Questions tagged [husband-wife]
This tag refers to the relationship between husband and wife
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Resources on being a good husband?
Salaam alaikum
Can anyone recommend good resources (books, videos, etc.) on being a good husband in Islam? Sunni sources only please.
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What happens if we on cum out side without inserting in in ramzan
if we kiss our wife and just about to have sex and unintentional ejculate not inserting inside. Will I have to go for kaffarah? Or i have to do qaza?First. Did i break my fast?
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Marriage and sex
Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters
I'm 20 years old
I have a high libido and unable to control myself from watching bad video's and masturbate I'm trying to quit this for my future wife and to ...
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What to do when husband is having sexual dreams
I've got married two years ago. After that, every time when my husband is having a sexual dream I can realize. His thing becomes hard and breaths become heavy.
I'm a practising muslim. I'm ashamed to ...
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Must a man be the one to make the marriage proposal?
In Islam, must a man be the one to make the marriage proposal? If so, why?
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Does Allah forgives the woman who commits suicide, when it is her very husband who asked her to do so? [duplicate]
A woman in my country committed suicide. Through a lot of evidences, it has been proved that it was his husband who requested her to commit suicide.
The husband was partaking in adultery and didn't ...
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Can a wife refuse her husband in bed?
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According to this video a wife can not refuse her husband as it is a sin.
But, why can't she refuse her husband if she is not feeling like to have sex with him. Or if she is a bit tired. Or if ...
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what if I ask my husband that I don't want to stay with my in-laws as he is abroad? can I go and stay with my mother?
Its been about 4 months for our marriage. I am staying with my In-laws, I am not allow to go outside with my father-in-laws permission not even to my mothers place and do anything. He verbally abuse ...
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Nikaah under this situation plz answer
Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullah WA Barkatuhu
My question is regarding nikah
In islam a woman cannot be married without her wali
But imagine if a man and woman are struck on an island and both are ...
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Marrying an older woman [duplicate]
As by Islam can a Divorced older woman can marry a man whose age is equal or lesser than his granddaughter or grandson
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Wife refuses to visit husbands parents house
I have been married for 3 years and me and my wife live separate to parents.
I allow her to visit her parents anytime she likes.
However I do not attend her parents house due to tension and negative ...
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I have a question about women haircut [duplicate]
Asalam aleikom,
I am married. And actually I am so attracted with short hair (pixie cut). And my wife she doesn’t like short hair (pixie cut) at all. I have asked her so many times she did cut a few ...
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Is it haram to read fan fictions that mention sex to learn, how to do it but never use it except for the halal sex with my wife? [duplicate]
Learning to please my wife. Please tell a modest answer with facts. I have scoured the internet for every halal site I can but cannot find anything.
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Sexual activities After Marriage
Assalamu Alaikum Everyone, I want to know that after Marriage, Can wife touch husbands penis and rub it to ejaculate sperm? Is it Halal? Is it kind of Masturbation?
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insert or touchin private part
Assalamu Alaikum.
Can i insert my right hands finger into my wife vagina? Is it permissible to finger with the right hand if vaginal fluid (Madhy/Semen) comes out of the vagina while fingering the ...
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Can I ask my wife to stop talking to her family members?
I was doing a data transfer from her old iPhone to her new iPhone when she got a bunch of messages (displayed on the screen) and thus I found out that my wife's family has been talking very negatively ...
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Can a wife protect herself from her husband by beating him?
If a man beats his wife without reason can the wife beat him too to protect herself?
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Marriage In Jannah with someone else
What happens if a Muslim wife serves her husband and pleases him but doesn't want to be with him in Jannah and marry with someone else, is she given a choice ?
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Is sex outdoor allowed in islam?
Dear anyone who can help me,
I want to know if certain outdoor practices are allowed with my wife
sex in car but in empty location (eg-parking lot...) and fully covered
sex in the backyard or beside ...
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Can I fingering my husband anal?
I am a married women. During physical intercourse I have fingering my husband anal. Is it permissable? And also can I put sex toy in my husband anal?
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Marriage in Judgement-day
Allah Almighty has said people will get what they wish for in Jannah or Heaven. What if you wish for a woman who is someone else's wife? And The woman also want to be with you, What will be the ...
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Husband constantly lieing about his past
Aoa, i got married 5 years ago. Talked to my husband for 8 months before getting married. When we were talking we both asked about past relations and he said he only had 2 thats it. But occasionaly i ...
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Premature ejaculation [closed]
My question is concerning premature ejaculation. I suffer from this “illness”. I have been married for nearly few years and this illness has prevented me from having normal intercourse with my wife. I ...
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I don’t want to have children, is it haram?
I’m getting to the stage of my life where I’m starting to think about marriage. However, with marriage comes the topic of children. I for one don’t want children and won’t change my mind - I am ...
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husband wife roles reversed
my husband can't earn. so I earn and also we live in my house which I inherited from my father. I know that a woman can't leave her husband's house without his permission. does the same thing apply ...
