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Husband withholds intimacy from one wife but maintains relations with his other wife

Assalamu alaikum, I am in a polygamous marriage and we all live together in one house. I would like to know whether it is permissible for a husband to withhold relations from one wife but have ...
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Do Islamic speakers compare “strike them” in Qur'an 4:34 to spanking a disobedient child?

In regards to the ayah Men are in charge of women by [right of] what Allah has given one over the other and what they spend [for maintenance] from their wealth. So righteous women are devoutly ...
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Is a Muslim husband required to defend the honor of his wife if someone speaks negatively of her?

When I read about marriages in Islam, sometimes I see this: ... A husband, therefore, has the responsibility of taking care of his wife, protecting her, defending her honor, and fulfilling her ...
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Why does the woman have to go through the pain of giving birth? [closed]

In Islam we are treated fairly and equally in a just manner. However, a woman is told that if her husband calls her then she has to answer, she has to asker permission to go out, she has to serve her ...
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Can a Shia wife perform matam even if her Sunni husband prohibits?

If I am a Shia girl married to a Sunni boy who doesn't want me to do matam (mourning) only, should I follow my husband or perform the matam no matter what?
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If a husband has two wives and he allows wife to go see sick mother can he go stay with second wife on 1st wife night and should he inform 1st wife

If a husband has two wives and he allows wife #1 to go see sick mother, can he go and stay with wife #2 on wife #1 night and should he inform wife #1
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How do I Islamically get my husband to be intimate with me?

I have been married for nearly four years now. The problem is that I have a high sex drive while my husband has little or at times no sex drive. We go 2-3 months without having sex. It leaves me so ...
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Manner of correcting spouse

In response to behaviour that is unappealing to him and perhaps negative in general, what evidence is there of the manner in which a husband gives his wife necessary guidance about her behaviour (or ...
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Does the husband have a right to reject the sex if he is not in mood

I read the qustion and the answer from the post which is "Does eife have a right to reject the sex if she is not in mood" My question is vica versa.
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Can I divorce my husband due to lack of trust?

He chats and speaks on the phone with other women but does not speak to me. He denies that he does this by claiming that he fears Allah and would never commit adultery. But, I clearly see the messages ...
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Can a husband and wife to look each other's thights? [duplicate]

The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Do not uncover your thigh, and do not look at the thigh of the living and the dead.Can a husband and wife to look each other's thights?
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Halal or haram marriage [closed]

Salamalaikum! My question is regarding my marriage When I met my husband I wasnt paying much attention to the religion so we married in court as civil marriage. My father and mother left me alone in ...
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Is Islamic divorce enough to get re-married, or do I need an English civil divorce, too? [duplicate]

Asslamualikum It's been three years since I'm having problems in my marriage. Every time I mention this to someone, they ignore me. I have done so much for my husband more than his expectations and ...
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What precisely did ibn Qayyim say regarding a husband engaging his wife in housework?

From an IslamWeb fatwa: Ibn Qayyim cited that marriage contract enables a husband to enjoy his wife; it does not enable him to engage her in housework. [He] said that the above narrations describe ...
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During sexual intercouse, can I tie my wife to the bed using rope/ a scarf? [closed]

I've been told that during sexual intercourse, you must only use parts of your own body. However, to pleasure us both further, would I be able to use a simple scarf (or other materials such a rope or ...
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Can a Man leave his parent's house to go live with his wife? [duplicate]

Can a man leave his parents' house to go live with his wife separately. Are there any rules defined in Sharia for this or any regulations to be followed.
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I'm legally divorced from my husband; how can I get talaq from him? [closed]

I legally divorced my husband, we're not living together for over a year. I don't love him or find him attractive anymore. I want to move on. How can I get talaq from him? Is there any way possible?
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Is first wife's permission required for second marriage? [duplicate]

Some people claim that a married man cannot marry again till he gets permission from his first wife. I find that hard to believe. As much as I have studied this subject, I have not come across any ...
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Husbands rights to female friends according to Allah [closed]

I am Islamically married to a man who is still legally married to a woman he has told me as well as her and others that he is divorcing. Is it lawful for him to remain in her life. She is still in ...
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How intimate can a married couple be in public?

Can a husband and wife walk together holding hands in the park for example or is that already too much? Does it depend when you are in a non Muslim or Muslim country and what is the 'Urf - custom? If ...
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Does a wife have to obey her husband in matters that are doubtful?

Ordinary, a wife is expected to obey her husband. However, she is forbidden to obey if her husband requests something forbidden (e.g. anal sex). However, there are matters which are doubtful, which ...
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Can I get a photograph kissing my husband?

