Questions tagged [parents]
Refers usually to the biological father and mother
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Clarity regarding Aq Al-Walidayn
As-Salamu alaikum brothers and sisters, I want to know if for example,
(1) your mother told you to put the milk on the fridge, and you don't do it because you're too tired, is this Aq Al-Walidayn?
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Can I be forced by my parents?
Aoa I am a 14 year old and my father is forcing me to wear hijab. When i asked him why he wants me to do that he simply said because he doesn’t like me opening my hair and that she thinks girls look ...
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Is motherhood the defined position for women?
Turkish president Recep Tayyip Erdogan has said
Our religion (Islam) has defined a position for women (in society): motherhood
Is this true?
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Is my father allowed not to distribute his property to his daughters while alive?
My father has land . He has 4 daughters and no sons . He does not divide the land and give to daughters . He doesn't like to give .
He says, take the land after I died.
What's the Islamic ruling on ...
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What are the boundaries of obeying parents?
If one's parents are sinners, how can that person obey them ? What are the boundaries of obeying parents ?
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Disobeying parents
Asalamualaikum,
I am asking for my cousin
I wanted to know if disobeying your parents is haram under this circumstance.
I have got A levels within a few months and I need to study. However my mother ...
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Is “uff” to parents haram even if it wasn't said to them?
Is saying "uff" to parents haram but if you said it because, for example, they confused you so you used "uff" because you were confused, is that also haram?
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Respect of children
What if parents disrespect their children.
Some time parents disrespect their own children they abuse their children. We often heared about the rights of parents but what about rights of children of ...
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Need a reference for a hadith about staying at the grave after burial
I recently came across a quote on FB that was claimed as being a hadith. The summary of the quote was that after the janazah and burial of one's deceased parent, one should stay at their grave, ...
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Is contacting a shop without your parents knowing wrong?
Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu,
I would like to know,
if i'm not sure if a certain food is contaminated with any other haraam food, contacting the people who owns the shop without my ...
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Who should you obey if your parents contradict each other?
Who should you listen to from your parents if they contradict each other? For example if your father first ordered you to not be an engineer but to be a doctor, and then your mother order you to not ...
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Is nodding blankly when someone slanders a sin?
Salam A3leykum,
My mum is depressed and always criticise people, but when I tell her it's a sin and she should stop, she yells at me and said that if she can't speak about those things with me, then ...
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Is it okay for a father to hit his children as a punishment? And if so, what are the boundaries?
I just got curious on this and I want to know if this is allowed or not.
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Can someone behave with his parents “rudely” if his parents are torturing him emotionally? [closed]
Someone's parents are very strict and unfair at many things. They torture their son emotionally. In this situation, does the son have any right to behave with his parents rudely?
If the parents ...
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Not allowed to have sex because of her parents
Asalamu alaikum brothers and sisters,
The situation is that I live in Europe and my wife lives in Pakistan because I have not finished my study yet to have proper income for bringing my wife to ...
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Is it sinful to leave abusive parents?
Background:
I am currently going through a very emotionally distressing moment in my life where I am unsure which path to pursue.
As a child not even out of the womb my biological father did not ...
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How will Allah forgive me after shouting at my father?
My parents fight so much. My father screams at my mother and sometimes hit her (lightly) but it affects me and everyone in the house because we get scared.
One day my father was super angry and ...
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Minor lie in order to avoid mother's temper? sinful?
I feed a cat that isn't ours. I don't know if the owner neglects her etc. but she always comes to our house hungry.
Sometimes I buy cat food but other times when it runs out I get food from the ...
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Are there any laws in islam that tells us it is a must to have marital intercourse upon closed doors?
Assalamualaykum,
If a kid of a couple runs into them during their private time who leave their door open, how should the kid respond in an Islamic way?
Are there any hadiths and or qur'an verses ...
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Is breastfeeding optional in Islam?
In Surah Baqarah Allah says:
Mothers may breastfeed their children two complete years for whoever
wishes to complete the nursing [period]. Upon the father is the
mothers' provision and their ...
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Is not husband having no right over wife's salary a bit injustice?
Suppose i am married with a earning wife. We both earn the same. I am only son of my parents and she is also only issue of her parents. Now as i have to look after her expenses and also my children i ...
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Does A woman has a right on her husband for providing a separate house?
As from many Hadith and sunnah it is prove that man should provide a separate room to his wife.Can a woman has right on her husband that he provide him a separate house on her demand ,if he is ...
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Can I disobey my parents when they don't allow me to work? [closed]
I'm 15 years old, and I finally found a job, but my parents tell me that I shouldn't work and I should tend to my studies. See, I tend to my studies, and I just need some cash, and I give every single ...
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For a married women, who's order is superior father or husband according to Islamic point of view?
Who's orders are superior for a married women father or her husband? What is in Islam about this thing?
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Can a daughter give zakat to her mother …?
if a mother is financial week and other side a daughter is financially strong then is this right to support her mother and give her money as zakat, because zakat start from your family.is this right ...
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When someone do a sin why is it said that it might happen that children of that person have to pay for it?
i have heard many people that if someone do a bad deed or commit a sin such as doing something bad to some other person. he will have to pay for it either in such a way that his childeren have to face ...
