Questions tagged [parents]
Refers usually to the biological father and mother
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My parents discouraging me from following a career in software engineering [closed]
My muslim parents have started discouraging me, from what I like to do which is software engineering. I know in islam you have to listen to your parents.
But if they discourage you from becoming a ...
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Saying something bad in private about parents?
Sometimes my mom or dad say things to me or don't listen to me which hurts my feelings but I don't fight back because we are suppose to respect them.
Today my mom displaced something that was mine so ...
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Abusive father what to do [closed]
Hi my father has been verbally, physically and finically abusive towards my mother and also sometimes his children. I am now 25 and have a daughter of my own and live abroad. The two times I have ...
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Please guide me regarding parents rights
Please guide me regarding obedience of parents.
Most of the time, I harshly behave with my parents. There're several reason for that.
Allah 'azzawajal gave me some sorts of true knowledge, among them ...
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What islam says about the parents who doesn’t care about their children’s religious practices i.e. prayer?
If the parents teach their children to prioritize worldly success over success in the hereafter or if they do not pay much attention about their children, whether they are committing sins or not ...
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How to return stolen items [duplicate]
When I was in middle school, I stole a toy car from my teacher, and I honestly don't know why, and I also used to steal candy from Kumon a lot, and I don't know I was at the age of maturity while ...
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disrespecting parents
asalam o alaykum.
1: i wanted to ask that on many islamic youtube videos i have heard that if you disrespect your parents, then all of your good deeds will be nullified and you will not enter paradise....
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Does Allah forgive disobeying and insulting parents even after punishment?
I‘m a 15 year-old boy and unfortunately, since my childhood, I have always been very aggressive and disrespectful to my mother and my father. A couple of months ago, I would always shout at my parents ...
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Father & Mother Issue.!
Assalam o Allaikum everyone. A couple of days ago my friend asked me a question to which I am still kinda confused.
He said,
"My dad and mom usually quarrel a lot and both of them hate other's
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I lied about my father being abusive when I was younger. How can I repent?
Salaam. When I was in high school I used to cut myself for dumb reasons (sympathy? attention?) and I would tell friends that my father was the one who had done it and they thought he was abusive. It's ...
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Till what limits is it completely fard on a son/daughter to obey his/her parents?
Salam everyone,
This is a question that has been on my mind for quite a long time. I will present an example so that it makes more logical sense. I know that it is not permissible to disobey my ...
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My father is forcing me to wear the hijab
My father have been forcing me to wear the hijab for a couple of months now, is it permissible? For context he didn’t advice me gently but instead used violence and threatened to murder me if I don’t ...
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Is it still obligatory to obey a parent's command after they die?
For example, if my parent tells me to not play video games when I was a small child, is it still wajib to obey that command now that I am an adult and they have passed away when I was still a child?
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Regarding abuse of children [closed]
If parents and older siblings who are in charge of their smaller siblings do wrong to a child, e.g
cursing the child
injuring the child
making the child drink alcohol
neglecting the child
Are there ...
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My dad forces me to read quran and learn about islam [closed]
I'm 14. I am a muslim, but my dad forces me to learn quran and learn prayers from head. It makes me like islam less and takes me away from god. He never listens and doesn't understand. I want to learn ...
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Can i say no to a forceful marriage?
I am 23 years old girl and studying. My family wants me to get married. They are forcing me. But i am adamant at my decision. My dad is sick. He is emotionally blackmailing me to get married. I said ...
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Can parents force you to do alima classes?
I don't want to become and alima or do the classes because I feel I can't keep up with it. But my parents say they will put me in no matter what. Are they allowed to do that ???
( I dont wanna ...
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Is it haram to move out before getting married?
My parents say it’s haram to move out before marriage. I’m gay though and I don’t want to disappoint god and my family for acting upon it and marrying a man. Would this mean I would have to marry a ...
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Do I have to get married even if I don't feel ready? [duplicate]
Does Islam require that I get married because my parents say so and because it would make them happy even if I am not happy or ready?
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Do I have to respect my father even if he is leading me down the wrong path
He is Evangelical Christian and only believes the stuff that the media says about Islam and is always teaching me and my siblings that muslims will go to hell and such terrible things.He also abused ...
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Forcing to read the Quran
My parents are Huffaz الحمد لله and they want me to practice the Quran as well, I love the Quran, but I do not like being compelled to read it, because I would only see the efforts of my parents and ...
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Is it ok to hit the child for not offering salah?
Is it permissible for parents to beat their children,
if children are not offering salah?
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Who to choose between husband or parents? [duplicate]
My husband and I had issues which led to separation for 8 months. My husband has apologised for his mistakes and wants me back. My parents are against that although I have forgiven him. Who should I ...
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Which religion to teach children when different religion parents?
Salam,
If a man is Muslim and his wife Christian, it is allowed, but which religion should be taught to children ?
Is there example of sahaba, or famous religious person that was married to non-muslim ...
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Are parents responsible if a child leaves Islam?
Salam,
Are parents responsible if a child decides to leave Islam ? If parents did teach Islam, rules, to the child during childhood.
