Questions tagged [children]
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How to deal with an abusive adult daughter? [closed]
Assalam o alaikum.
I have a sister who is 34 years old and unmarried (I'll refer to her as Jane henceforth). Jane lives in the same house with our mother. My brother, along with his wife and three ...
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What islam says about the parents who doesn’t care about their children’s religious practices i.e. prayer?
If the parents teach their children to prioritize worldly success over success in the hereafter or if they do not pay much attention about their children, whether they are committing sins or not ...
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Are step-children considered the same as a man's own children?
Does any children that come from the widow's previous marriage considered the same as a man's own children. Are a man's obligations towards his own children the same as what he has to the widow he may ...
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Does daughter allowed to live with her parents after marriage? [duplicate]
Assalamulekum wa rahmatullah wa barkatahu
I m from india.if I have two daughters and they grown up and get married and start living with their husband after that I will be living alone right?
I want ...
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Is it haram for fathers to physically assault their daughters? [closed]
So I want to know what Islam says about fathers hitting their daughters or adult daughters. Even when they lose temper because of their daughters, are they allowed to hit them or push them or throw ...
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Father & Mother Issue.!
Assalam o Allaikum everyone. A couple of days ago my friend asked me a question to which I am still kinda confused.
He said,
"My dad and mom usually quarrel a lot and both of them hate other's
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Is having sex not for the purpose of making children Halal? [duplicate]
In this answer one user states
sex outside of marriage is sinful and the only reason why one should ever have sex is to have children with their spouse.
However, another user challenges this saying
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Ruling on a child missing prayer
In websites, it's written a healthy adult missing prayer intentionally is a grave sin. What about young children who have not reached the age of adolescence (i.e. puberty)? Is there sin on them? ...
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Can a child have mother's surname?
Im really confused .My daughter has her mother's surname since birth and I agreed to it. But I read online some sites are saying should fathers and others saying it doesn't matter aslong as identity ...
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Till what limits is it completely fard on a son/daughter to obey his/her parents?
Salam everyone,
This is a question that has been on my mind for quite a long time. I will present an example so that it makes more logical sense. I know that it is not permissible to disobey my ...
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Aisha's age in the book of Ibn Saad
Salam.
Is it true that Ibn Saad in Tabakat wrote that Aisha was 9 years old at the time of the engagement, and 12 years old at the time of consummation?
Similar things are written about Ibn Hillikan.
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Is it haram to adopt instead of giving birth?
I'm a young muslim woman who wants to have children in the futur when i'll get married, but i always wanted to adopt and not give birth to my own children. I was wondering if it was prohibited to do ...
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Is there a minimum age for having intercourse with a female slave?
Can someone please verify these quotes which are alleged to be taken from Chapters on Marriage and Divorce. It seems that from these quotes, there is no minimum age for having intercourse with your ...
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Infertility=Useless?
I’ve read on this sight that it is a requirement that all people are to have children to keep our communities flowing. But what if one is incapable of conceiving for whatever reasons aside from using ...
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is this hadith authentic - how can i undestand the hadith?
"....As for the resemblance of the child to its parents: If a man has sexual intercourse with his wife and gets discharge first, the child will resemble the father, and if the woman gets ...
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Forcing to read the Quran
My parents are Huffaz الحمد لله and they want me to practice the Quran as well, I love the Quran, but I do not like being compelled to read it, because I would only see the efforts of my parents and ...
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Is it permissible to have intercourse with prepubescents according to 65:4?
I heard that Surah Talaq Ayat 4 (65:4) proves that it is halal to have sexual intercourse with pre pubescent wives. I wonder if this is true?
I searched it but every website says different thing. One ...
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Zakat or to my mother [duplicate]
Is it wrong of me to give Zakat when my mom needs the money. My mom said I shouldn't give that much money when I could have given it to her. Is that wrong of of me?
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Did a sin when i was 13 or 14
Assalamualaikum.
Salamuaikum
I do not know if you are responsible for this but I am desperate ..
I’m a sister and Religious Alhamdulillah.
I have a concern that has not let go of me for years.
In my ...
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Is it ok to hit the child for not offering salah?
Is it permissible for parents to beat their children,
if children are not offering salah?
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Who to choose between husband or parents? [duplicate]
My husband and I had issues which led to separation for 8 months. My husband has apologised for his mistakes and wants me back. My parents are against that although I have forgiven him. Who should I ...
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Are parents responsible if a child leaves Islam?
Salam,
Are parents responsible if a child decides to leave Islam ? If parents did teach Islam, rules, to the child during childhood.
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What does "spend according to your means" mean in islam
The statement
"let the rich man spend according to his means; and the man whose resources are restricted, let him spend according to what Allah has given him" (65:7)
isn't quite clear to ...
