Questions tagged [parents]
Refers usually to the biological father and mother
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Deception with parents for good cause
Every month I pay a portion of my salary to my father to help him pay my university tuition fees. So here is how it works, in a semester the total tuition is almost $2000. My salary is about $500 on ...
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Repentance on disrespecting Parents
Assalamualaikum I am 15 yrs old boy and I am sad to say that I Disrespect and do not talk nicely with my mother, I feel very bad whenever I do so , But Mine and my mother relationship is in such way ...
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will allah forgive me for that?
so basically, i love my parents especially my mother but im loosing my respect for my father, he just insults me, everyday everytime, infront of my other family members, i was never used to treated ...
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how to repent after cursing one of your parents
today I made mistake by cursing my dad and saying harsh words. I definitely know how bad the situation is. but he is a bad dad and has abandoned 7 kids including me. I've been filling his place since ...
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Should i still respect my parents if they are highly toxic and traumatized me whole life
I’m 28 years old female. My father was involved in haram things when i was in teen age. But my mother always hide from relatives. my childhood destroyed by seeing their fights and haram things. When ...
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Should I listen to my parents if they ask me to leave studies?
Assalamu Alaikum,
After not paying heed to multiple chances they provided, yet due to careless attitude I let them go of. Now they are insecure about me starting over my studies again, fearing that he'...
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What are the obligatory duties of a grandchild?
What are the obligatory duties of a grandchild in Islam.
Also if my parents ask me to take care of my grandparents am i obligated to do so even when my grandparents have 4-5 children. Will it be haram ...
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Must a man divorce his wife if his mother asks him to?
As far as my limited understanding of Islam. A man should keep the balance between providing for his family (wife and children) while staying devoted to his Mother.
My Mother once told me that a Son ...
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Telling my parents about the guy i like but having to lie about the circumstances through which i know him
I have been speaking to this guy i really like and would like to tell my parents about him soon. my uncle found out about him and i had to lie and tell him i do not speak to him anymore even though i ...
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I got angry with my mom suddenly [duplicate]
Assalamualaikum. My mom is the person that i am very close to. I was with her all the time and still am. My mom gets angry for many reasons. Sometimes because i did not do the work properly like ...
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Father's share in daughter's salary
Does a father has 1/3rd Share in her daughter's salary or pension? Is this listed in the Shariah?
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Will Allah forgive me for swearing at my dad?
My dad has always been rude to me and called me names, when I was growing up he would always hit me and even call me names… however,he barely does the things he used to do in the past. He just yells! ...
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Is Asking Parents Shirk or Kufr?
Assalamu Alaikum
My Question is asking parents kufr or shirk?
Or am I asking for my right?
Like if i need extra fees for supply exam.
Or need to buy a laptop.
Need prove with Quran o Hadith.
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Is it haram for muslims with disabilities to have children?
my name is Alessandro and I'm a 25 year old boy, I've been a muslim for about a year. I have a doubt that I'm not sure I'll find the answer in the Holy Scriptures.
I think it's a difficult question, I ...
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Boys father as wali [duplicate]
Can Girl's father appoint Boy's father as wali in marriage?
Girl's father live far away so he accept and say im agreed in this marriage in the phone.
Does boy's father can do the work of qazi?
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Two questions about oaths
I have two questions.
If a parent is paying kaffarah for their child who broke oaths does the child have to tell the parent what the oaths were? Also if you forgot how many oaths you've done would you ...
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Can parents pay kaffarah for their children if they break an oath?
As-salaamu 'alaykum I've got a question. If a child breaks an oath can their parents pay kaffarah for them?
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Is a mother's curse real in Islam?
I've been seeking for answer and asking some advice related to this problem, but I haven't found the answer yet. In my country, we are superstitious about the belief that if our biological mother is ...
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Saying something bad in private about parents?
Sometimes my mom or dad say things to me or don't listen to me which hurts my feelings but I don't fight back because we are suppose to respect them.
Today my mom displaced something that was mine so ...
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Abusive father what to do [closed]
Hi my father has been verbally, physically and finically abusive towards my mother and also sometimes his children. I am now 25 and have a daughter of my own and live abroad. The two times I have ...
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Please guide me regarding parents rights
Please guide me regarding obedience of parents.
Most of the time, I harshly behave with my parents. There're several reason for that.
Allah 'azzawajal gave me some sorts of true knowledge, among them ...
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What islam says about the parents who doesn’t care about their children’s religious practices i.e. prayer?
If the parents teach their children to prioritize worldly success over success in the hereafter or if they do not pay much attention about their children, whether they are committing sins or not ...
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disrespecting parents
asalam o alaykum.
1: i wanted to ask that on many islamic youtube videos i have heard that if you disrespect your parents, then all of your good deeds will be nullified and you will not enter paradise....
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Is it haram for a daughter to use nasty words against parents?
If the father is a tyrant, then can the daughter use curse/nasty words (son of a b***h) against her father? I'm asking this because Allah says in 4:148,
"Allah does not like the evil words to be ...
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Does Allah forgive disobeying and insulting parents even after punishment?
