Questions tagged [parents]
Refers usually to the biological father and mother
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Is motherhood the defined position for women?
Turkish president Recep Tayyip Erdogan has said
Our religion (Islam) has defined a position for women (in society): motherhood
Is this true?
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Not allowed to have sex because of her parents
Asalamu alaikum brothers and sisters,
The situation is that I live in Europe and my wife lives in Pakistan because I have not finished my study yet to have proper income for bringing my wife to ...
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how to repent after cursing one of your parents
today I made mistake by cursing my dad and saying harsh words. I definitely know how bad the situation is. but he is a bad dad and has abandoned 7 kids including me. I've been filling his place since ...
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How much right does a child have over their parents?
Sometimes the parent may be in the wrong, does the child have the right to correct their parent or go against them or is that not permissible. For example, it may be that the child has learnt ...
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Parent not allowing marriage to a converted Muslim because of perceived gossip; what is the ruling on this?
I want to marry a recently converted Muslim woman, but my mother won't allow it. My mother believes people will talk bad about the family.
Should I obey her in this situation, or am I allowed to ...
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Is "uff" to parents haram even if it wasn't said to them?
Is saying "uff" to parents haram but if you said it because, for example, they confused you so you used "uff" because you were confused, is that also haram?
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Does listening to someone being mocked for obeying his parents make me an unbeliever?
If a person makes fun of another person for refusing to do things his parents forbade him to do and I laugh listening to this mockery, am I a kaafir by making fun of Islam? You should know that the ...
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Father & Mother Issue.!
Assalam o Allaikum everyone. A couple of days ago my friend asked me a question to which I am still kinda confused.
He said,
"My dad and mom usually quarrel a lot and both of them hate other's
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Which religion to teach children when different religion parents?
Salam,
If a man is Muslim and his wife Christian, it is allowed, but which religion should be taught to children ?
Is there example of sahaba, or famous religious person that was married to non-muslim ...
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Is it necessary to obey step mother and step father?
Allah says in the Quran that we must obey our parents, but is it necessary for us to obey our step mother and step father?
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Can parents stop me from doing things that is not haram or obligate me to do something that is not wajib?
Does it matter if it's harus, makruh or sunnah?
If they can stop me from doing completely halal, then that sounds similar to the sin of making something haram to halal to me. Please clarify.
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Clarity regarding Aq Al-Walidayn
As-Salamu alaikum brothers and sisters, I want to know if for example,
(1) your mother told you to put the milk on the fridge, and you don't do it because you're too tired, is this Aq Al-Walidayn?
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Deception with parents for good cause
Every month I pay a portion of my salary to my father to help him pay my university tuition fees. So here is how it works, in a semester the total tuition is almost $2000. My salary is about $500 on ...
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Should I listen to my parents if they ask me to leave studies?
Assalamu Alaikum,
After not paying heed to multiple chances they provided, yet due to careless attitude I let them go of. Now they are insecure about me starting over my studies again, fearing that he'...
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What are the obligatory duties of a grandchild?
What are the obligatory duties of a grandchild in Islam.
Also if my parents ask me to take care of my grandparents am i obligated to do so even when my grandparents have 4-5 children. Will it be haram ...
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Must a man divorce his wife if his mother asks him to?
As far as my limited understanding of Islam. A man should keep the balance between providing for his family (wife and children) while staying devoted to his Mother.
My Mother once told me that a Son ...
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Is it haram for muslims with disabilities to have children?
my name is Alessandro and I'm a 25 year old boy, I've been a muslim for about a year. I have a doubt that I'm not sure I'll find the answer in the Holy Scriptures.
I think it's a difficult question, I ...
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I lied about my father being abusive when I was younger. How can I repent?
Salaam. When I was in high school I used to cut myself for dumb reasons (sympathy? attention?) and I would tell friends that my father was the one who had done it and they thought he was abusive. It's ...
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Till what limits is it completely fard on a son/daughter to obey his/her parents?
Salam everyone,
This is a question that has been on my mind for quite a long time. I will present an example so that it makes more logical sense. I know that it is not permissible to disobey my ...
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Can parents force you to do alima classes?
I don't want to become and alima or do the classes because I feel I can't keep up with it. But my parents say they will put me in no matter what. Are they allowed to do that ???
( I dont wanna ...
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Forcing to read the Quran
My parents are Huffaz الحمد لله and they want me to practice the Quran as well, I love the Quran, but I do not like being compelled to read it, because I would only see the efforts of my parents and ...
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Will Allah forgive me for swearing at my dad?
My dad has always been rude to me and called me names, when I was growing up he would always hit me and even call me names… however,he barely does the things he used to do in the past. He just yells! ...
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Should i still respect my parents if they are highly toxic and traumatized me whole life
I’m 28 years old female. My father was involved in haram things when i was in teen age. But my mother always hide from relatives. my childhood destroyed by seeing their fights and haram things. When ...
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Is Asking Parents Shirk or Kufr?
Assalamu Alaikum
My Question is asking parents kufr or shirk?
Or am I asking for my right?
Like if i need extra fees for supply exam.
Or need to buy a laptop.
Need prove with Quran o Hadith.
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Two questions about oaths
I have two questions.
If a parent is paying kaffarah for their child who broke oaths does the child have to tell the parent what the oaths were? Also if you forgot how many oaths you've done would you ...
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Does Allah forgive disobeying and insulting parents even after punishment?
I‘m a 15 year-old boy and unfortunately, since my childhood, I have always been very aggressive and disrespectful to my mother and my father. A couple of months ago, I would always shout at my parents ...
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Is it haram to move out before getting married?
My parents say it’s haram to move out before marriage. I’m gay though and I don’t want to disappoint god and my family for acting upon it and marrying a man. Would this mean I would have to marry a ...
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What to do if I stole something but I am too selfish and scared to return it
So 6 month ago I stole 335$ from my parent because I wanted a phone but after I realized that I needed more and I couldn’t get it cause my parent were home so then it got me thinking and I immediately ...
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Repentance on disrespecting Parents
Assalamualaikum I am 15 yrs old boy and I am sad to say that I Disrespect and do not talk nicely with my mother, I feel very bad whenever I do so , But Mine and my mother relationship is in such way ...
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Telling my parents about the guy i like but having to lie about the circumstances through which i know him
I have been speaking to this guy i really like and would like to tell my parents about him soon. my uncle found out about him and i had to lie and tell him i do not speak to him anymore even though i ...
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Bad Thoughts about parents
Having bad thoughts or bad words thoughts about parents will Allah punish such person ? Is it a sin?
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will allah forgive me for that?
so basically, i love my parents especially my mother but im loosing my respect for my father, he just insults me, everyday everytime, infront of my other family members, i was never used to treated ...
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