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How do i get parents to agree to marriage? [closed]

I m disabled I m 22 I can't walk I can't do much stuff on my own my amma has been helping me taking care of me since I was 2 I m seeking marriage in my dua for long time I have been talking to someone ...
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Is it haram to move out of toxic parents household as an unmarried woman without their approval? [closed]

My parents have been providing for us financially hamdulilah but they've been abusive throughout my entire life and very toxic. They emotionally neglect me and never care about me or my wellbeing. ...
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My mother(who is a kafir) forbid me to fast in Ramadan [duplicate]

I’m a 14 year old girl and i converted to Islam 8 months ago. Two weeks ago my mother finally found out. She told me to not pray anymore but of course I didn’t listen. I’ve been able to keep my fast ...
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Expelling father-in-law who commits adultery? [duplicate]

My father-in-law commits adultery. Is it permitted to kick him out of the house?
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Nikah without parent's knowing [duplicate]

Assalamualaikum, I've deeply fallen in love with a girl of my age, We live far away from each other and meet very rarely. It's been around 2 years and she loves me back and trusts me completely. I ...
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My parents are magicions how to deal with the food that they're preparing? [duplicate]

My parents are practicing magic to all my family members agree with them except for me and my sister, my father taught others to practice with him and they are making Sihr on me and my sister. The ...
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Can halal food be haram?

My family are not muslims and they eat haram food. However I often see them touching halal food after touching a haram food without cleaning their hands. My question is: Does the halal food become ...
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Should I move to another country when my parents don't want to move with me?

I am a 26 Male and I live in a country where I want to speak up against the oppression around me but I fear that if I do, mine and my loved ones lives would be endangered. Therefore, I want to move to ...
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My mom was once cheating . Is it compulsory for me to show love and care her

Assalamu alaikum ,I am 20yrs old now.i am from india ,My father is still working in Riyadh and he visits us 2years once and also he privide us whatever my family needs. when i was 11 i found out my ...
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Wife’s mother want to live with me and fiancé after marriage

I’m a 29 year old male. Have shown interest in marrying a girl also 29 year olds. families involved.we both live and work in England. Recently moved here. My parents are in Pakistan. Her mother is in ...
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My parents are careless about my marriage

I'm a 26 years old girl from a middle class family. My parents are careless about my marriage. They don’t want me to get married fearing that I might not provide for them. They also make an excuse ...
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Repentance on disrespecting Parents

Assalamualaikum I am 15 yrs old boy and I am sad to say that I Disrespect and do not talk nicely with my mother, I feel very bad whenever I do so , But Mine and my mother relationship is in such way ...
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how to repent after cursing one of your parents

today I made mistake by cursing my dad and saying harsh words. I definitely know how bad the situation is. but he is a bad dad and has abandoned 7 kids including me. I've been filling his place since ...
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Should I listen to my parents if they ask me to leave studies?

Assalamu Alaikum, After not paying heed to multiple chances they provided, yet due to careless attitude I let them go of. Now they are insecure about me starting over my studies again, fearing that he'...
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What are the obligatory duties of a grandchild?

What are the obligatory duties of a grandchild in Islam. Also if my parents ask me to take care of my grandparents am i obligated to do so even when my grandparents have 4-5 children. Will it be haram ...
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Must a man divorce his wife if his mother asks him to?

As far as my limited understanding of Islam. A man should keep the balance between providing for his family (wife and children) while staying devoted to his Mother. My Mother once told me that a Son ...
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Telling my parents about the guy i like but having to lie about the circumstances through which i know him

I have been speaking to this guy i really like and would like to tell my parents about him soon. my uncle found out about him and i had to lie and tell him i do not speak to him anymore even though i ...
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I got angry with my mom suddenly [duplicate]

Assalamualaikum. My mom is the person that i am very close to. I was with her all the time and still am. My mom gets angry for many reasons. Sometimes because i did not do the work properly like ...
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Father's share in daughter's salary

Does a father has 1/3rd Share in her daughter's salary or pension? Is this listed in the Shariah?
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Will Allah forgive me for swearing at my dad?

My dad has always been rude to me and called me names, when I was growing up he would always hit me and even call me names… however,he barely does the things he used to do in the past. He just yells! ...
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Is Asking Parents Shirk or Kufr?

Assalamu Alaikum My Question is asking parents kufr or shirk? Or am I asking for my right? Like if i need extra fees for supply exam. Or need to buy a laptop. Need prove with Quran o Hadith.
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Is it haram for muslims with disabilities to have children?

my name is Alessandro and I'm a 25 year old boy, I've been a muslim for about a year. I have a doubt that I'm not sure I'll find the answer in the Holy Scriptures. I think it's a difficult question, I ...
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Boys father as wali [duplicate]

Can Girl's father appoint Boy's father as wali in marriage? Girl's father live far away so he accept and say im agreed in this marriage in the phone. Does boy's father can do the work of qazi?
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Two questions about oaths

I have two questions. If a parent is paying kaffarah for their child who broke oaths does the child have to tell the parent what the oaths were? Also if you forgot how many oaths you've done would you ...
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Can parents pay kaffarah for their children if they break an oath?