I‘m a 15 year-old boy and unfortunately, since my childhood, I have always been very aggressive and disrespectful to my mother and my father. A couple of months ago, I would always shout at my parents ...
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Father & Mother Issue.!
Assalam o Allaikum everyone. A couple of days ago my friend asked me a question to which I am still kinda confused.
He said,
"My dad and mom usually quarrel a lot and both of them hate other's
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I lied about my father being abusive when I was younger. How can I repent?
Salaam. When I was in high school I used to cut myself for dumb reasons (sympathy? attention?) and I would tell friends that my father was the one who had done it and they thought he was abusive. It's ...
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Till what limits is it completely fard on a son/daughter to obey his/her parents?
Salam everyone,
This is a question that has been on my mind for quite a long time. I will present an example so that it makes more logical sense. I know that it is not permissible to disobey my ...
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My father is forcing me to wear the hijab
My father have been forcing me to wear the hijab for a couple of months now, is it permissible? For context he didn’t advice me gently but instead used violence and threatened to murder me if I don’t ...
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Is it still obligatory to obey a parent's command after they die?
For example, if my parent tells me to not play video games when I was a small child, is it still wajib to obey that command now that I am an adult and they have passed away when I was still a child?
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Regarding abuse of children [closed]
If parents and older siblings who are in charge of their smaller siblings do wrong to a child, e.g
cursing the child
injuring the child
making the child drink alcohol
neglecting the child
Are there ...
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My dad forces me to read quran and learn about islam [closed]
I'm 14. I am a muslim, but my dad forces me to learn quran and learn prayers from head. It makes me like islam less and takes me away from god. He never listens and doesn't understand. I want to learn ...
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Can i say no to a forceful marriage?
I am 23 years old girl and studying. My family wants me to get married. They are forcing me. But i am adamant at my decision. My dad is sick. He is emotionally blackmailing me to get married. I said ...
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Can parents force you to do alima classes?
I don't want to become and alima or do the classes because I feel I can't keep up with it. But my parents say they will put me in no matter what. Are they allowed to do that ???
( I dont wanna ...
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Is it haram to move out before getting married?
My parents say it’s haram to move out before marriage. I’m gay though and I don’t want to disappoint god and my family for acting upon it and marrying a man. Would this mean I would have to marry a ...
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Do I have to get married even if I don't feel ready? [duplicate]
Does Islam require that I get married because my parents say so and because it would make them happy even if I am not happy or ready?
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Do I have to respect my father even if he is leading me down the wrong path
He is Evangelical Christian and only believes the stuff that the media says about Islam and is always teaching me and my siblings that muslims will go to hell and such terrible things.He also abused ...
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Forcing to read the Quran
My parents are Huffaz الحمد لله and they want me to practice the Quran as well, I love the Quran, but I do not like being compelled to read it, because I would only see the efforts of my parents and ...
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Is it ok to hit the child for not offering salah?
Is it permissible for parents to beat their children,
if children are not offering salah?
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Who to choose between husband or parents? [duplicate]
My husband and I had issues which led to separation for 8 months. My husband has apologised for his mistakes and wants me back. My parents are against that although I have forgiven him. Who should I ...
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Which religion to teach children when different religion parents?
Salam,
If a man is Muslim and his wife Christian, it is allowed, but which religion should be taught to children ?
Is there example of sahaba, or famous religious person that was married to non-muslim ...
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Are parents responsible if a child leaves Islam?
Salam,
Are parents responsible if a child decides to leave Islam ? If parents did teach Islam, rules, to the child during childhood.
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If you know your parents income is not halal, but you don't make a living yourself, what do you do, as per Islamic point of view?
My friend knows that the way her father is making money now is not halal, but she doesn't earn for herself, she's just 17, what should she do inorder to stay away from haram?
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Should someone obey his step-parents?
Is it necessary for someone to obey his parents ( stepfather and stepmother)?
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Is it necessary to obey step mother and step father?
Allah says in the Quran that we must obey our parents, but is it necessary for us to obey our step mother and step father?
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How to deal with abusive parents
No matter how much i try my parents eventullay force me to raise voice before them am i sinful? What should i do? I have treid to find out online but they tell honour parents and thst is just not ...
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How can a muslim with dead non-muslim parents reconcile "not asking forgiveness for his parents" and dua of 14:41?
I was taught to recite [14:40-41] in my salah:
Our Lord, forgive me and my parents and the believers the Day the account is established." [14:41]
And the verse 9:113 says I cannot ask ...
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Effect of disrespecting parents
I am now aware that disrespecting my parents is a major sin in Islam and if you do it you will not enter paradise and all your duas and prayers will not be accepted.
However, when I was younger, I did ...
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Parent not allowing marriage to a converted Muslim because of perceived gossip; what is the ruling on this?
I want to marry a recently converted Muslim woman, but my mother won't allow it. My mother believes people will talk bad about the family.
Should I obey her in this situation, or am I allowed to ...
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Child exploitation
Assalamu alaikum brother, my question is that Islam orders the child to obey his parents even if they ask him to leave his wife and give away his wealth as charity. But my question is if the father ...
