Questions tagged [parents]
Refers usually to the biological father and mother
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What to do if I stole something but I am too selfish and scared to return it
So 6 month ago I stole 335$ from my parent because I wanted a phone but after I realized that I needed more and I couldn’t get it cause my parent were home so then it got me thinking and I immediately ...
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How do you pay your debts to your parents?
I heard that praying and asking Allah is the best way besides trying your best to give parents what they deserve.
They sacrificed everything they had for my future. I miss them a lot.
What are some ...
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Bad Thoughts about parents
Having bad thoughts or bad words thoughts about parents will Allah punish such person ? Is it a sin?
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Respecting parents who aren't deserving of the respect
Islam says our parents have the right to be respected. What if they don't deserve it? Does "respect" in this context mean that we should not disrespect them or does it mean that we must respect them?
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Islam says we must obey our parents. What about when they ask us to do ridiculous things?
My father asks me to do a lot of things that he's too lazy to do himself, and these things seem very wrong.
An example of this is him calling me from the mosque to come back home to turn on the TV ...
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Dealing with a toxic father in islam
I have an overdemanding, selfish, abusive(physically and verbally), oppressive, bossy, fornicating and unreligious father. He is a Muslim but doesn't even know how to pray properly. He doesn't fully ...
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What is said about getting good deeds when helping sick parents?
My mother was very sick so I had to stay and sleep in the hospital for a few days and help her with walking, going to the bathroom, calling the nurse, trying to feed her,...etc. She is much better now ...
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What does Islam say when dealing with stupid and arrogant parents?
Not every parents are inclined towards truth, some of them are just following their desires, no reasoning, and always trying to justify their act on us (their kids) despite some of them claim to be a ...
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Asking for forgiveness in islam
I'm an orphan. When i was young there are times that i disobey my parents when they are still alive. My question is, is that true that Allah wont accept me and all my ibadah and wont look at me on ...
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How to know that my father who has passed away some days ago is forgiven by Allah and he is at the best place?
My father has passed away a few weeks ago. I miss him dearly. I am desperate to know that he is better placed, Allah had mercy on him, he is in Jannah and he does not have any regrets and sorrows in ...
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Is my father allowed not to distribute his property to his daughters while alive?
My father has land . He has 4 daughters and no sons . He does not divide the land and give to daughters . He doesn't like to give .
He says, take the land after I died.
What's the Islamic ruling on ...
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Is contacting a shop without your parents knowing wrong?
Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu,
I would like to know,
if i'm not sure if a certain food is contaminated with any other haraam food, contacting the people who owns the shop without my ...
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Is "uff" to parents haram even if it wasn't said to them?
Is saying "uff" to parents haram but if you said it because, for example, they confused you so you used "uff" because you were confused, is that also haram?
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Who should you obey if your parents contradict each other?
Who should you listen to from your parents if they contradict each other? For example if your father first ordered you to not be an engineer but to be a doctor, and then your mother order you to not ...
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Respect of children
What if parents disrespect their children.
Some time parents disrespect their own children they abuse their children. We often heared about the rights of parents but what about rights of children of ...
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Not allowed to have sex because of her parents
Asalamu alaikum brothers and sisters,
The situation is that I live in Europe and my wife lives in Pakistan because I have not finished my study yet to have proper income for bringing my wife to ...
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Disobeying parents
Asalamualaikum,
I am asking for my cousin
I wanted to know if disobeying your parents is haram under this circumstance.
I have got A levels within a few months and I need to study. However my mother ...
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Clarity regarding Aq Al-Walidayn
As-Salamu alaikum brothers and sisters, I want to know if for example,
(1) your mother told you to put the milk on the fridge, and you don't do it because you're too tired, is this Aq Al-Walidayn?
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How will Allah forgive me after shouting at my father?
My parents fight so much. My father screams at my mother and sometimes hit her (lightly) but it affects me and everyone in the house because we get scared.
One day my father was super angry and ...
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Is breastfeeding optional in Islam?
In Surah Baqarah (2) Allah says:
Mothers may breastfeed their children two complete years for whoever
wishes to complete the nursing [period]. Upon the father is the
mothers' provision and their ...
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What are the boundaries of obeying parents?
If one's parents are sinners, how can that person obey them ? What are the boundaries of obeying parents ?
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For a married women, who's order is superior father or husband according to Islamic point of view?
Who's orders are superior for a married women father or her husband? What is in Islam about this thing?
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Does A woman has a right on her husband for providing a separate house?
As from many Hadith and sunnah it is prove that man should provide a separate room to his wife.Can a woman has right on her husband that he provide him a separate house on her demand ,if he is ...
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Can a daughter give zakat to her mother ...?
if a mother is financial week and other side a daughter is financially strong then is this right to support her mother and give her money as zakat, because zakat start from your family.is this right ...
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When someone do a sin why is it said that it might happen that children of that person have to pay for it?
i have heard many people that if someone do a bad deed or commit a sin such as doing something bad to some other person. he will have to pay for it either in such a way that his childeren have to face ...
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Can I be forced by my parents?
Aoa I am a 14 year old and my father is forcing me to wear hijab. When i asked him why he wants me to do that he simply said because he doesn’t like me opening my hair and that she thinks girls look ...
