also because of this I blocked all those people from her Facebook account. And whenever she talks to male friends I check her conversation and ...
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Is it allowed to be friends with a muslim Jinn?

I'm really interested in Jinn (how they're made of fire and stuff, I love science), but I'm also religious so I don't have any intention of asking favors or anything, just to talk and be friends. It ...
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Is dating allowed in Islam? [duplicate]

It is essential for anybody to know his or her partner well enough before marriage so that he or she may decide whether to go in matrimonial relation with that person or not. So for that purpose, ...
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Is it haram for a Muslim girl and a Hindu boy to have a relationship?

I met a girl on social site and met her only once during her birthday. The main problem is that she’s a Muslim girl and I belong to a Hindu family. She refused by saying that her religion doesn’t ...
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Do I have to stop my relationship with a girl in another country who I cannot afford to marry?

I am in a serious relationship with a girl who lives in another country for 3 months. We want to get married, but I am not financially independent yet. It will take 1 to 2 years for me to become ...
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How can I control my sexual urges since I am unmarried and single? [closed]

Assalamualikum brother and sister, I am so ashamed to ask for a solution to my problem, but, I hope I can get an answer. When I was like around 12 years old, I was sexually harrassed by a married ...
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Is it haram to never speak to a sibling ever again?

To make a long story short I have an estranged relationship with my sister. We grew very much apart after our parents divorced. I don't want to get too much into detail but she did something so awful ...
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In what circumstance a Muslim can break the kinship?

Asalaam Alikum I want to know that in what circumstances a Muslim can break the Kinship. If a Sister leaves the home and marry against the will & in Absence of Moharram, Does the Family can ...
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Is it permissible for an engaged women and man to have sex and go out together and touch each other?

I had a doubt about engaged man and woman. Is it permissible for an engaged women and man to have sex and go out together and touch each other
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Why exactly is it haram to have a girlfriend?

I don't really understand why it is haram to have a relationship with the opposite sex (with no sexual intercourse), or even just be friends. If I meet a girl, I would like to get to know her before ...
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How can I remain in contact with my girlfriend in an Islamic way?

Me and my girlfriend are in an innocent relationship, but after 2 months she said we are doing it wrong: it's against the Islamic way. How can I remain in contact with her in an Islamic way? What ...
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Relationship without marriage [duplicate]

First of all, Assalamu Alaikum I am a Muslim guy and I have been in a long distance relationship with this athiest girl for 4 years now, I told her that I intend to marry her in the future but she'...
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Who does "male attendants having no physical desire" refer to in Qur'an 24:31?

I wanted to ask a question about the following verse: And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [...