Questions tagged [parents]
Refers usually to the biological father and mother
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Drug addict Abusive Father
Salam,
I am a practicing Muslim who has a father who is abusive mentally and physically. I will try to keep this short so my father is a drug addict who from an early age used to bully me and my ...
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Can parents force you to do alima classes?
I don't want to become and alima or do the classes because I feel I can't keep up with it. But my parents say they will put me in no matter what. Are they allowed to do that ???
( I dont wanna ...
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Emotionally abusive father
My father isn't always emotionally abusive he's normally very sweet and always wants us to be happy and have everything, it only comes out when we don't have money, he starts asking me and my sister ...
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Is it haram to move out before getting married?
My parents say it’s haram to move out before marriage. I’m gay though and I don’t want to disappoint god and my family for acting upon it and marrying a man. Would this mean I would have to marry a ...
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Do I have to get married even if I don't feel ready? [duplicate]
Does Islam require that I get married because my parents say so and because it would make them happy even if I am not happy or ready?
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Do I have to respect my father even if he is leading me down the wrong path
He is Evangelical Christian and only believes the stuff that the media says about Islam and is always teaching me and my siblings that muslims will go to hell and such terrible things.He also abused ...
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Forcing to read the Quran
My parents are Huffaz الحمد لله and they want me to practice the Quran as well, I love the Quran, but I do not like being compelled to read it, because I would only see the efforts of my parents and ...
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Will a hafidh go jannah even if he disrespected his parents?
Will a hafidh go jannah even if he disrespected his parents before he became a hafidh? This is a question I have always been curious about because i heard that the parents of a hafidh will have ...
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What to do if you have an abusive father? [closed]
My dad is an abuser. He hits and tortures my mother. He doesn't let her offer her prayers peacefully. He says you have become a saint who can't function at all and are of no use to the family. He ...
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Zakat or to my mother [duplicate]
Is it wrong of me to give Zakat when my mom needs the money. My mom said I shouldn't give that much money when I could have given it to her. Is that wrong of of me?
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Is it ok to hit the child for not offering salah?
Is it permissible for parents to beat their children,
if children are not offering salah?
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Who to choose between husband or parents? [duplicate]
My husband and I had issues which led to separation for 8 months. My husband has apologised for his mistakes and wants me back. My parents are against that although I have forgiven him. Who should I ...
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Which religion to teach children when different religion parents?
Salam,
If a man is Muslim and his wife Christian, it is allowed, but which religion should be taught to children ?
Is there example of sahaba, or famous religious person that was married to non-muslim ...
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Are parents responsible if a child leaves Islam?
Salam,
Are parents responsible if a child decides to leave Islam ? If parents did teach Islam, rules, to the child during childhood.
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Parents: Respect, Gratitude, Obediance
An-Nisa Aya 4:36 resumes in short the major virtues:
وَاعْبُدُواْ اللّهَ وَلاَ تُشْرِكُواْ بِهِ شَيْئًا وَبِالْوَالِدَيْنِ
إِحْسَانًا وَبِذِي الْقُرْبَى وَالْيَتَامَى وَالْمَسَاكِينِ وَالْجَارِ
ذِي ...
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If you know your parents income is not halal, but you don't make a living yourself, what do you do, as per Islamic point of view?
My friend knows that the way her father is making money now is not halal, but she doesn't earn for herself, she's just 17, what should she do inorder to stay away from haram?
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Should someone obey his step-parents?
Is it necessary for someone to obey his parents ( stepfather and stepmother)?
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Is it necessary to obey step mother and step father?
Allah says in the Quran that we must obey our parents, but is it necessary for us to obey our step mother and step father?
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How to deal with abusive parents
No matter how much i try my parents eventullay force me to raise voice before them am i sinful? What should i do? I have treid to find out online but they tell honour parents and thst is just not ...
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How can a muslim with dead non-muslim parents reconcile “not asking forgiveness for his parents” and dua of 14:41?
I was taught to recite [14:40-41] in my salah:
Our Lord, forgive me and my parents and the believers the Day the account is established." [14:41]
And the verse 9:113 says I cannot ask ...
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Effect of disrespecting parents
I am now aware that disrespecting my parents is a major sin in Islam and if you do it you will not enter paradise and all your duas and prayers will not be accepted.
However, when I was younger, I did ...
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Parent not allowing marriage to a converted Muslim because of perceived gossip; what is the ruling on this?
I want to marry a recently converted Muslim woman, but my mother won't allow it. My mother believes people will talk bad about the family.
Should I obey her in this situation, or am I allowed to ...
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Child exploitation
Assalamu alaikum brother, my question is that Islam orders the child to obey his parents even if they ask him to leave his wife and give away his wealth as charity. But my question is if the father ...
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Sometimes my parents are yelling and angry with me for no reason [closed]
Selam alejkum.
I wanted to ask something releated to my parents that concern me to much. I love my parents very much and i try to respect them in any way possible. I know that Quran and our prophet ...
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What to do if I stole something but I am too selfish and scared to return it
So 6 month ago I stole 335$ from my parent because I wanted a phone but after I realized that I needed more and I couldn’t get it cause my parent were home so then it got me thinking and I immediately ...
