Questions tagged [parents]
Refers usually to the biological father and mother
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Deception with parents for good cause
Every month I pay a portion of my salary to my father to help him pay my university tuition fees. So here is how it works, in a semester the total tuition is almost $2000. My salary is about $500 on ...
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I lied about my father being abusive when I was younger. How can I repent?
Salaam. When I was in high school I used to cut myself for dumb reasons (sympathy? attention?) and I would tell friends that my father was the one who had done it and they thought he was abusive. It's ...
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Repentance on disrespecting Parents
Assalamualaikum I am 15 yrs old boy and I am sad to say that I Disrespect and do not talk nicely with my mother, I feel very bad whenever I do so , But Mine and my mother relationship is in such way ...
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Must a man divorce his wife if his mother asks him to?
As far as my limited understanding of Islam. A man should keep the balance between providing for his family (wife and children) while staying devoted to his Mother.
My Mother once told me that a Son ...
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will allah forgive me for that?
so basically, i love my parents especially my mother but im loosing my respect for my father, he just insults me, everyday everytime, infront of my other family members, i was never used to treated ...
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Why are we punished for the sins of others, e.g. Adam and Eve and children for their parents' wrongdoing?
We are told that no one will be punished for another person's sins. However when Adam (as) and Hawa (Eve) went against Allah (swt) instructions and ate from the forbidden tree, they were sent on Earth ...
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how to repent after cursing one of your parents
today I made mistake by cursing my dad and saying harsh words. I definitely know how bad the situation is. but he is a bad dad and has abandoned 7 kids including me. I've been filling his place since ...
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Should i still respect my parents if they are highly toxic and traumatized me whole life
I’m 28 years old female. My father was involved in haram things when i was in teen age. But my mother always hide from relatives. my childhood destroyed by seeing their fights and haram things. When ...
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Is it haram for muslims with disabilities to have children?
my name is Alessandro and I'm a 25 year old boy, I've been a muslim for about a year. I have a doubt that I'm not sure I'll find the answer in the Holy Scriptures.
I think it's a difficult question, I ...
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Till what limits is it completely fard on a son/daughter to obey his/her parents?
Salam everyone,
This is a question that has been on my mind for quite a long time. I will present an example so that it makes more logical sense. I know that it is not permissible to disobey my ...
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Should I listen to my parents if they ask me to leave studies?
Assalamu Alaikum,
After not paying heed to multiple chances they provided, yet due to careless attitude I let them go of. Now they are insecure about me starting over my studies again, fearing that he'...
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What are the obligatory duties of a grandchild?
What are the obligatory duties of a grandchild in Islam.
Also if my parents ask me to take care of my grandparents am i obligated to do so even when my grandparents have 4-5 children. Will it be haram ...
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Telling my parents about the guy i like but having to lie about the circumstances through which i know him
I have been speaking to this guy i really like and would like to tell my parents about him soon. my uncle found out about him and i had to lie and tell him i do not speak to him anymore even though i ...
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Does Allah forgive disobeying and insulting parents even after punishment?
I‘m a 15 year-old boy and unfortunately, since my childhood, I have always been very aggressive and disrespectful to my mother and my father. A couple of months ago, I would always shout at my parents ...
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Is motherhood the defined position for women?
Turkish president Recep Tayyip Erdogan has said
Our religion (Islam) has defined a position for women (in society): motherhood
Is this true?
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How much right does a child have over their parents?
Sometimes the parent may be in the wrong, does the child have the right to correct their parent or go against them or is that not permissible. For example, it may be that the child has learnt ...
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Clarity regarding Aq Al-Walidayn
As-Salamu alaikum brothers and sisters, I want to know if for example,
(1) your mother told you to put the milk on the fridge, and you don't do it because you're too tired, is this Aq Al-Walidayn?
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Father's share in daughter's salary
Does a father has 1/3rd Share in her daughter's salary or pension? Is this listed in the Shariah?
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I got angry with my mom suddenly [duplicate]
Assalamualaikum. My mom is the person that i am very close to. I was with her all the time and still am. My mom gets angry for many reasons. Sometimes because i did not do the work properly like ...
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Is it haram for a daughter to use nasty words against parents?
If the father is a tyrant, then can the daughter use curse/nasty words (son of a b***h) against her father? I'm asking this because Allah says in 4:148,
"Allah does not like the evil words to be ...
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Will Allah forgive me for swearing at my dad?
My dad has always been rude to me and called me names, when I was growing up he would always hit me and even call me names… however,he barely does the things he used to do in the past. He just yells! ...
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Is breastfeeding optional in Islam?
In Surah Baqarah (2) Allah says:
Mothers may breastfeed their children two complete years for whoever
wishes to complete the nursing [period]. Upon the father is the
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Is Asking Parents Shirk or Kufr?
Assalamu Alaikum
My Question is asking parents kufr or shirk?
Or am I asking for my right?
Like if i need extra fees for supply exam.
Or need to buy a laptop.
Need prove with Quran o Hadith.
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Bad Thoughts about parents
Having bad thoughts or bad words thoughts about parents will Allah punish such person ? Is it a sin?
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How can a muslim with dead non-muslim parents reconcile "not asking forgiveness for his parents" and dua of 14:41?