I am married for about a month now and I have a very loving husband. We live abroad our country and we have a big house. In our country kissing in public is normal and there are many photographers who ...
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Marrying an older women

I recently met a practicing women. She wishes to get married and we really like each other. However she is 34 and I am 23 and she also has two children. I do like her but I’m worried about what my ...
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Can i ask my money back from my wife if she does not want to be with me? [closed]

I gave my wife a lot of money so she can buy cloths & study etc., i also gave money so she can pay the fees for a visa. But now she decided not to come to me (we live in different countries). Can ...
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Marriage or no marriage

I am a 28 years old man. I have an incredible desire to be emotionally and physically attached to someone of the opposite gender. However, I do not like the idea of providing for her and the children. ...
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Can I masturbate after marriage if I'm not satisfied with my wife?

As-Salam-Wa-Laikum. I've a question related to masturbation. I know, Masturbation is Haram. But, here's my situation. I'm married for 23 years but for many years, I don't get excited for my wife ...
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What should be movement with my future wife after a family engagement

Assalamualaikum. I am a 23 years old Muslim boy. I have chosen a girl, almost same age as mine form the same University I graduating. I have talked with her several times, passed some times walking ...
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Is the prayer for a spouse instantly accepted?

I heard that when parents pray for their children Allah accepts it instantly. Does Husband-wife's prayer does the same thing?
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Why is lube for foreplay/sex permitted?

Sex toys are not allowed because you are using a foreign object to pleasure yourself when only any part of the spouse's body can be used. In the same way lubrication such as KY Jelly is not natural ...
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Is it possible to marry your wife's sister? [duplicate]

Am I correct you are not allowed to marry more than 1 sister at the same time so how Islamically would it be possible if at all? In what situation?
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Are things like lube and food allowed to be used during maritial relations?

To "spice" up their sex life, can these be used between a married couple? Is it islamically permissible?
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Is sex during menses allowed if it increases chances of pregnancy?

Basically, my wife and I plan to have a baby, but it's not happening. I went to a doctor, and they said that it's more likely to happen during her period. I know that in Islam it is haram to have sex ...
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Between wife or mother who has the right to stay in the son/husband's house?

Let's say that a man's wife and mother have a huge argument/fight. This issue has been brewing between them for a while, and there is no way for them to have peace with each other. There have been ...
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Is it permissible for a husband and wife to bathe together? [duplicate]

Is it permissible in Islam for a husband and wife to bathe together?
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2 worldly wives who is gonna higher in status?

Assalamu alaykum i have hd heard that the man in jannah will have 2 worldly wives then who is gonna be higher is status and who is gonna spend most of the time with her husband?
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What evidences for the permission on marrying a free woman to a slave are there?

As a continuation of my former questions on the marital relationship between a free and an enslaved person: Which conditions scholars have defined in case of a marriage between a free and a slave ...
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Is anal sex by accident punishable? [duplicate]

My question: Is it haram to have anal sex by accident? Will God punish me and my husband for that mistake that we did by accident? (We then stopped at that moment).
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Can I have sex with an unknown person if my husband has been abroad for around five years? [duplicate]

My husband has been abroad for about the last five years and I am very thirsty for sex, but he is not here. Can I have sex with another person?
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For a married women, who's order is superior father or husband according to Islamic point of view?

Who's orders are superior for a married women father or her husband? What is in Islam about this thing?
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Real meaning of loyality to husband [duplicate]

One Islamic hadith says that loyality to your husband after marriage is one of the most essential duties for a female to perform.sometimes it also indicattes that you have to always prioritize your ...
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Wife’s clothing in islam

A wife is supposed to wear what her husband wishes if I am not wrong so my question is that if the husband wants his wife to wear tight, seethrough or short clothes in public can she wear it or not
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Should I forego fajr prayer when my husband asks for intercourse?

I'm newly married and I never left off any prayer but when my husband ask me for intercourse, I have to let go of my fajr prayer, what should I do?
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Wife asking her husband forcefully to give her Talaq with some fake stories and witnessess

I have married past 6-7 months past, but with the passing time she started to fight with every now and then and told me that I am poor and not cant give her a wealthy life and my house is too small ...
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Is it ok to wear a thong?

I just wear it for my husband so that he can have something to look at. Like is it permissible to wear it to impress him and make him (hard!). Can you give me reference to ahadiths and Qur'an as to ...
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Can I see any part of my wife? [closed]

We have been married many years but because she is conservative and perhaps because she is from a Muslim country she isn't as free with me as I'd like. If I want to look at her breasts and privates ...
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Protected oral sex (with condom / dental dam) allowed?

With the objections of particularly the sexual fluids such as vaginal secretions, pre-ejaculate and semen entering the mouth and swallowing do any scholars find oral sex of the man with a (flavoured) ...