Questions tagged [husband-wife]
This tag refers to the relationship between husband and wife
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For a married women, who's order is superior father or husband according to Islamic point of view?
Who's orders are superior for a married women father or her husband? What is in Islam about this thing?
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Does A woman has a right on her husband for providing a separate house?
As from many Hadith and sunnah it is prove that man should provide a separate room to his wife.Can a woman has right on her husband that he provide him a separate house on her demand ,if he is ...
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Marrying an older women
I recently met a practicing women. She wishes to get married and we really like each other. However she is 34 and I am 23 and she also has two children.
I do like her but I’m worried about what my ...
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What evidences for the permission on marrying a free woman to a slave are there?
As a continuation of my former questions on the marital relationship between a free and an enslaved person: Which conditions scholars have defined in case of a marriage between a free and a slave ...
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Which conditions scholars have defined in case of a marriage between a free and a slave spouse?
As a continuation to my previous question What rulings are there for the case of a free man marrying a slave girl?
I'd like to know more about the marriage between a free person and a slave of the ...
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Wife can insult her husband?
In Islam, husband has a lot of rights. A wife is not permitted to insult her husband but if the husband insults her wife first, then what wife should do? wife can insult her husband in the reaction.
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What rulings of polygny apply in the case of a free man marrying a slave girl?
After reading Did scholars define a limitation of concubines a man could have? I remembered that there's another verse later saying:
And whoever among you cannot [find] the means to marry free, ...
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How am I to face my husband after talaq before the 'Idah ends while a reconciliation is (theoretically) possible?
Two days ago my husband give me single talaq. I am still living in his house but we are avoiding each other he is not willing to ruju. what should I do ? do I immediately leave the house. leaving home ...
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Why is lube for foreplay/sex permitted?
Sex toys are not allowed because you are using a foreign object to pleasure yourself when only any part of the spouse's body can be used. In the same way lubrication such as KY Jelly is not natural ...
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Why must a wife obey her husband in Islam?
I want to know why in Islam a wife must obey her husband with the exception of doing sinful acts.
What affords her husband the right to command her at all times ( with the exception of that which is ...
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Is it rewardable for the newlywed wife to be treated like a Princess?
Is there anything in the Sunnah where the new wife say for a time (a year perhaps) didn't have to do any house work? I know some families in some Muslim countries who are well off and have a higher ...
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Sex and having a child
I am a 25 year old and I have a child who is 6 years old. For a long time me and my husband could not have sex because our child was there we tried everything but it was very had to have sex when he ...
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How to interpret the hadith Musnad Al-Bazzār 16/215/8628?
Assalamu alaykum I read in this hadith
Musnad Al-Bazzār 16/215/8628
"When one of you goes in unto his wife, let him be covered, for if he is not covered, the angels feel shy and depart, then if ...
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Which verse in Quran Chapter 2 talks about female sexual pleasure?
This article talks about sexologist Heba Kotb of Egypt. She says: "the biggest chapter of the Quran is called "The Cow." There is a verse talking about the woman's rising pleasure. It's an order to ...
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Can a husband and wife to look each other's thights? [duplicate]
The Prophet (ﷺ) said: Do not uncover your thigh, and do not look at the thigh of the living and the dead.Can a husband and wife to look each other's thights?
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Protected oral sex (with condom / dental dam) allowed?
With the objections of particularly the sexual fluids such as vaginal secretions, pre-ejaculate and semen entering the mouth and swallowing do any scholars find oral sex of the man with a (flavoured) ...
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Does a Sin transmit to the husband as he has the responsibility of the wife?
As its known in verse 4:34, the husband has the responsibility over his wives.
In a case where A husband is not able to convince his wife to stop from a sin in which he is aware about, does this ...
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Does one wife have the right to be treated as good as another
Does one wife have the right to be treated as good as another wife of one husband?
What happens when she is not?
Is there anything she can do? What?
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Is it possible to marry your wife's sister? [duplicate]
Am I correct you are not allowed to marry more than 1 sister at the same time so how Islamically would it be possible if at all? In what situation?
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Can I see any part of my wife? [closed]
We have been married many years but because she is conservative and perhaps because she is from a Muslim country she isn't as free with me as I'd like. If I want to look at her breasts and privates ...
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Periods of two weeks duration
Assalam-o-Alaikum brothers and sisters.
I am a new married person. It's about 8th week of my marriage. I came here with my wife for Umrah. When we were coming from my country; my wife ate medicine ...
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Does the husband have to earn the right to be obeyed by his wife?
A friend of mine thinks that the husband needs to earn the right to be obeyed by his wife. I have searched a lot of sources (like islam.stackexchange.com, islamqa.info, islamweb.net, quora.com, ...
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Rights and duties of wife when husband is abroad without her consent
Assalamoaliqum, I am a working women, mother of one married for more than an year.
At the time of proposal or nikkah it was not mentioned that my husband and I will have to live seperatly and he will ...
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Can I re marry first wife when I'm still with second wife?
Asalam valikum,
I got khula from my first wife 8 years ago and have a son of 7 years, she is unmarried till now and I got married to another girl and have 3 kids, now can I re marry my first wife by ...
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What is the maximum period that a husband may leave his wife without sexual intercourse? [duplicate]
My husband and I have not been intimate for five years. I feel cheated and I really feel like he just doesn't desire me. I don't believe he is being truthful about not being able to perform because ...
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Should a woman avoid getting married out of fear of becoming a rebellious wife?