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Who was the most beautiful wife of Prophet Muhammad? [closed]
I just can't come to a conclusion reading from the sources. I see the competition was (in my understanding) between Aishah bint Abu Bakr, Safiyya bint Huyaiy, Maria Qibtiyya and Juweirya.
For ...
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Is Consensual Anal Sex allowed in Islam?
Salam,
I'm young and newly married. My wife and I had been practicing anal sex and by chance i learned it was haram. I immediately stopped practicing. But it has always been consensual and my wife ...
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Does husband have to pay Mahr if wife does not want to continue marriage but does not ask for Khula either because she does not want to give Mahr back
Assalamu alaikum.
Does the husband have to pay the remaining Mahr if the wife does not want to continue the marriage but does not ask for Khula either because she does not want to give the Mahr back?
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Can husband and wife take shower together and they can see their naked body? [duplicate]
I want to know that in islam,
Husband and wife can bath togethers and they can see their naked body and love each other like this way ?
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Is it haram to have sex for fun?
Is it haram to do sex for fun in marriages? Does that count as zina? I was told it is haram and your only allowed to do sex when wanting a baby.
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pre-coital fluid
Assalamu alaikum
Is it necessary to change my clothes if I found pre cotial fluid in it . What if I'm having ejacuation of pre cotial fluid after every time having a conversation with my partner ? Is ...
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Marriage or no marriage
I am a 28 years old man. I have an incredible desire to be emotionally and physically attached to someone of the opposite gender. However, I do not like the idea of providing for her and the children. ...
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Can I masturbate after marriage if I'm not satisfied with my wife?
As-Salam-Wa-Laikum.
I've a question related to masturbation. I know, Masturbation is Haram. But, here's my situation.
I'm married for 23 years but for many years, I don't get excited for my wife ...
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Manner of correcting spouse
In response to behaviour that is unappealing to him and perhaps negative in general, what evidence is there of the manner in which a husband gives his wife necessary guidance about her behaviour (or ...
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If the husband disappears without a trace, who is obliged to spend on his wife?
What should a wife do if her husband has abandoned her but she wants to remarry? By this, I mean that a husband has disappeared without a trace and has been gone for a year. He has not left any ...
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Punishment for faker/cheater husband in Islam
If a man, who is married from 19 years and he has 5 children but still he cheats his wife. Once he wants to marry a woman without the permission of first wife. He continuously cheats his wife from ...
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Real meaning of loyality to husband [duplicate]
One Islamic hadith says that loyality to your husband after marriage is one of the most essential duties for a female to perform.sometimes it also indicattes that you have to always prioritize your ...
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What should be movement with my future wife after a family engagement
Assalamualaikum.
I am a 23 years old Muslim boy. I have chosen a girl, almost same age as mine form the same University I graduating. I have talked with her several times, passed some times walking ...
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Is the prayer for a spouse instantly accepted?
I heard that when parents pray for their children Allah accepts it instantly. Does Husband-wife's prayer does the same thing?
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Is Marriage Annul if Wife runs from home with out husband's concern
Is the marriage Annul if Wife keeps running from husband's home with out husbands permission to her parents house and stays with them for months together with out husband's consent, stating false ...
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Can I divorce my husband due to lack of trust?
He chats and speaks on the phone with other women but does not speak to me. He denies that he does this by claiming that he fears Allah and would never commit adultery. But, I clearly see the messages ...
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Can a wife receive a blood transfusion from her husband?
My cousin's wife gave birth to a child and at that time she needs blood urgently, her husband (my cousin) gave blood to her. But later on some of people said them, that it is not permissible in islam (...
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For a married women, who's order is superior father or husband according to Islamic point of view?
Who's orders are superior for a married women father or her husband? What is in Islam about this thing?
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Does A woman has a right on her husband for providing a separate house?
As from many Hadith and sunnah it is prove that man should provide a separate room to his wife.Can a woman has right on her husband that he provide him a separate house on her demand ,if he is ...
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Marrying an older women
I recently met a practicing women. She wishes to get married and we really like each other. However she is 34 and I am 23 and she also has two children.
I do like her but I’m worried about what my ...
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What evidences for the permission on marrying a free woman to a slave are there?
As a continuation of my former questions on the marital relationship between a free and an enslaved person: Which conditions scholars have defined in case of a marriage between a free and a slave ...
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Which conditions scholars have defined in case of a marriage between a free and a slave spouse?
As a continuation to my previous question What rulings are there for the case of a free man marrying a slave girl?
I'd like to know more about the marriage between a free person and a slave of the ...
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What rulings of polygny apply in the case of a free man marrying a slave girl?
After reading Did scholars define a limitation of concubines a man could have? I remembered that there's another verse later saying:
And whoever among you cannot [find] the means to marry free, ...
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How am I to face my husband after talaq before the 'Idah ends while a reconciliation is (theoretically) possible?
Two days ago my husband give me single talaq. I am still living in his house but we are avoiding each other he is not willing to ruju. what should I do ? do I immediately leave the house. leaving home ...
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Why is lube for foreplay/sex permitted?
Sex toys are not allowed because you are using a foreign object to pleasure yourself when only any part of the spouse's body can be used. In the same way lubrication such as KY Jelly is not natural ...
