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This tag refers to the relationship between husband and wife

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Should wife ask permission to start work

My wife started the business to support her family (brothers). I was not asked for permission as I thought her involvement would be minimum. I, however, keep losing jobs and she mention that she is ...
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Does a Muslim wife have to cook and clean for her husband? [duplicate]

In response to this question, Ustadha Shazia Ahmad quotes a Shafi'i jurist, “45.1 (Abu Ishaq Shirazi:) A woman is not obliged to serve her husband by baking, grinding flour, cooking, washing, or any ...
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Can I divorce my wife If I am sexually and physically weak?

I am 27 year old male. Recently had my Nikkah but waiting for Ruksati (Moving of wife from parents to husbands home). Issue: I have realized after Nikkah, due to doctor visit that I have become very ...
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Ruling on Making up missed prayer that was missed willingly because of not enough courage to take major ablution at night?

Most of the newly married couples in the subcontinent of ours don't offer their Fajr prayer at masjid willingly on time! They make it up at the time of Zuhr prayer as 'Kada'(making up missed prayer). ...
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Can I masturbate after practicing Azl with my wife if I can't ejaculate naturally?

Salam 'Alaykoum, I am currently married and practice interrupted coitus ('azl), I withdraw before ejaculation to avoid pregnancy. The problem is that when I withdraw I have to stimulate my genital ...
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Why is cooking and cleaning not the duty of the wife?

After reading Muṣannaf Ibn Abi Shaybah, 29677, we get to know that the Prophet Muhammad PBUH gave his daughter, Hazrat Fatima (RA) the duty of managing the affairs of the household while he gave his ...
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Hadith about beating wives

Sunan ibn Majah 1986 says It was narrated that Ash'ath bin Qais said: "I was a guest (at the home) of 'Umar one night, and in the middle of the night he went and hit his wife, and I separated ...
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Do women have to tolerate abuse from their husbands?

So, I saw this Fatwa on islamqa and it quoted a Hadith. This part of the Hadith says: Shall I not tell you about your women in Paradise?” We said: Yes, O Messenger of Allah. He said: “The loving and ...
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Do women not have the right to divorce?

I thought that Islam gave women the right to divorce but this answer on an Islamic website is saying that women can not. It says that if they wanted to they would have to make a request and take their ...
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Is it permissible to ask my future wife if she is a virgin even if i my self am a virgin?

Hi i recently got a future soon to be wife. She is a pious person for all i know and i am wondering if it is permissible to ask her if she is a virgin or not. I myself am a virgin. The thought of ...
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Is it ok to imagine having sex weather it’s your partner or someone random

Is it ok to imagine having sex weather it’s your partner or someone random I don’t see my husband all the time as he travels far for work. Before marriage I would imagine having sex with a random ...
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Resources on being a good husband?

Salaam alaikum Can anyone recommend good resources (books, videos, etc.) on being a good husband in Islam? Sunni sources only please.
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What happens if we on cum out side without inserting in in ramzan

if we kiss our wife and just about to have sex and unintentional ejculate not inserting inside. Will I have to go for kaffarah? Or i have to do qaza?First. Did i break my fast?
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Can I ask Allah for a religious wife but who has high libido?

Assalamualaikum brothers and sisters I'm 20 years old I have a high libido and unable to control myself from watching bad video's and masturbate I'm trying to quit this for my future wife and to ...
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What to do when husband is having sexual dreams

I've got married two years ago. After that, every time when my husband is having a sexual dream I can realize. His thing becomes hard and breaths become heavy. I'm a practising muslim. I'm ashamed to ...
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Must a man be the one to make the marriage proposal?

In Islam, must a man be the one to make the marriage proposal? If so, why?
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Does Allah forgives the woman who commits suicide, when it is her very husband who asked her to do so? [duplicate]

A woman in my country committed suicide. Through a lot of evidences, it has been proved that it was his husband who requested her to commit suicide. The husband was partaking in adultery and didn't ...
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what if I ask my husband that I don't want to stay with my in-laws as he is abroad? can I go and stay with my mother?

Its been about 4 months for our marriage. I am staying with my In-laws, I am not allow to go outside with my father-in-laws permission not even to my mothers place and do anything. He verbally abuse ...
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Nikaah under this situation plz answer

Assalamualaikum wa Rahmatullah WA Barkatuhu My question is regarding nikah In islam a woman cannot be married without her wali But imagine if a man and woman are struck on an island and both are ...
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Marrying an older woman [duplicate]

As by Islam can a Divorced older woman can marry a man whose age is equal or lesser than his granddaughter or grandson
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Wife refuses to visit husbands parents house

I have been married for 3 years and me and my wife live separate to parents. I allow her to visit her parents anytime she likes. However I do not attend her parents house due to tension and negative ...
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I have a question about women haircut [duplicate]

Asalam aleikom, I am married. And actually I am so attracted with short hair (pixie cut). And my wife she doesn’t like short hair (pixie cut) at all. I have asked her so many times she did cut a few ...
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Is it haram to read fan fictions that mention sex to learn, how to do it but never use it except for the halal sex with my wife? [duplicate]

Learning to please my wife. Please tell a modest answer with facts. I have scoured the internet for every halal site I can but cannot find anything.
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Sexual activities After Marriage

Assalamu Alaikum Everyone, I want to know that after Marriage, Can wife touch husbands penis and rub it to ejaculate sperm? Is it Halal? Is it kind of Masturbation?
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insert or touchin private part

Assalamu Alaikum. Can i insert my right hands finger into my wife vagina? Is it permissible to finger with the right hand if vaginal fluid (Madhy/Semen) comes out of the vagina while fingering the ...
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Can a husband ask his wife to pierce her belly for his own pleasure?