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How do you pay your debts to your parents?
I heard that praying and asking Allah is the best way besides trying your best to give parents what they deserve.
They sacrificed everything they had for my future. I miss them a lot.
What are some ...
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Marriage without parents knowledge [duplicate]
I am a university student having full dependency on father for lifestyle cost. I live in a society where most of the people do follow Hanafi Mazhab. I did marry to someone in secret, whom my parents ...
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Bad Thoughts about parents
Having bad thoughts or bad words thoughts about parents will Allah punish such person ? Is it a sin?
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Respecting parents who aren't deserving of the respect
Islam says our parents have the right to be respected. What if they don't deserve it? Does "respect" in this context mean that we should not disrespect them or does it mean that we must respect them?
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Islam says we must obey our parents. What about when they ask us to do ridiculous things?
My father asks me to do a lot of things that he's too lazy to do himself, and these things seem very wrong.
An example of this is him calling me from the mosque to come back home to turn on the TV ...
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Dealing with a toxic father in islam
I have an overdemanding, selfish, abusive(physically and verbally), oppressive, bossy, fornicating and unreligious father. He is a Muslim but doesn't even know how to pray properly. He doesn't fully ...
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What is said about getting good deeds when helping sick parents?
My mother was very sick so I had to stay and sleep in the hospital for a few days and help her with walking, going to the bathroom, calling the nurse, trying to feed her,...etc. She is much better now ...
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What does Islam say when dealing with stupid and arrogant parents?
Not every parents are inclined towards truth, some of them are just following their desires, no reasoning, and always trying to justify their act on us (their kids) despite some of them claim to be a ...
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Asking for forgiveness in islam
I'm an orphan. When i was young there are times that i disobey my parents when they are still alive. My question is, is that true that Allah wont accept me and all my ibadah and wont look at me on ...
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How to know that my father who has passed away some days ago is forgiven by Allah and he is at the best place?
My father has passed away a few weeks ago. I miss him dearly. I am desperate to know that he is better placed, Allah had mercy on him, he is in Jannah and he does not have any regrets and sorrows in ...
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Is my father allowed not to distribute his property to his daughters while alive?
My father has land . He has 4 daughters and no sons . He does not divide the land and give to daughters . He doesn't like to give .
He says, take the land after I died.
What's the Islamic ruling on ...
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Is contacting a shop without your parents knowing wrong?
Assalamu Alaikum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuhu,
I would like to know,
if i'm not sure if a certain food is contaminated with any other haraam food, contacting the people who owns the shop without my ...
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Is “uff” to parents haram even if it wasn't said to them?
Is saying "uff" to parents haram but if you said it because, for example, they confused you so you used "uff" because you were confused, is that also haram?
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Who should you obey if your parents contradict each other?
Who should you listen to from your parents if they contradict each other? For example if your father first ordered you to not be an engineer but to be a doctor, and then your mother order you to not ...
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Respect of children
What if parents disrespect their children.
Some time parents disrespect their own children they abuse their children. We often heared about the rights of parents but what about rights of children of ...
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Not allowed to have sex because of her parents
Asalamu alaikum brothers and sisters,
The situation is that I live in Europe and my wife lives in Pakistan because I have not finished my study yet to have proper income for bringing my wife to ...
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Disobeying parents
Asalamualaikum,
I am asking for my cousin
I wanted to know if disobeying your parents is haram under this circumstance.
I have got A levels within a few months and I need to study. However my mother ...
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Clarity regarding Aq Al-Walidayn
As-Salamu alaikum brothers and sisters, I want to know if for example,
(1) your mother told you to put the milk on the fridge, and you don't do it because you're too tired, is this Aq Al-Walidayn?
(2)...
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How will Allah forgive me after shouting at my father?
My parents fight so much. My father screams at my mother and sometimes hit her (lightly) but it affects me and everyone in the house because we get scared.
One day my father was super angry and ...
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Is breastfeeding optional in Islam?
In Surah Baqarah (2) Allah says:
Mothers may breastfeed their children two complete years for whoever
wishes to complete the nursing [period]. Upon the father is the
mothers' provision and ...
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What are the boundaries of obeying parents?
If one's parents are sinners, how can that person obey them ? What are the boundaries of obeying parents ?
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For a married women, who's order is superior father or husband according to Islamic point of view?
Who's orders are superior for a married women father or her husband? What is in Islam about this thing?
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Does A woman has a right on her husband for providing a separate house?
As from many Hadith and sunnah it is prove that man should provide a separate room to his wife.Can a woman has right on her husband that he provide him a separate house on her demand ,if he is ...
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Can a daughter give zakat to her mother …?
if a mother is financial week and other side a daughter is financially strong then is this right to support her mother and give her money as zakat, because zakat start from your family.is this right ...
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When someone do a sin why is it said that it might happen that children of that person have to pay for it?
i have heard many people that if someone do a bad deed or commit a sin such as doing something bad to some other person. he will have to pay for it either in such a way that his childeren have to face ...
