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Zina with sister in law

Assalamualaikum, i pray almost 5 times prayer everyday.i always make people understand that zina and other sins are strongly prohibited by Allah. But i dont understand how could i commited zina last 2 ...
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My wife is disrespectful to my mother and my family members

I have been married for six years; I have mashallah, two boys, and the love of my life. I live in a separate home, with my wife living in a city and my mom living in a village. During these six years, ...
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My wife doesn't like visiting my family often, is she sinning this makes my mother angry

In my family we have lots of gathering and social events with cousins and everyone, my wife says she likes to keep a good distant relationship and meet from time to time not every day but my mother ...
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Liya Zaurbekova, situation

https://www.themoscowtimes.com/2024/05/17/chechen-woman-fleeing-familys-death-threats-leaves-russia-official-says-a85147 https://youtu.be/lgDDp_eHk8E?si=5PooQI90FK5hji98 a very resonant phenomenon in ...
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Is it permissible to visit my brothers house although im not married?

My brother (in his late twenties) recently moved out of my parents house. I (female, in my early twenties) thought this was not a big deal as I thought I could visit him. However my parents said I can’...
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Can I reduce contact with my father? [duplicate]

Salam mualaykum !! my question is: can I reduce contact with my father who was never in my life nor did not that do much for me ? He is making me something that could potentially affect my life and my ...
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Is this a sin? I took rocks

I said to one of my family members, I wish I could have these types of rocks when I was in the parking lot of a Walmart because I want them outside my yard and so my dad he said I'll take them for ...
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Can We do nikkah without wali when he's not marrying off his daughter?

I'm 24F i come from a strict family and I want to marry someone specific 26M. He is good in deen and in ikhlaq also can manage my expenses if I become his wife but the problem is my parents are not ...
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DISOBEYING FATHER FOR NOT DOING HARAM JOB [closed]

Asslamualikum! I was a finance student back 2 years ago. You know that doing job in a bank is haram as it involves Interest so due to this reason my aim was to do a job in a company as they aren't ...
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My parents are magicions how to deal with the food that they're preparing? [duplicate]

My parents are practicing magic to all my family members agree with them except for me and my sister, my father taught others to practice with him and they are making Sihr on me and my sister. The ...
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Deceiving family

I wanted to ask if your family continues to lies and deceive you how can the family relationship be maintained. I worry that by not talking to them is a sin. I would love to maintain the relationship ...
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Love towards non-Muslim family?

After months of studying Islam i decided to become the Muslim.My family didn't have any problem with that.I was reading Quran yesterday and i found this ayat You will not find a people who believe ...
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Can halal food be haram?

My family are not muslims and they eat haram food. However I often see them touching halal food after touching a haram food without cleaning their hands. My question is: Does the halal food become ...
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Should I move to another country when my parents don't want to move with me?

I am a 26 Male and I live in a country where I want to speak up against the oppression around me but I fear that if I do, mine and my loved ones lives would be endangered. Therefore, I want to move to ...
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I used to take naked pics than my brother saw it and told the whole family about it can I put my trust in Allah and cut my self of from everyone

I Used to take naked pics of my self than my brother saw it and told the whole family about it can I only really on Allah and cut communication from my family
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Marriage of adopted humans

Is the marriage of a child of blood with his adopted sister and / or the marriage between a daughter of blood and his adopted brother lawful? And in the case of a man adopted from a family and a woman ...
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verses of guidance for family harmony and health?

I am looking for verses of guidance for family life and harmony, love of wife and nurturing children, how to discipline, kindness, education, young adulthood.
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Non Muslim family

Assalam ´aleykoum, It may sound stupid, but if I talk with my non-Muslim family,that don’t know I’m Muslim,about Muslims and Islam, and I talk about Muslims as « they » like this time I said « if they ...
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Saying Wallahi when having bad thoughts about family members

Aoa Sometimes I get bad thoughts in my head about my family members, for example "Wallahi (I swear to Allah) I hope that something bad happens to them." I do not mean anything like this and ...
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Reading duas again and again

Aoa I have begun to have mild OCD for the past few months and struggle whenever I am reading duas. For example, I read a dua to seek protection from trials and tribulations, which you read when you ...
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Can I avoid my non-muslim sister who argues with me? [duplicate]

me and my sister don't have a good relationship and I doubt will ever have one and I don't think I want to have one with her. she as vitcim mentally and she not muslim and it feels like she wants my ...
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What would be the perfect Islamic family format?

Today, I've watched a video on Youtube regarding common martial issues and got to know that the origin of those marital problems is in the concept of "Joint Family" -(which you will see in ...
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Until what relationship in the family should help for a person in need be counted as Zakât?

Support to minor children, wife and -if necessary - parents is obligatory, but support for others is facultative. Zakât as support for persons in need can be given on a personal level (which is quite ...
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How do Muslims know what other people around them are Muslim?

When visiting a mosque, it matters if the imam is really a Muslim. Otherwise, why would one listen to his speeches? When celebrating an important islamic day, it matters if the people around you are ...
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is it a sin to abandon my dad completely

My dad has been physically and verbally abusive to my family my whole life, especially to my mom. He pretends to be nice at times but does it again and he always talks about how much he hates us. ...
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Is it appropriate to avoid family members who don't practice, and whose behavior is "evil"?