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Are children punished for the sins of their parents? Or rewarded for their good deeds?
Does Allah (swt) punish (in this life and in the Hereafter) the sons/daughters for misdeeds committed by the father/mother? Are sons/daughters rewarded (in this life and in the Hereafter) for the good ...
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Does Allah accept a mother's bad dua' for her children?
Does Allah accept a mother's bad dua' for her children, even if she is so angry that she doesn't actually mean it?
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Does Islam excuse abusive parenting?
I recently learned from a well-read lecturer in my community that the Prophet (PBUH) once sat reiterating something along the lines of "Be good/obedient/dutiful to your parents" and someone asked, "...
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How long do we have to obey the parents?
Do we have to obey the parents in every condition or they say or put on us, what if it is something that is continuos forever until you die, such as: always offer the sunnah prayers for every prayer, ...
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Is it obligatory to pray at the mosque for a baaligh?
I wanted to ask whether it is obligatory to pray at the mosque for someone who has reached the age of puberty, and if his parents disagree with him even thoufh he lives close, then in this matter what ...
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Who has the right to name the baby, father or mother?
I am aware that this is the right of the parents to name their newborn (children). (It could even be counted as a wajib/mandatory practice for parents to choose an appropriate and Islamic name for ...
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Can a girl tell her parents that she doesn’t want to get married at all? [duplicate]
I am a 25-year old Muslim living in the UK with my parents and siblings, and I have been in love with a non-Muslim man for 3 years. We agree this will not lead anywhere, both out families would not ...
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What can a convert do for a non-Muslim parent who has died?
If you are a convert / revert to Islam after your parent(s) have died can you do anything for them in terms of supplication or other forms of 'Ibadah to perhaps save them from the Fire or is it too ...
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Can a marriage be valid if the man is a revert whose parents are Muslim and Hindu?
Can a marriage be called valid if a Muslim girl marries a man reverted to Islam and had Muslim mother and Hindu father
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Are parents responsible for their daughter not wearing hijab?
At the age of around 20, I was forced to wear hijab by my father. I don't want to wear the hijab just yet, so I've worn it on and off since then.
My dad once lectured me, forcing me to wear hijab or ...
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Why are we punished for the sins of others, e.g. Adam and Eve and children for their parents' wrongdoing?
We are told that no one will be punished for another person's sins. However when Adam (as) and Hawa (Eve) went against Allah (swt) instructions and ate from the forbidden tree, they were sent on Earth ...
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What justifies having children if there is a possibility that they will suffer eternally in the afterlife?
One of the subjects which I have been perplexed about is the conflict between procreation and antinatalism. Islam places great emphasis on the family unit and raising children. Of course, this is in ...
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Is parent respect and care due even if they abused you?
In the Qur'an we are supposed to respect and care after our parents into their old age and death in the same way they cared for us when we were babies / kids / teenagers / adults. 17:23-24 says:
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Is it ok to raise my voice to my parents in a respectful way?
Is it ok to raise my voice to my parents in a respectful way, just out of being upset? My parents do not find it disrespectful and don’t mind it when I do that.
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Does saying kobul to a male 3 times without parental consent get you married?
I made a mistake 2 years ago by getting into a relationship with someone. I said kobul to him 3 times without the permission of my parents. We are not together anymore as I've realised that being in a ...
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What to do when my parents forbid me from marrying a girl due to caste?
I am trying to get married to someone I really like, and I have talked to her for 3 months now, not about anything bad but I know this is not the appropriate thing to do. I was not the best Muslim ...
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What if a girl is not happy with her parents' decision for her husband due to caste?
What does Islam say if a girl is not happy with the guy which her family found her, because of caste issues?
The guy she likes keeps sending his proposal in the right way through the parents. And ...
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Is it okay to get married then a year or so later tell the parents?
Suppose you are an adult (according to Allah) like 16-18, but a child according to society and your family, and you want to get married for Islamic reasons (keeping away from zinnah [adultery]) and ...
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Can my parents enter paradise [duplicate]
My mom and dad are deceased, now, i wonder if my mom and dad will enter paradise, they grew up in a catholic religions, they have never know or hear about Muslim religion, but both of my parents are ...
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Parents wish on marriage
Is it permissible in Islam to not listen to the parents when what they are asking us to do is against the sharia?
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Do I have the right to marry individually in the manner I desire, against the will of my parents?
I am a born Muslim living in Canada. Six months from now, me and my 3 siblings are about to get married. My father claims that the marriage will be 'Islamic' but wants to spend thousands on dresses of ...
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Children's rights (Son)
I've heard that the father is responsible for his children in-terms of clothing them, providing them with food, shelter (financially to put it simply), as in all the basics of life.
Assuming this is ...
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Is it parent's obligation to pay for boy's marriage
I am a 24 years old guy and have been working in Software Industry for the past 2 years.
I don't know what other details to put in this question! but, is it parent's obligation to pay for my marriage?...
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My parents forbid me to marry; what happens if I commit zina?
I am a 23-year old boy and doing a good job in capital of Pakistan. We are only 3 brothers, no sister (reason to tell is there no responsibility of her marriage). I am eldest of all, we are a upper-...