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Does Islam excuse abusive parenting?
I recently learned from a well-read lecturer in my community that the Prophet (PBUH) once sat reiterating something along the lines of "Be good/obedient/dutiful to your parents" and someone asked, "...
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Is it okay for a father to hit his children as a punishment? And if so, what are the boundaries?
I just got curious on this and I want to know if this is allowed or not.
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How long do we have to obey the parents?
Do we have to obey the parents in every condition or they say or put on us, what if it is something that is continuos forever until you die, such as: always offer the sunnah prayers for every prayer, ...
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Is it obligatory to pray at the mosque for a baaligh?
I wanted to ask whether it is obligatory to pray at the mosque for someone who has reached the age of puberty, and if his parents disagree with him even thoufh he lives close, then in this matter what ...
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Can a girl tell her parents that she doesn’t want to get married at all? [duplicate]
I am a 25-year old Muslim living in the UK with my parents and siblings, and I have been in love with a non-Muslim man for 3 years. We agree this will not lead anywhere, both out families would not ...
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Can someone behave with his parents "rudely" if his parents are torturing him emotionally? [closed]
Someone's parents are very strict and unfair at many things. They torture their son emotionally. In this situation, does the son have any right to behave with his parents rudely?
If the parents ...
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Are parents responsible for their daughter not wearing hijab?
At the age of around 20, I was forced to wear hijab by my father. I don't want to wear the hijab just yet, so I've worn it on and off since then.
My dad once lectured me, forcing me to wear hijab or ...
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Minor lie in order to avoid mother's temper? sinful?
I feed a cat that isn't ours. I don't know if the owner neglects her etc. but she always comes to our house hungry.
Sometimes I buy cat food but other times when it runs out I get food from the ...
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Is it ok to raise my voice to my parents in a respectful way?
Is it ok to raise my voice to my parents in a respectful way, just out of being upset? My parents do not find it disrespectful and don’t mind it when I do that.
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Priority of a married woman: husband or terminally-ill parents? [closed]
I got married eight months back and moved to the USA with my husband. Both my parents are aged and suffer from terminally ill diseases.
My husband is very understanding and he sent me immediately to ...
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Islamically, is it okay to remind family members what you spend on them?
I never deny that my father has spent on me generously (since birth til today).. but he keeps reminding me of this constantly. Is that wrong of him to do, especially per Quran 2:264?
O you who ...
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Is it bad to leave your parents if they giving you a hard life?
Is it bad/sinful for one to leave their parents coz they wouldn't allow their child freedom to live. Wouldn't allow them to do what they want to do wid their life (halaal way of course). And verbally ...
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Can a marriage be valid if the man is a revert whose parents are Muslim and Hindu?
Can a marriage be called valid if a Muslim girl marries a man reverted to Islam and had Muslim mother and Hindu father
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Should I listen to my mother who doesn't let me do wudu because I can get sick? [closed]
I'm a teenager (less then 15) and my mom doesn't let me wudu when its Fajr and sometimes other praying times in the winter. Her reason behind this is because I can get sick (as in very sick; I think ...
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What justifies having children if there is a possibility that they will suffer eternally in the afterlife?
One of the subjects which I have been perplexed about is the conflict between procreation and antinatalism. Islam places great emphasis on the family unit and raising children. Of course, this is in ...
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Can a Man leave his parent's house to go live with his wife? [duplicate]
Can a man leave his parents' house to go live with his wife separately.
Are there any rules defined in Sharia for this or any regulations to be followed.
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Is parent respect and care due even if they abused you?
In the Qur'an we are supposed to respect and care after our parents into their old age and death in the same way they cared for us when we were babies / kids / teenagers / adults. 17:23-24 says:
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Can parents stop me from doing things that is not haram or obligate me to do something that is not wajib?
Does it matter if it's harus, makruh or sunnah?
If they can stop me from doing completely halal, then that sounds similar to the sin of making something haram to halal to me. Please clarify.
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Is praying with a child enough for Jumu'ah (congregational) prayer?
If I perform the prayer with my son, or a brother or any child (5-10 years), is my salat considered Jumu'ah or Salah al jama'ah or not?
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What should I do when my parents prohibit fasting during Ramadan?
My parents say that I won't be able to fast during to fast during Ramadan.
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Is it sinful to leave abusive parents?
Background:
I am currently going through a very emotionally distressing moment in my life where I am unsure which path to pursue.
As a child not even out of the womb my biological father did not ...
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Is it a sin to have a Ni'kah done behind your parents' back?
I am a young Muslim female (19), I am Islamic married but I have not told my parents or any of my family but there some such as my cousin sisters. All of my husband side of family know that we got ...
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What to do when my parents forbid me from marrying a girl due to caste?
I am trying to get married to someone I really like, and I have talked to her for 3 months now, not about anything bad but I know this is not the appropriate thing to do. I was not the best Muslim ...
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Does listening to someone being mocked for obeying his parents make me an unbeliever?
If a person makes fun of another person for refusing to do things his parents forbade him to do and I laugh listening to this mockery, am I a kaafir by making fun of Islam? You should know that the ...
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