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Questions tagged [relationships]

Use this tag for relationships in general except for marriage

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Committed zinah [duplicate]

I will go straight that I have committed on of the major sins.. I have committed zinah many times.. I thought I have left this sin but recently again I have done it...but this time I'm very much ...
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Friends with the opposite gender

I have a best friend from the opposite gender, we talk online through chatting apps and we have normal conversations at school, we are never alone together always in a public setting, we have never ...
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Ties of kinship question

My mother gave me up for adoption.Her parents persuaded (or even forced) her to do it because in where she lives, it was great shame to have illegitimate child. So basically, my family rejected me to ...
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On marrying distant relative [duplicate]

I have been part of a recent family gathering for the past week and I'm curious on whether marrying a certain relative is possible for me as I have been starting to gain extremely strong feelings for ...
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Are we allowed to have friends of the opposite gender?

I stopped my wife from having male friends online and also because of this I blocked all those people from her Facebook account. And whenever she talks to male friends I check her conversation and ...
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Is it allowed to be friends with a muslim Jinn?

I'm really interested in Jinn (how they're made of fire and stuff, I love science), but I'm also religious so I don't have any intention of asking favors or anything, just to talk and be friends. It ...
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Is dating allowed in Islam? [duplicate]

It is essential for anybody to know his or her partner well enough before marriage so that he or she may decide whether to go in matrimonial relation with that person or not. So for that purpose, ...
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Is it haram for a Muslim girl and a Hindu boy to have a relationship?

I met a girl on social site and met her only once during her birthday. The main problem is that she’s a Muslim girl and I belong to a Hindu family. She refused by saying that her religion doesn’t ...
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Do I have to stop my relationship with a girl in another country who I cannot afford to marry?

I am in a serious relationship with a girl who lives in another country for 3 months. We want to get married, but I am not financially independent yet. It will take 1 to 2 years for me to become ...
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How can I control my sexual urges since I am unmarried and single? [closed]

Assalamualikum brother and sister, I am so ashamed to ask for a solution to my problem, but, I hope I can get an answer. When I was like around 12 years old, I was sexually harrassed by a married ...
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Is it haram to never speak to a sibling ever again?

To make a long story short I have an estranged relationship with my sister. We grew very much apart after our parents divorced. I don't want to get too much into detail but she did something so awful ...
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In what circumstance a Muslim can break the kinship?

Asalaam Alikum I want to know that in what circumstances a Muslim can break the Kinship. If a Sister leaves the home and marry against the will & in Absence of Moharram, Does the Family can ...
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Is it permissible for an engaged women and man to have sex and go out together and touch each other?

I had a doubt about engaged man and woman. Is it permissible for an engaged women and man to have sex and go out together and touch each other
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Why exactly is it haram to have a girlfriend?

I don't really understand why it is haram to have a relationship with the opposite sex (with no sexual intercourse), or even just be friends. If I meet a girl, I would like to get to know her before ...
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How can I remain in contact with my girlfriend in an Islamic way?

Me and my girlfriend are in an innocent relationship, but after 2 months she said we are doing it wrong: it's against the Islamic way. How can I remain in contact with her in an Islamic way? What ...
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Relationship without marriage [duplicate]

First of all, Assalamu Alaikum I am a Muslim guy and I have been in a long distance relationship with this athiest girl for 4 years now, I told her that I intend to marry her in the future but she'...
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Who does “male attendants having no physical desire” refer to in Qur'an 24:31?

I wanted to ask a question about the following verse: And tell the believing women to reduce [some] of their vision and guard their private parts and not expose their adornment except that which [...
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Between wife or mother who has the right to stay in the son/husband's house?

Let's say that a man's wife and mother have a huge argument/fight. This issue has been brewing between them for a while, and there is no way for them to have peace with each other. There have been ...
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Islam related question [closed]

A.O.A dear friends n fellows... I have a question... I have been in a relationship wid a lady... She was my collegue n we happened to develop likeness for each other... N confessed to each other about ...
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How can a Muslim woman indicate her willingness to be an obedient wife to a prospective husband?

NewMuslims.com lists five qualities Muslim men should look for when seeking a wife: 1. Taqwa (piety), 2. Affectionate nature, 3. Obedience, 4. Patience, 5. Contentment. If a Muslim woman was ...
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Can my muslim husband have a friendship with an older woman, because she is like his mother?

What relationships are lawful in Islam with husband and wife? Can my husband be in friendship with another women and give the excuse, that she is just like his mother? Is this permissible in Islam? I ...
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Can a couple consummate their marriage outside the home? [duplicate]

I don't mean outdoors where they can be seen by someone else, but perhaps in a hotel or something like that. For example, they may go out to dinner at a restaurant, and stay the night at a hotel. ...
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Is it haram to sleep with my Muslim boyfriend before converting to Islam?

I am a Christian and have a Muslim boyfriend. I am separated, since 14 years ago. I know my boyfriend will not marry me but I do love him, and I promised that he will be my second and last men in my ...
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How to overcome the relationship history of my intended wife? [closed]

My parents found a match for me and we met each other and got engaged. My life immediately got better after we started talking to each other - I started offering salah 5 times (she does too). We call ...
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For a newlywed couple, is a distanced relationship grounds for divorce? [duplicate]

Suppose we have a newlywed couple who have known each other a short time, but with limited conversations about beliefs/future etc. What if the couple do not get along such as that there is a "...
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Seeking advice regarding the abusive and argumentative relationship I have with my husband [closed]

I'm seeking advice because I dont want to divorce my husband. However, I feel I'm left with no other choice. We recently married back in January 2016, but things have been up and down. I have 2 jobs, ...
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Why do we mix faith in God with moral values?