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If you know your parents income is not halal, but you don't make a living yourself, what do you do, as per Islamic point of view?
My friend knows that the way her father is making money now is not halal, but she doesn't earn for herself, she's just 17, what should she do inorder to stay away from haram?
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Should someone obey his step-parents?
Is it necessary for someone to obey his parents ( stepfather and stepmother)?
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Is it necessary to obey step mother and step father?
Allah says in the Quran that we must obey our parents, but is it necessary for us to obey our step mother and step father?
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How to deal with abusive parents
No matter how much i try my parents eventullay force me to raise voice before them am i sinful? What should i do? I have treid to find out online but they tell honour parents and thst is just not ...
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How can a muslim with dead non-muslim parents reconcile "not asking forgiveness for his parents" and dua of 14:41?
I was taught to recite [14:40-41] in my salah:
Our Lord, forgive me and my parents and the believers the Day the account is established." [14:41]
And the verse 9:113 says I cannot ask ...
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Effect of disrespecting parents
I am now aware that disrespecting my parents is a major sin in Islam and if you do it you will not enter paradise and all your duas and prayers will not be accepted.
However, when I was younger, I did ...
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Parent not allowing marriage to a converted Muslim because of perceived gossip; what is the ruling on this?
I want to marry a recently converted Muslim woman, but my mother won't allow it. My mother believes people will talk bad about the family.
Should I obey her in this situation, or am I allowed to ...
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Child exploitation
Assalamu alaikum brother, my question is that Islam orders the child to obey his parents even if they ask him to leave his wife and give away his wealth as charity. But my question is if the father ...
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Sometimes my parents are yelling and angry with me for no reason [closed]
Selam alejkum.
I wanted to ask something releated to my parents that concern me to much. I love my parents very much and i try to respect them in any way possible. I know that Quran and our prophet ...
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What to do if I stole something but I am too selfish and scared to return it
So 6 month ago I stole 335$ from my parent because I wanted a phone but after I realized that I needed more and I couldn’t get it cause my parent were home so then it got me thinking and I immediately ...
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How do you pay your debts to your parents?
I heard that praying and asking Allah is the best way besides trying your best to give parents what they deserve.
They sacrificed everything they had for my future. I miss them a lot.
What are some ...
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Bad Thoughts about parents
Having bad thoughts or bad words thoughts about parents will Allah punish such person ? Is it a sin?
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Respecting parents who aren't deserving of the respect
Islam says our parents have the right to be respected. What if they don't deserve it? Does "respect" in this context mean that we should not disrespect them or does it mean that we must respect them?
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Islam says we must obey our parents. What about when they ask us to do ridiculous things?
My father asks me to do a lot of things that he's too lazy to do himself, and these things seem very wrong.
An example of this is him calling me from the mosque to come back home to turn on the TV ...
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Dealing with a toxic father in islam
I have an overdemanding, selfish, abusive(physically and verbally), oppressive, bossy, fornicating and unreligious father. He is a Muslim but doesn't even know how to pray properly. He doesn't fully ...
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What is said about getting good deeds when helping sick parents?
My mother was very sick so I had to stay and sleep in the hospital for a few days and help her with walking, going to the bathroom, calling the nurse, trying to feed her,...etc. She is much better now ...
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What does Islam say when dealing with stupid and arrogant parents?
Not every parents are inclined towards truth, some of them are just following their desires, no reasoning, and always trying to justify their act on us (their kids) despite some of them claim to be a ...
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Asking for forgiveness in islam
I'm an orphan. When i was young there are times that i disobey my parents when they are still alive. My question is, is that true that Allah wont accept me and all my ibadah and wont look at me on ...
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How to know that my father who has passed away some days ago is forgiven by Allah and he is at the best place?
My father has passed away a few weeks ago. I miss him dearly. I am desperate to know that he is better placed, Allah had mercy on him, he is in Jannah and he does not have any regrets and sorrows in ...
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Is my father allowed not to distribute his property to his daughters while alive?
My father has land . He has 4 daughters and no sons . He does not divide the land and give to daughters . He doesn't like to give .
He says, take the land after I died.
What's the Islamic ruling on ...
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Is contacting a shop without your parents knowing wrong?
Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu,
I would like to know,
if i'm not sure if a certain food is contaminated with any other haraam food, contacting the people who owns the shop without my ...
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Is "uff" to parents haram even if it wasn't said to them?
Is saying "uff" to parents haram but if you said it because, for example, they confused you so you used "uff" because you were confused, is that also haram?
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Who should you obey if your parents contradict each other?
Who should you listen to from your parents if they contradict each other? For example if your father first ordered you to not be an engineer but to be a doctor, and then your mother order you to not ...
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Respect of children
What if parents disrespect their children.
Some time parents disrespect their own children they abuse their children. We often heared about the rights of parents but what about rights of children of ...
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Not allowed to have sex because of her parents
Asalamu alaikum brothers and sisters,
The situation is that I live in Europe and my wife lives in Pakistan because I have not finished my study yet to have proper income for bringing my wife to ...
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