Questions tagged [husband-wife]

This tag refers to the relationship between husband and wife

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How to display displeasure to my wife

What is the correct & proper way from Sunnah to display displeasure to my wife? We recently got married & I am concerned that if I incorrectly display my displeasure with her recently decision,...
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Wife's Tamkin and Marital Rape

It is not my question, But some one asked me about this issue.What are the differences of wife's submission/deference (Tamkin Khas) in Islamic law and marital rape in western law? In western law there ...
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How much information should be shared between potential husband and wife before nikkah?

Suppose a girl has issues with her monthly cycle and she took some hormone treatment to fix it and she is satisfied with the treatment. However she walks into marriage without sharing this detail with ...
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husband wife roles reversed

my husband can't earn. so I earn and also we live in my house which I inherited from my father. I know that a woman can't leave her husband's house without his permission. does the same thing apply ...
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I don’t want to have children, is it haram?

I’m getting to the stage of my life where I’m starting to think about marriage. However, with marriage comes the topic of children. I for one don’t want children and won’t change my mind - I am ...
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Will Allah punish me if I am married to a man who won’t pray?

Will Allah (swt) punish me if I am married to a man who doesn’t pray 5 times a day? I love my husband very much and it was my choice to marry him. He keeps on saying he will pray when it will be the ...
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Premature ejaculation [closed]

My question is concerning premature ejaculation. I suffer from this “illness”. I have been married for nearly few years and this illness has prevented me from having normal intercourse with my wife. I ...
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What are the duties of a wife?

I read that in Islam, a woman isn't obliged to cook or do household chores, so what exactly is a wife supposed to do? Islam also says that if a man fails to maintain his wife, then she can deny him of ...
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Who was the most beautiful wife of Prophet Muhammad? [closed]

I just can't come to a conclusion reading from the sources. I see the competition was (in my understanding) between Aishah bint Abu Bakr, Safiyya bint Huyaiy, Maria Qibtiyya and Juweirya. For ...
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Can a man have sex with wife if bleeding continues even after the exact time of women monthly bleeding?

If a woman miscarries after two months, then the 40 days of women bleeding finishes and then the monthly bleeding starts and then its time finishes as well, but still the bleeding continues, in this ...
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Does husband have to pay Mahr if wife does not want to continue marriage but does not ask for Khula either because she does not want to give Mahr back

Assalamu alaikum. Does the husband have to pay the remaining Mahr if the wife does not want to continue the marriage but does not ask for Khula either because she does not want to give the Mahr back? ...
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Is Consensual Anal Sex allowed in Islam?

Salam, I'm young and newly married. My wife and I had been practicing anal sex and by chance i learned it was haram. I immediately stopped practicing. But it has always been consensual and my wife ...
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Can husband and wife take shower together and they can see their naked body? [duplicate]

I want to know that in islam, Husband and wife can bath togethers and they can see their naked body and love each other like this way ?
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Can I ask for a divorce from my husband who has cheated on me?

I'm married with two kids and my husband cheated on me and took her in marriage as a second wife. I don't feel loved anymore. Can I ask for a talaq?
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Sex deprivation: How long is it permissible for a husband to not have sex with his wife?

Salam Alaikum. Pls I have been married for 6 years and my husband doesn’t really have sex with or even just intimacy with me. I want to know pls how long is permissible for a husband to leave his wife ...
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Why is lube for foreplay/sex permitted?

Sex toys are not allowed because you are using a foreign object to pleasure yourself when only any part of the spouse's body can be used. In the same way lubrication such as KY Jelly is not natural ...
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To what extent is anal sex with your wife haram?

What is the degree of sin when having sex via anal with your wife, is it greater, lesser sin or is it makrroh?
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What is the punishment for beating up your wife without a valid reason?

Is there a punishment in Islam for those who beat their wives without any valid reason? Even-though the wife is so obedient and take care of the home and the children?
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Can a woman use test-tube fertilization after the death of her husband?

A few years ago I heard that some non-Muslim "Pop-Star" wanted the sperms from her husband to be kept for later in-vitro fertilization as she and her husband failed to conceive and he also had cancer. ...
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What does being an obedient wife really mean? [duplicate]

As I understand, Muslim wives are required to be obedient: ... So righteous women are devoutly obedient, guarding in [the husband's] absence what Allah would have them guard. ... -- Qur'an 4:34 ...
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Is it haram to have sex for fun?

Is it haram to do sex for fun in marriages? Does that count as zina? I was told it is haram and your only allowed to do sex when wanting a baby.
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Does A woman has a right on her husband for providing a separate house?

As from many Hadith and sunnah it is prove that man should provide a separate room to his wife.Can a woman has right on her husband that he provide him a separate house on her demand ,if he is ...
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Can a Shia wife perform matam even if her Sunni husband prohibits?

If I am a Shia girl married to a Sunni boy who doesn't want me to do matam (mourning) only, should I follow my husband or perform the matam no matter what?
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pre-coital fluid

Assalamu alaikum Is it necessary to change my clothes if I found pre cotial fluid in it . What if I'm having ejacuation of pre cotial fluid after every time having a conversation with my partner ? Is ...
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How to decide on a marriage date?