As-salaamu 'alaykum I've got a question. If a child breaks an oath can their parents pay kaffarah for them?
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Is a mother's curse real in Islam?

I've been seeking for answer and asking some advice related to this problem, but I haven't found the answer yet. In my country, we are superstitious about the belief that if our biological mother is ...
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Saying something bad in private about parents?

Sometimes my mom or dad say things to me or don't listen to me which hurts my feelings but I don't fight back because we are suppose to respect them. Today my mom displaced something that was mine so ...
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Abusive father what to do [closed]

Hi my father has been verbally, physically and finically abusive towards my mother and also sometimes his children. I am now 25 and have a daughter of my own and live abroad. The two times I have ...
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Please guide me regarding parents rights

Please guide me regarding obedience of parents. Most of the time, I harshly behave with my parents. There're several reason for that. Allah 'azzawajal gave me some sorts of true knowledge, among them ...
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What islam says about the parents who doesn’t care about their children’s religious practices i.e. prayer?

If the parents teach their children to prioritize worldly success over success in the hereafter or if they do not pay much attention about their children, whether they are committing sins or not ...
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disrespecting parents

asalam o alaykum. 1: i wanted to ask that on many islamic youtube videos i have heard that if you disrespect your parents, then all of your good deeds will be nullified and you will not enter paradise....
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Is it haram for a daughter to use nasty words against parents?

If the father is a tyrant, then can the daughter use curse/nasty words (son of a b***h) against her father? I'm asking this because Allah says in 4:148, "Allah does not like the evil words to be ...
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Does Allah forgive disobeying and insulting parents even after punishment?

I‘m a 15 year-old boy and unfortunately, since my childhood, I have always been very aggressive and disrespectful to my mother and my father. A couple of months ago, I would always shout at my parents ...
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Father & Mother Issue.!

Assalam o Allaikum everyone. A couple of days ago my friend asked me a question to which I am still kinda confused. He said, "My dad and mom usually quarrel a lot and both of them hate other's ...
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I lied about my father being abusive when I was younger. How can I repent?

Salaam. When I was in high school I used to cut myself for dumb reasons (sympathy? attention?) and I would tell friends that my father was the one who had done it and they thought he was abusive. It's ...
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Till what limits is it completely fard on a son/daughter to obey his/her parents?

Salam everyone, This is a question that has been on my mind for quite a long time. I will present an example so that it makes more logical sense. I know that it is not permissible to disobey my ...
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My father is forcing me to wear the hijab

My father have been forcing me to wear the hijab for a couple of months now, is it permissible? For context he didn’t advice me gently but instead used violence and threatened to murder me if I don’t ...
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Is it still obligatory to obey a parent's command after they die?

For example, if my parent tells me to not play video games when I was a small child, is it still wajib to obey that command now that I am an adult and they have passed away when I was still a child?
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Regarding abuse of children [closed]

If parents and older siblings who are in charge of their smaller siblings do wrong to a child, e.g cursing the child injuring the child making the child drink alcohol neglecting the child Are there ...
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My dad forces me to read quran and learn about islam [closed]

I'm 14. I am a muslim, but my dad forces me to learn quran and learn prayers from head. It makes me like islam less and takes me away from god. He never listens and doesn't understand. I want to learn ...
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Can i say no to a forceful marriage?

I am 23 years old girl and studying. My family wants me to get married. They are forcing me. But i am adamant at my decision. My dad is sick. He is emotionally blackmailing me to get married. I said ...
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Can parents force you to do alima classes?

I don't want to become and alima or do the classes because I feel I can't keep up with it. But my parents say they will put me in no matter what. Are they allowed to do that ??? ( I dont wanna ...
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Is it haram to move out before getting married?

My parents say it’s haram to move out before marriage. I’m gay though and I don’t want to disappoint god and my family for acting upon it and marrying a man. Would this mean I would have to marry a ...
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Do I have to get married even if I don't feel ready? [duplicate]

Does Islam require that I get married because my parents say so and because it would make them happy even if I am not happy or ready?
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Do I have to respect my father even if he is leading me down the wrong path

He is Evangelical Christian and only believes the stuff that the media says about Islam and is always teaching me and my siblings that muslims will go to hell and such terrible things.He also abused ...
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Forcing to read the Quran

My parents are Huffaz الحمد لله and they want me to practice the Quran as well, I love the Quran, but I do not like being compelled to read it, because I would only see the efforts of my parents and ...
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Is it ok to hit the child for not offering salah?

Is it permissible for parents to beat their children, if children are not offering salah?
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Who to choose between husband or parents? [duplicate]

My husband and I had issues which led to separation for 8 months. My husband has apologised for his mistakes and wants me back. My parents are against that although I have forgiven him. Who should I ...
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Which religion to teach children when different religion parents?

Salam, If a man is Muslim and his wife Christian, it is allowed, but which religion should be taught to children ? Is there example of sahaba, or famous religious person that was married to non-muslim ...
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Are parents responsible if a child leaves Islam?

Salam, Are parents responsible if a child decides to leave Islam ? If parents did teach Islam, rules, to the child during childhood.
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