I was taught to recite [14:40-41] in my salah:
Our Lord, forgive me and my parents and the believers the Day the account is established." [14:41]
And the verse 9:113 says I cannot ask ...
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Can parents force you to do alima classes?
I don't want to become and alima or do the classes because I feel I can't keep up with it. But my parents say they will put me in no matter what. Are they allowed to do that ???
( I dont wanna ...
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My parents forbid me to marry; what happens if I commit zina?
I am a 23-year old boy and doing a good job in capital of Pakistan. We are only 3 brothers, no sister (reason to tell is there no responsibility of her marriage). I am eldest of all, we are a upper-...
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Who should you obey if your parents contradict each other?
Who should you listen to from your parents if they contradict each other? For example if your father first ordered you to not be an engineer but to be a doctor, and then your mother order you to not ...
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Boys father as wali [duplicate]
Can Girl's father appoint Boy's father as wali in marriage?
Girl's father live far away so he accept and say im agreed in this marriage in the phone.
Does boy's father can do the work of qazi?
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Two questions about oaths
I have two questions.
If a parent is paying kaffarah for their child who broke oaths does the child have to tell the parent what the oaths were? Also if you forgot how many oaths you've done would you ...
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Can parents pay kaffarah for their children if they break an oath?
As-salaamu 'alaykum I've got a question. If a child breaks an oath can their parents pay kaffarah for them?
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Not allowed to have sex because of her parents
Asalamu alaikum brothers and sisters,
The situation is that I live in Europe and my wife lives in Pakistan because I have not finished my study yet to have proper income for bringing my wife to ...
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Saying something bad in private about parents?
Sometimes my mom or dad say things to me or don't listen to me which hurts my feelings but I don't fight back because we are suppose to respect them.
Today my mom displaced something that was mine so ...
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Can i say no to a forceful marriage?
I am 23 years old girl and studying. My family wants me to get married. They are forcing me. But i am adamant at my decision. My dad is sick. He is emotionally blackmailing me to get married. I said ...
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For a married women, who's order is superior father or husband according to Islamic point of view?
Who's orders are superior for a married women father or her husband? What is in Islam about this thing?
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Is a mother's curse real in Islam?
I've been seeking for answer and asking some advice related to this problem, but I haven't found the answer yet. In my country, we are superstitious about the belief that if our biological mother is ...
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What are the boundaries of obeying parents?
If one's parents are sinners, how can that person obey them ? What are the boundaries of obeying parents ?
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Is it still obligatory to obey a parent's command after they die?
For example, if my parent tells me to not play video games when I was a small child, is it still wajib to obey that command now that I am an adult and they have passed away when I was still a child?
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Child exploitation
Assalamu alaikum brother, my question is that Islam orders the child to obey his parents even if they ask him to leave his wife and give away his wealth as charity. But my question is if the father ...
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Who has the right to name the baby, father or mother?
I am aware that this is the right of the parents to name their newborn (children). (It could even be counted as a Wajib (mandatory) practice for parents to choose an appropriate and Islamic name for ...
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Gave qurban to parent
I didn't do qurban (قربان) yet, but yes I do sadaqah. In fact of Sunnah that any Muslim around mosque, no matter he is rich or poor, anyone got qurban include my family. But in personal reason that we ...
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Abusive father what to do [closed]
Hi my father has been verbally, physically and finically abusive towards my mother and also sometimes his children. I am now 25 and have a daughter of my own and live abroad. The two times I have ...
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Can parents stop me from doing things that is not haram or obligate me to do something that is not wajib?
Does it matter if it's harus, makruh or sunnah?
If they can stop me from doing completely halal, then that sounds similar to the sin of making something haram to halal to me. Please clarify.
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I married my wife without my parent/guardian's permission; is it valid?
My mother refuses marriage with a girl (my cousin's sister in law). She says the girl's status is not same as me, and she lives in a village, that means my family is only concern to the social status....
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Can my mother prevent me changing my name?
I am a Muslim revert. My mother is not Muslim.
I want to change my name. I already have it picked out, and I love it. I started using it with some of my friends and business associates.
But I wanted ...
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Children disabled because parents have sinned
I am from a culture where people say they follow Islam, but they keep saying strange things to me which don't seem to fit in with what I am reading in the Quran.
For example, one of the things people ...
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Can my Parents refuse to let me go to my husbands house to live once married?
I am to be married and my to-be-husband wants me to go and live with him in his home where his whole family is. He has a job there also. The problem is my parents do not want to send me as it is in ...
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Does Islam encourage the kissing of an elder person's hands and feet?
I have heard that according to Islam we should kiss the hands of our parents to show respect. Fatima (may Allah be pleased with her) used to kiss the Prophet (SAW) hands and give up her space for him ...
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How to overcome the bad effects of mother's curse?
When he was a child, a Muslim brother's mother would curse him when she was angry with him owing to his naughtiness with words like "May you always cry in your life," and other such strong curses. ...
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Do the children need to respect their father who provoked their mother to commit suicide?
A couple was in the habit of having constant conjugal fights. In the course of one such altercation, the husband asked the wife, "Can't you get any poison?". The wife then and there got the ...