According to the sunnah, what is the maximum time allowed between acceptance of a proposal and the actual nikah. I understand that engagement ceremony isn't part of Islam. But I have seen people keep ...
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Marriage or no marriage

I am a 28 years old man. I have an incredible desire to be emotionally and physically attached to someone of the opposite gender. However, I do not like the idea of providing for her and the children. ...
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Is a Muslim husband allowed to have sex with his multiple wives simultaneously?

Is it permissible for a man to have sex with 2 or 3 wives at a time if his wives have no problem to have sex and have no problem to share their husband together? Note that, they are wives, not hired ...
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Can a wife receive a blood transfusion from her husband?

My cousin's wife gave birth to a child and at that time she needs blood urgently, her husband (my cousin) gave blood to her. But later on some of people said them, that it is not permissible in islam (...
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Punishment for faker/cheater husband in Islam

If a man, who is married from 19 years and he has 5 children but still he cheats his wife. Once he wants to marry a woman without the permission of first wife. He continuously cheats his wife from ...
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Can I masturbate after marriage if I'm not satisfied with my wife?

As-Salam-Wa-Laikum. I've a question related to masturbation. I know, Masturbation is Haram. But, here's my situation. I'm married for 23 years but for many years, I don't get excited for my wife ...
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Is bondage permissible during sexual activities in Islam?

Bondage - sexual practice that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner. During sexual intercourse or other such sexual activities, is it permissible to indulge in bondage if it pleases ...
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Is it ok to wear a thong?

I just wear it for my husband so that he can have something to look at. Like is it permissible to wear it to impress him and make him (hard!). Can you give me reference to ahadiths and Qur'an as to ...
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Between wife or mother who has the right to stay in the son/husband's house?

Let's say that a man's wife and mother have a huge argument/fight. This issue has been brewing between them for a while, and there is no way for them to have peace with each other. There have been ...
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Manner of correcting spouse

In response to behaviour that is unappealing to him and perhaps negative in general, what evidence is there of the manner in which a husband gives his wife necessary guidance about her behaviour (or ...
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If the husband disappears without a trace, who is obliged to spend on his wife?

What should a wife do if her husband has abandoned her but she wants to remarry? By this, I mean that a husband has disappeared without a trace and has been gone for a year. He has not left any ...
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If the husband hits the wife in anger, can the wife hit back?

If there was a misunderstanding between the husband and wife and if the husband hits the wife in anger, can the wife hit back?
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Real meaning of loyality to husband [duplicate]

One Islamic hadith says that loyality to your husband after marriage is one of the most essential duties for a female to perform.sometimes it also indicattes that you have to always prioritize your ...
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What should be movement with my future wife after a family engagement

Assalamualaikum. I am a 23 years old Muslim boy. I have chosen a girl, almost same age as mine form the same University I graduating. I have talked with her several times, passed some times walking ...
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What if a husband is displeased with his new wife's body after getting married?

I'm wondering what after happens if, after getting married and the wife revealing her body for the first time, her husband is not satisfied. Question: What if a husband is displeased with his new ...
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Is it permissible in Islam to have sexual intercourse while the wife is pregnant?

Is it permissible in Islam to have sexual intercourse while the wife is pregnant? If it is permissible during pregnancy, up to what point is it allowed?
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Is the prayer for a spouse instantly accepted?

I heard that when parents pray for their children Allah accepts it instantly. Does Husband-wife's prayer does the same thing?
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Is Marriage Annul if Wife runs from home with out husband's concern

Is the marriage Annul if Wife keeps running from husband's home with out husbands permission to her parents house and stays with them for months together with out husband's consent, stating false ...
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Can I divorce my husband due to lack of trust?

He chats and speaks on the phone with other women but does not speak to me. He denies that he does this by claiming that he fears Allah and would never commit adultery. But, I clearly see the messages ...
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Is not husband having no right over wife's salary a bit injustice?

Suppose i am married with a earning wife. We both earn the same. I am only son of my parents and she is also only issue of her parents. Now as i have to look after her expenses and also my children i ...
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My husband did not divorce me, but says he did in court; what is my marital status?

I'm separated from my husband since 12 years ago, he did not divorce me but in the court he said in front of the judge: "I have divorced her but she is denying it". What is my status in Islam? What ...
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For a married women, who's order is superior father or husband according to Islamic point of view?

Who's orders are superior for a married women father or her husband? What is in Islam about this thing?
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Periods of two weeks duration

Assalam-o-Alaikum brothers and sisters. I am a new married person. It's about 8th week of my marriage. I came here with my wife for Umrah. When we were coming from my country; my wife ate medicine ...
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Does the husband have to earn the right to be obeyed by his wife?

A friend of mine thinks that the husband needs to earn the right to be obeyed by his wife. I have searched a lot of sources (like islam.stackexchange.com, islamqa.info, islamweb.net, quora.com, ...
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In a forced marriage, is sex obligatory for the woman?

If you are in a forced marriage in Islam, is it still necessary to perform sexual intercourse with your husband/wife? If you are not happy or give consent to having any sexual activities performed on ...
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Marrying an older women

I recently met a practicing women. She wishes to get married and we really like each other. However she is 34 and I am 23 and she also has two children. I do like her but I’m worried about what my ...