I am a Muslim who has family members which are not practicing Islam. They have witnessed clear signs of Allah like someone being possessed with Jinn and reacting to the recitation of the Qur'an but ...
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Is it ok to cut ties with a sexually abusive father? [duplicate]

My father had been molesting me ever since I was a child and stopped after I revealed to my family what he was doing. But still to this day he makes some inappropriate comments, it is clear he doesn’t ...
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Conversations with vulgar words [closed]

I have some relatives and we talk nearly every single day. And they keep cursing while i keep saying not to do it. (They already know it is forbidden) I keep telling them to shut their mouth, but now ...
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Saying something bad in private about parents?

Sometimes my mom or dad say things to me or don't listen to me which hurts my feelings but I don't fight back because we are suppose to respect them. Today my mom displaced something that was mine so ...
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On Nabi Muhammad’s ﷺ Genealogy

I read articles about Nabi Muhammad's ﷺ genealogy and they say that Salma bint Amr is a Jewish woman from Banu Najjar tribe. Sayyid A. Amiruddin said in his website that Banu Najjar is a Jewish clan ...
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Can a child join Salat in family?

Young Children (say, about 5 years old) do not have the obligation and are not supposed to join Salat; they are not fully able to understand the meaning and to do everything properly but they like to ...
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Is the second marriage valid if only the second wife's family knows about it? [duplicate]

I have been married for a year now. I have met a woman recently who is much older than me and have a good deen. But she is financially unstable. Iam willing to marry her and support her financially. ...
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How do tell my family not to got dargah (shrine)?

Assalamualaikum, I am actually a 14 year old boy, my family goes to dargah (shrine of a dead person) and I don't know exactly what they do but I think they might have committed shirk, I realised this ...
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Is it Haram to use the office's phone to talk with my family? (Shia & Sunni view)

I have heard that it is not permissible for the clerks to talk by the phones of their office(s) in personal fields (such as speaking to their families and other personal jobs). Since it is not a ...
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Please guide me regarding parents rights

Please guide me regarding obedience of parents. Most of the time, I harshly behave with my parents. There're several reason for that. Allah 'azzawajal gave me some sorts of true knowledge, among them ...
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Is it allowed to call anyone "son" except our own child?

I have a cousin brother who is around 7 to 8 years older than me. He calls me betaa (son in urdu) on some occasion purposely or may be just for fun. I don't like it. I want to know if it's allowed in ...
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Dealing with a toxic father in islam

I have an overdemanding, selfish, abusive(physically and verbally), oppressive, bossy, fornicating and unreligious father. He is a Muslim but doesn't even know how to pray properly. He doesn't fully ...
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Respecting parents who aren't deserving of the respect

Islam says our parents have the right to be respected. What if they don't deserve it? Does "respect" in this context mean that we should not disrespect them or does it mean that we must respect them?
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Islam says we must obey our parents. What about when they ask us to do ridiculous things?

My father asks me to do a lot of things that he's too lazy to do himself, and these things seem very wrong.  An example of this is him calling me from the mosque to come back home to turn on the TV ...
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Is it wrong to "sever ties of kinship" in the case of an abusive relative?

It seems severing ties of kinship (family) is a serious issue. From Sunnah.com: 'Abdullah ibn 'Awfa reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said Mercy does not descend ...
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Do I have to keep relation with my rude & cruel atheist brother? [duplicate]

My elder brother is an atheist and so much rude & cruel to us that sometimes he even beats my parents specially my mother is the victim! You can't imagine what he has done to my family. I don't ...
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Should I side with my parents or my husband?

My parents repeatedly insult and degrade my husband to a point that they personally attack him on issues such as how much money he makes, how he dresses, etc. They have been doing this for many years ...
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Does daughter allowed to live with her parents after marriage? [duplicate]

Assalamulekum wa rahmatullah wa barkatahu I m from india.if I have two daughters and they grown up and get married and start living with their husband after that I will be living alone right? I want ...
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Could Allah be punishing me for cutting off my sexually abusive father?

My father was sexually abusive for 7 years and I didn’t even understand as he started when I was ten. I cut him off two years ago and my life has gone really horrible. These tests are not bringing me ...
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Can i sleep in my boxer shirts? Is it haram if my sister see me in my underwear?

I live in Asia. I am a Muslim and it is very hot in our country. I sleep in my boxer shorts everyday. I also roam around like this in the daylight . My mom and my sister are comfortable they don't ...
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Suffering siblings abuse [closed]

Is there somebody who can help me. I am really going through a hard phase both financially and emotionally My sister has made my life a living hell She always fights with me and God forbid if i say ...
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Can I wish people a happy birthday?

It’s my father’s birthday today and my whole family got mad at me for not saying happy birthday, as I have watched videos on youtube and the scholars have said it’s not allowed. I wanna know which is ...
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What justifies having children if there is a possibility that they will suffer eternally in the afterlife?

One of the subjects which I have been perplexed about is the conflict between procreation and antinatalism. Islam places great emphasis on the family unit and raising children. Of course, this is in ...
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What does the Quran say about the number of children a family should have?

Within the Muslim community, there are those who encourage Muslims to have a high number of children. I also read that "procreation in Islam is a sign of God's will and a large family is perceived as ...
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I have cancer and I don’t want to tell my family

I recently got diagnosed with ovarian cancer. My family knows that I got a tumour removed, but I told them that the tumour is non cancerous, which is not true. I simply don’t want to hurt them, ...