Questions tagged [husband-wife]

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why don’t men have to mourn their dead wife while a woman has to mourn her dead husband

this is something that has been bothering me for a while and I was hoping someone could answer or educate me on this topic. when a woman's husband dies she must wait 4 months and a couple of days ...
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Is a man required to protect his wifes?

Is a man required to protect his wifes? Or offspring? Not sure if the "jihad" tag is appropriate.
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Is it permissible in Islam to have sexual intercourse while the wife is pregnant?

Is it permissible in Islam to have sexual intercourse while the wife is pregnant? If it is permissible during pregnancy, up to what point is it allowed?
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Hey, Im having a dream and it's the third time that iam dreaming

Im having a dream where a unknown person kidnaps ne with his magic and later we are doing sex and i am enjoying in my dream and later we stop and i see a little bit blood on my vagina. Im married and ...
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Husband's financial support to Wife in Islam

I have been married for 7 years, and I work on my own, while my wife takes care of our child. Every time I get my salary, I always give 100% of it to my wife. When I get a freelance project, I also ...
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Please answer me my husband said divorce 3 times I need to know

my husband divorced me by saying it 3 different time in anger. He literally lost his mind and out of anger said this. last year around February he said it Once and around October once and this year ...
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insert or touchin private part

Assalamu Alaikum. Can i insert my right hands finger into my wife vagina? Is it permissible to finger with the right hand if vaginal fluid (Madhy/Semen) comes out of the vagina while fingering the ...
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Limits of obedience to husband

What is ruling about the obedience of the husband in things that are general or recommended or permitted (mubah)? Do all these actions come under one rule? In the case of when doing something halal, ...
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How much right does a child have over their parents?

Sometimes the parent may be in the wrong, does the child have the right to correct their parent or go against them or is that not permissible. For example, it may be that the child has learnt ...
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Is it a sin if a women slaps back his husband's face? If he slap her over a small fight in anger?

husband slaps his wife on face in front of his family bcz of a fight between his mother and wife in which his mother was wrong so when wife talked back at him he slapped her in anger so she also ...
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Can a man have sex with wife if bleeding continues even after the exact time of women monthly bleeding?

If a woman miscarries after two months, then the 40 days of women bleeding finishes and then the monthly bleeding starts and then its time finishes as well, but still the bleeding continues, in this ...
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Do women have to tolerate abuse from their husbands?

So, I saw this Fatwa on islamqa and it quoted a Hadith. This part of the Hadith says: Shall I not tell you about your women in Paradise?” We said: Yes, O Messenger of Allah. He said: “The loving and ...
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Can I ask Allah for a religious wife but who has high libido?

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters I'm 20 years old I have a high libido and unable to control myself from watching bad video's and masturbate I'm trying to quit this for my future wife and to ...
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Can I masturbate after marriage if I'm not satisfied with my wife?

As-Salam-Wa-Laikum. I've a question related to masturbation. I know, Masturbation is Haram. But, here's my situation. I'm married for 23 years but for many years, I don't get excited for my wife ...
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Who is worse among these two kinds of woman?

Among these two women who is the worse? A woman who treats her husband well, serves him well but does fornication (Zina) in absence of her husband. A woman who prays salah, do her hijabs but ...
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Clarification and questions about this Hadith

Below is the Hadith regarding which I want clarifications. It was narrated that: Sulaiman bin Amr bin Ahwas said: “My father told me that he was present at the Farewell Pilgrimage with the Messenger ...
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Marriage issue, With spouse and HAQQ [duplicate]

I married a non-Muslim while we were both in prison, by way of state. She converted. I got out, and she reverted back to Christianity. We have not consummated. She has years left to serve. What is the ...
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Talking to one's wife over the Internet and finding pleasure in that

The following site mentions a fatwa that it is permissible for a married couple to talk about sex on the telephone and provoke one another until one or both of them reaches climax, without using the ...
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What is the Islamic stand point when a wife refuses her husband sex, based on the fact that he does not provide for his family

Can a wife refuses her husband sex because she is the breadwinner of the family,
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Qadhi decision to divorce a couple after abuse

My question is this, In the case where according to the schools of fiqh, a woman can ask the Qadi (Islamic judge) to divorce her husband even against his decision in the case of her husband's abuse, ...
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Should wife ask permission to start work

My wife started the business to support her family (brothers). I was not asked for permission as I thought her involvement would be minimum. I, however, keep losing jobs and she mention that she is ...
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Wife's Tamkin and Marital Rape

It is not my question, But some one asked me about this issue.What are the differences of wife's submission/deference (Tamkin Khas) in Islamic law and marital rape in western law? In western law there ...
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Why a husband can accuse his wife of adultery but a wife cannot?

In Islam, if a woman commits adultery, a man can use Li'aan and use it to inflict the punishment of hud on her. If she tells a lie, she also has to say in the end that she may be cursed by Allah. But ...
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What is the punishment for beating up your wife without a valid reason?

Is there a punishment in Islam for those who beat their wives without any valid reason? Even-though the wife is so obedient and take care of the home and the children?
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Why is lube for foreplay/sex permitted?

Sex toys are not allowed because you are using a foreign object to pleasure yourself when only any part of the spouse's body can be used. In the same way lubrication such as KY Jelly is not natural ...
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Marriage in Judgement-day

Allah Almighty has said people will get what they wish for in Jannah or Heaven. What if you wish for a woman who is someone else's wife? And The woman also want to be with you, What will be the ...
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slave woman becoming her master's 5th wife?

a slave woman in islam can become her master's wife in some conditions but what if the master already have 4 wives and the condition for the slave to be wife arrived? will she become 5th wife? if she ...
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For a married women, who's order is superior father or husband according to Islamic point of view?