Assalamu alaikum dear readers, I just wanted to know if I can ask my wife for belly piercing to impress me and not show others. It is only between me and her for my pleasure and to preserve her beauty ...
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Can a wife protect herself from her husband by beating him?

If a man beats his wife without reason can the wife beat him too to protect herself?
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Marriage In Jannah with someone else

What happens if a Muslim wife serves her husband and pleases him but doesn't want to be with him in Jannah and marry with someone else, is she given a choice ?
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Is sex outdoor allowed in islam?

Dear anyone who can help me, I want to know if certain outdoor practices are allowed with my wife sex in car but in empty location (eg-parking lot...) and fully covered sex in the backyard or beside ...
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Can I fingering my husband anal? [duplicate]

I am a married women. During physical intercourse I have fingering my husband anal. Is it permissable? And also can I put sex toy in my husband anal?
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Marriage in Judgement-day

Allah Almighty has said people will get what they wish for in Jannah or Heaven. What if you wish for a woman who is someone else's wife? And The woman also want to be with you, What will be the ...
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Husband constantly lieing about his past

Aoa, i got married 5 years ago. Talked to my husband for 8 months before getting married. When we were talking we both asked about past relations and he said he only had 2 thats it. But occasionaly i ...
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I don’t want to have children, is it haram?

I’m getting to the stage of my life where I’m starting to think about marriage. However, with marriage comes the topic of children. I for one don’t want children and won’t change my mind - I am ...
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husband wife roles reversed

my husband can't earn. so I earn and also we live in my house which I inherited from my father. I know that a woman can't leave her husband's house without his permission. does the same thing apply ...
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Who was the most beautiful wife of Prophet Muhammad? [closed]

I just can't come to a conclusion reading from the sources. I see the competition was (in my understanding) between Aishah bint Abu Bakr, Safiyya bint Huyaiy, Maria Qibtiyya and Juweirya. For ...
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Is Consensual Anal Sex allowed in Islam?

Salam, I'm young and newly married. My wife and I had been practicing anal sex and by chance i learned it was haram. I immediately stopped practicing. But it has always been consensual and my wife ...
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Does husband have to pay Mahr if wife does not want to continue marriage but does not ask for Khula either because she does not want to give Mahr back

Assalamu alaikum. Does the husband have to pay the remaining Mahr if the wife does not want to continue the marriage but does not ask for Khula either because she does not want to give the Mahr back? ...
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Can husband and wife take shower together and they can see their naked body? [duplicate]

I want to know that in islam, Husband and wife can bath togethers and they can see their naked body and love each other like this way ?
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Is it haram to have sex for fun?

Is it haram to do sex for fun in marriages? Does that count as zina? I was told it is haram and your only allowed to do sex when wanting a baby.
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pre-coital fluid

Assalamu alaikum Is it necessary to change my clothes if I found pre cotial fluid in it . What if I'm having ejacuation of pre cotial fluid after every time having a conversation with my partner ? Is ...
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Marriage or no marriage

I am a 28 years old man. I have an incredible desire to be emotionally and physically attached to someone of the opposite gender. However, I do not like the idea of providing for her and the children. ...
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Can I masturbate after marriage if I'm not satisfied with my wife?

As-Salam-Wa-Laikum. I've a question related to masturbation. I know, Masturbation is Haram. But, here's my situation. I'm married for 23 years but for many years, I don't get excited for my wife ...
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Manner of correcting spouse

In response to behaviour that is unappealing to him and perhaps negative in general, what evidence is there of the manner in which a husband gives his wife necessary guidance about her behaviour (or ...
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If the husband disappears without a trace, who is obliged to spend on his wife?

What should a wife do if her husband has abandoned her but she wants to remarry? By this, I mean that a husband has disappeared without a trace and has been gone for a year. He has not left any ...
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Punishment for faker/cheater husband in Islam

If a man, who is married from 19 years and he has 5 children but still he cheats his wife. Once he wants to marry a woman without the permission of first wife. He continuously cheats his wife from ...
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Real meaning of loyality to husband [duplicate]

One Islamic hadith says that loyality to your husband after marriage is one of the most essential duties for a female to perform.sometimes it also indicattes that you have to always prioritize your ...
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What should be movement with my future wife after a family engagement

Assalamualaikum. I am a 23 years old Muslim boy. I have chosen a girl, almost same age as mine form the same University I graduating. I have talked with her several times, passed some times walking ...
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Is the prayer for a spouse instantly accepted?

I heard that when parents pray for their children Allah accepts it instantly. Does Husband-wife's prayer does the same thing?
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Is Marriage Annul if Wife runs from home with out husband's concern

Is the marriage Annul if Wife keeps running from husband's home with out husbands permission to her parents house and stays with them for months together with out husband's consent, stating false ...
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Can I divorce my husband due to lack of trust?

He chats and speaks on the phone with other women but does not speak to me. He denies that he does this by claiming that he fears Allah and would never commit adultery. But, I clearly see the messages ...
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