I am discovering Islam and reading the Quran. I am also looking through this website to add some perspectives. Something that I don't understand is why Islam mixes faith in God - let's say "personal" ...
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Are relations on Earth not valuable for Muslims?

Someone said to me that according to Islam a person lives a small part (1/infinity) of his life on Earth and the remainder after he dies in a new place (infinity). He said, the best parents get ...
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Who can be a chaperone when talking to a woman?

I would like to know who can be a chaperone when you want to get to know someone? For the purposes of marriage of course. Can a friend of the woman be a sufficient chaperone? Please offer citations/...
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I'm a transgender considering converting to Islam for boyfriend [closed]

My boyfriend is muslim. We dated for 2 years and I complete my post op about 3 months ago and am now a complete woman now. About 2 months ago he says he cannot be with me anymore because I'm not ...
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What should I do about prior attempts at seeking relationships and the effect it has with my current fiancé?

My fiancé question me as to whether I have a boyfriend and/or sexual relationship. I told him that I did not have any. But shaitan misguided him and he saw a boy in my Facebook account and thought he ...
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Relationship without any physical contact is acceptable?

I'm a girl of 18 years and have been in a relationship with my cousin brother from past 1 and half year we haven't touched each other yet we just talk on the phone weekly, or after a long time, and ...
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I had an unlawful relationship. Will Allah forgive me? [closed]

I had sex with my boyfriend who is already married. We are planning to marry now. I feel it will be a great injustice for his first wife since he has 3 little kids. Will Allah forgive me for my sins ...
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Am I allowed to have female friends according to Islam?

I was in a relation with a girl! But we realized that it's haram, so by the will of ALLAH I broke up with her and made tawba, and I promised her that I will try my best to ask for her hands to her ...
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Is it haram to have a crush on someone?

Is it haram to have a crush on someone? I have a crush on this girl (who is also Muslim) but I haven't yet spoken to her properly. I haven't made much effort to get in touch with her or have any ...
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Is it wrong to meet a boy or girl before marriage and hold hands and talk to each other on the phone?

I'm 19 years old and I love my cousin. We love each other and want to marry. My parents have died. But his parents are late in participating in our nikah. We met in alone. But we didn't have any ...
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New Muslim in need of help [closed]

Truly there is no God but Allah and Allah is the creator and sustainer of all that existed, exists and can exist. Asalamu Alaikum, I am a recent convert 2 months in April and I have one very big ...
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Is it acceptable in Islam for a married man to meet another woman and catch up with her without the presence of his wife?

What do you think of a husband going out for lunch with another woman (who's an old close friend and not muslim, unmarried but in a relationship), just the two of them but in a restaurant in a public ...
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Non of you are believers till he loves his brother for himself does it apply to women too?

I was asked by a non-Muslim about this hadith and now I am curious too. I know Muslim brothers must want the best for each other. Does the hadeeth mean that Muslim men must want the best to their ...
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Can father in law and the daughter in law have food in the same plate as a husband wife eats…?

As my father rejects the saying about this, I wanted to confirm if is it legitimate fr a father in law to eat in the same plate with daughter in law
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Why Prophet not called father but his wives are mothers of believers?

Muhammad is not the father of [any] one of your men, but [he is] the Messenger of Allah and last of the prophets. And ever is Allah , of all things, Knowing. - (Qur'an 33:40) But, in the same Surah, ...
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Is it allowed to make relations with Non Mehrams in social media? [duplicate]

I have noticed that people are very closed to the social media. Some people are involve in to relations with Non-mehrams. But my question is that if ladies are following shariah completely like doing ...
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Can a woman make an unknown person her brother and share her life story with him?

Can a woman make an unknown person her brother and share her life story with him?
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Difference between non-mahram friendship and non-mahram love relationship?

I just want to know the difference between these two. Someone was actually arguing with me about non-mahram friendship and non-mahram love relationship and I told him that for me non-mahram love ...
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Islam's advice for positive relationships

I'm wondering what advice Islam gives for forming and maintaining positive relationships. Not just romantic relationships, but family, friendships, work relationships, etc. Are there any quotes from ...
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Should I divorce my wife after discovering her past relations with other man? [closed]

If a husband gets to know about his wife's past relations with other man. Is it permissible to divorce her then? Though she is sincere and has changed her self and is faithful to her husband.
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No relationship between husband and wife from three years

What if there is no relationship from consecutive 3 years between a husband and wife and they have intention to divorce each other but did not do this because of family pressure? What is the status of ...
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Relationship before nikah

I am a muslim girl and I am committed.My parents don't know about this relationship.Will they get punished for this on the last day?
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Turning my (illicite?) civil union into marriage

I'm a Muslim immigrant who went to France for a better life. Well, year after year, I found myself throwing away my religion (except Ramadan): no more praying, eating non-halal food, having ...
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Is a man allowed to deny his wife sexually?

Lets imagine that a man's wife had upset him a great deal day in day out over many years (to the extent that it is considered emotional abuse where he needs counselling to recover). To show his wife ...