Who's orders are superior for a married women father or her husband? What is in Islam about this thing?
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Hadith about beating wives

Sunan ibn Majah 1986 says It was narrated that Ash'ath bin Qais said: "I was a guest (at the home) of 'Umar one night, and in the middle of the night he went and hit his wife, and I separated ...
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Is a wife required to e.g. stand on one leg, if her husband requests it?

Whenever I think of a "you have to do what I say" scenario, I think of movies such as Coming to America, where the prince meets his arranged wife, and the following dialogue takes place: 00:19:13 ...
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Why is cooking and cleaning not the duty of the wife?

After reading Muṣannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah, 29677, we get to know that the Prophet Muhammad PBUH gave his daughter, Hazrat Fatima (RA) the duty of managing the affairs of the household while he gave his ...
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Does a Muslim wife have to cook and clean for her husband? [duplicate]

In response to this question, Ustadha Shazia Ahmad quotes a Shafi'i jurist, “45.1 (Abu Ishaq Shirazi:) A woman is not obliged to serve her husband by baking, grinding flour, cooking, washing, or any ...
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Should a woman avoid getting married out of fear of becoming a rebellious wife?

A Wife's Rebellion Against Her Husband is major sin 47 in al-Dhahabi's Major Sins (pdf). Generally, this is interpreted as meaning any sharia-compliant instruction: Obedience is the first right ...
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Why must a wife obey her husband in Islam?

I want to know why in Islam a wife must obey her husband with the exception of doing sinful acts. What affords her husband the right to command her at all times ( with the exception of that which is ...
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Ruling on Making up missed prayer that was missed willingly because of not enough courage to take major ablution at night?

Most of the newly married couples in the subcontinent of ours don't offer their Fajr prayer at masjid willingly on time! They make it up at the time of Zuhr prayer as 'Kada'(making up missed prayer). ...
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Sex deprivation: How long is it permissible for a husband to not have sex with his wife?

Salam Alaikum. Pls I have been married for 6 years and my husband doesn’t really have sex with or even just intimacy with me. I want to know pls how long is permissible for a husband to leave his wife ...
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Can I masturbate after practicing Azl with my wife if I can't ejaculate naturally?

Salam 'Alaykoum, I am currently married and practice interrupted coitus ('azl), I withdraw before ejaculation to avoid pregnancy. The problem is that when I withdraw I have to stimulate my genital ...
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Can a wife protect herself from her husband by beating him?

If a man beats his wife without reason can the wife beat him too to protect herself?
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Can my Parents refuse to let me go to my husbands house to live once married?

I am to be married and my to-be-husband wants me to go and live with him in his home where his whole family is. He has a job there also. The problem is my parents do not want to send me as it is in ...
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Periods of two weeks duration

Assalam-o-Alaikum brothers and sisters. I am a new married person. It's about 8th week of my marriage. I came here with my wife for Umrah. When we were coming from my country; my wife ate medicine ...
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Does A woman has a right on her husband for providing a separate house?

As from many Hadith and sunnah it is prove that man should provide a separate room to his wife.Can a woman has right on her husband that he provide him a separate house on her demand ,if he is ...
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Does a wife have to obey her husband in matters that are doubtful?

Ordinary, a wife is expected to obey her husband. However, she is forbidden to obey if her husband requests something forbidden (e.g. anal sex). However, there are matters which are doubtful, which ...
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A husband made a list of demands which prompted his wife to leave Islam; are all of them legally acceptable?

Among one of many testimonials of ex-Muslims, WikiIslam (reposting from FaithFreedom) lists how Andrea, a US convert to Islam, was prompted to leave Islam by a list of demands made by her husband. ...
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Is a married couple allowed to be naked during sex?

I heard in a bayan (sermon) that the married couples should not be fully naked (without any clothes) even during sex. This answer states that the ayats 23:5-6 reveals that the couples can be naked. ...
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Is Consensual Anal Sex allowed in Islam?

Salam, I'm young and newly married. My wife and I had been practicing anal sex and by chance i learned it was haram. I immediately stopped practicing. But it has always been consensual and my wife ...
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In what sense are wives "captives" in the hadith "...they are but captives with you..."?

I'm surprised by the use of the word captive in this hadith: And indeed I order you to be good to the women, for they are but captives with you over whom you have no power than that, except if they ...
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Is not husband having no right over wife's salary a bit injustice?

Suppose i am married with a earning wife. We both earn the same. I am only son of my parents and she is also only issue of her parents. Now as i have to look after her expenses and also my children i ...
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Is it improper for a woman to insist on being the only wife?

Qur'an 4:3 makes Islamically permissible men having more than one wife. However, after some (comically unsuccessful) attempts at finding a husband, I can say the idea of my (inshallah) future husband ...
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Is it haram to have sex for fun?

Is it haram to do sex for fun in marriages? Does that count as zina? I was told it is haram and your only allowed to do sex when wanting a baby.
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How to interpret the hadith Musnad Al-Bazzār 16/215/8628?

Assalamu alaykum I read in this hadith Musnad Al-Bazzār 16/215/8628 "When one of you goes in unto his wife, let him be covered, for if he is not covered, the angels feel shy and depart, then if ...