A Wife's Rebellion Against Her Husband is major sin 47 in al-Dhahabi's Major Sins (pdf). Generally, this is interpreted as meaning any sharia-compliant instruction:
Obedience is the first right ...
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What is recommended behaviour and the rights of a wife, If her husband is sinful and wouldn't give up?
My husband is very Islamic, but chats online with unknown girls, even requesting "space and privacy". He sometimes talks to them for a whole day, which I find disturbing. I have asked him to stop, ...
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Are things like lube and food allowed to be used during maritial relations?
To "spice" up their sex life, can these be used between a married couple? Is it islamically permissible?
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Sex deprivation: How long is it permissible for a husband to not have sex with his wife?
Salam Alaikum. Pls I have been married for 6 years and my husband doesn’t really have sex with or even just intimacy with me. I want to know pls how long is permissible for a husband to leave his wife ...
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What is the 'awrah between husbands and wives?
My husband often wants me to be totally naked when he is at home. What is the 'awrah between husbands and wives?
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Can I get a photograph kissing my husband?
I am married for about a month now and I have a very loving husband. We live abroad our country and we have a big house. In our country kissing in public is normal and there are many photographers who ...
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My husband making me orgasm with his hands: is this counted as masturbation?
When me and my husband are having sex he fingers me and rubs my vagina so I have orgasm so I wanted to know that is this the same as masturbation and is it haram to do this. I feel this is haram ...
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Did Umar (RA) say “… you are no more than a toy in a corner of the house …” to his wife?
I was reading Imam Ghazali's book where I came across this:
'Umar scolded his wife when she talked back to him saying,
“You are no more than a toy in a corner of the house;
if we have need of ...
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Is it backbiting if woman reports the advances of a non-mahram to her husband?
Backbiting is a sin in Islam, and there's even a short surah about it (Al Humazah). Islam Q&A describe it as:
Gheebah or backbiting means speaking about a Muslim in his absence and saying ...
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How intimate can a married couple be in public?
Can a husband and wife walk together holding hands in the park for example or is that already too much? Does it depend when you are in a non Muslim or Muslim country and what is the 'Urf - custom? If ...
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Priority of a married woman: husband or terminally-ill parents? [closed]
I got married eight months back and moved to the USA with my husband. Both my parents are aged and suffer from terminally ill diseases.
My husband is very understanding and he sent me immediately to ...
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Is it improper for a woman to insist on being the only wife?
Qur'an 4:3 makes Islamically permissible men having more than one wife. However, after some (comically unsuccessful) attempts at finding a husband, I can say the idea of my (inshallah) future husband ...
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Wife’s clothing in islam
A wife is supposed to wear what her husband wishes if I am not wrong so my question is that if the husband wants his wife to wear tight, seethrough or short clothes in public can she wear it or not
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Is anal sex by accident punishable? [duplicate]
My question: Is it haram to have anal sex by accident? Will God punish me and my husband for that mistake that we did by accident? (We then stopped at that moment).
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Is sex during menses allowed if it increases chances of pregnancy?
Basically, my wife and I plan to have a baby, but it's not happening. I went to a doctor, and they said that it's more likely to happen during her period. I know that in Islam it is haram to have sex ...
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Wearing clothes when husband and child is at home
I had some clothing issue I thought that I was wearing the wrong ones when my husband and my 5 year old child is at home so I have listed them below and I have described them please tell me if they ...
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Marriage between “stepdaughter” and “stepfather”, orphan girl, no blood relations, may fall into Zinna [closed]
Note: You may have seen this post before, I am the same man asking about the same concerning and pressing matters. I just changed my name out of fear (Allah forbid) something bad happens. I took away ...
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Halal or haram marriage [closed]
Salamalaikum!
My question is regarding my marriage
When I met my husband I wasnt paying much attention to the religion so we married in court as civil marriage. My father and mother left me alone in ...
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What are the virtuous acts of the first night together for newly married spouses?
I am getting married next week so I wanted to know the things we do in the night of marriage. I had a doubt about can we have sex with our wife on the first night of marriage so please clear this ...
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Will Allah punish me if I am married to a man who won’t pray?
Will Allah (swt) punish me if I am married to a man who doesn’t pray 5 times a day?
I love my husband very much and it was my choice to marry him. He keeps on saying he will pray when it will be the ...
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When the thought-to-be-dead husband shows up, what is the situation of the wife and 2nd husband?
Let's say there was a married couple in love. The husband soon "dies" in an untoward accident, and the wife is left grieving. After a year or so, she meets another man and decides to re-marry.
This ...
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What if husband asks wife to take in-laws permission for doing anything?
I know that the wife has no responsibility on herself to look after in-laws or to listen to their commands and she only has to listen to her husband and his permission is enough for doing anything but ...
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Is bondage permissible during sexual activities in Islam?
Bondage - sexual practice that involves the tying up or restraining of one partner.
During sexual intercourse or other such sexual activities, is it permissible to indulge in bondage if it pleases ...
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Is Islamic divorce enough to get re-married, or do I need an English civil divorce, too? [duplicate]
Asslamualikum
It's been three years since I'm having problems in my marriage. Every time I mention this to someone, they ignore me. I have done so much for my husband more than his expectations and ...
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How do I ask Allah to forgive me for my past life and lying about it to protect my wife?
Before I accepted Islam, I led a pretty disgraceful life. It has led to terrible marriage problems. When my wife asks me for information on the things I did (she is not Muslim), I do not tell her the ...