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What is a Heavenly Father? What is spirit-possession in a human being?
If the language of the God-family is disagreeable with the understandings or dogma of Muslim belief, how can I understand the belief that it is possible for a non-human being to possess or inhabit a ...
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children name with adbul or we can name without abdul with Allah name
asslam o alaikum
***Allah blessed me a baby boy i want to name MoizBari or we should add Abdul is mandatory to add
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Can I still go to heaven if I had unintentional gay sex before puberty?
My cousin and I were alone one night and we were bored. He tempted me to have intercourse with him. I'm a boy and so is he. It was such a situation for me that I couldn't reject, but now I am very ...
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Is it halal to use condom even if you can provide for the kid and don’t have any medical issue
I often hear people ask this question and the answer Can you use condom if you can’t provide for the kid? And it’s yes but imagine the couple can provide for the kid but don’t want one yet so they ...
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Child exploitation
Assalamu alaikum brother, my question is that Islam orders the child to obey his parents even if they ask him to leave his wife and give away his wealth as charity. But my question is if the father ...
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I don’t want to have children, is it haram?
I’m getting to the stage of my life where I’m starting to think about marriage. However, with marriage comes the topic of children. I for one don’t want children and won’t change my mind - I am ...
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About a small child doing zina
I know a small boy doing zina because of being oppressed and beaten up.He is a poor one.I feel sorry for him I need to help him.
What is the punishment for zina for small children and how should it be ...
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Muslim husband seeing his child with her mother alone in their home
My husband just found out he had a 1 year old child. The mother is non Muslim. He goes over there to see baby alone. I do not like mother’s dialogue with my husband. She is personal with him and way ...
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Rationale for enslaving children
Assalamualaikum just a quick question. Can anyone help explain the rationale behind enslaving children. In most of the battles in the Prophet's time we see women and children being enslaved together. ...
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What age to bring kids to graveyard
My son grandma passed away and he is 3 years old. I wanted to ask what age should we bring kid to grave yard as there is a dispute in my family and I know that 3-4 is too small to bring them here. ...
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Should you treat your daughters better than your sons?
I heard something along the lines of you should treat your daughters better than your sons. Is this true or do we treat both children equally?
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Respect of children
What if parents disrespect their children.
Some time parents disrespect their own children they abuse their children. We often heared about the rights of parents but what about rights of children of ...
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Zakat on wife who's husband doesn't bear expenses of wife and their child
I'm mother of 1 toddler child. My husband and I live separately (not divorced) and we do not have any communication between us. My husband is not interested to continue this relationship for a long ...
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Are children books with pictures in them haram in Islam?
I have a lot of books I used to read when I was a kid like diary of a wimpy kid and big Nate and I just recently found out things with pictures in them are haram so should I throw these books out or ...
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When someone do a sin why is it said that it might happen that children of that person have to pay for it?
i have heard many people that if someone do a bad deed or commit a sin such as doing something bad to some other person. he will have to pay for it either in such a way that his childeren have to face ...
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Looking at private parts for pregnancy
In the country where I stay, if a woman is pregnant and she goes to hospital, she may be assigned a male gynecologist. The only way to be sure to have a female gynecologist is to look for a private ...
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Sex and having a child
I am a 25 year old and I have a child who is 6 years old. For a long time me and my husband could not have sex because our child was there we tried everything but it was very had to have sex when he ...
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Is it okay for a father to hit his children as a punishment? And if so, what are the boundaries?
I just got curious on this and I want to know if this is allowed or not.
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Is it fine for a Muslim father/mother to let their child be Non-muslim?
As of now, I am a boy but want to be a father when I grow up and want my child to have some freedom. Is this allowed?
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Is it haram to say ''Oh my lord'' or ''Oh Lord'' [duplicate]
I am 12 years old and I said "oh my Lord" AND "OH LORD".
Is this considered shirk or am I disrespecting Allah?
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Is it permissable for disabled people to procreate?
Let's say one in a married couple or both of them have some sort of mental or physical disability (a serious one perhaps), and reproducing has a high chance of making the offspring suffer from the ...
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can girls study in co-education systems? [duplicate]
Can girls study with boys in co-education systems? as now every school or college is co-education and it is a necessity to have proper education so does it make us a bad Muslim?
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When we go to Jannah, can we have children?
When we go to Jannah, can we have children? I.e., have a family, not just be with your family. If not then why?
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Are dependents (such as children) taken into account before applying a hadd punishment?
Applying a hadd punishment, such as the death penalty or amputation, obviously either eliminates or greatly diminishes a person's earning potential. This is problematic when this person has ...
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What is the 'awrah of a mother in front of her children?
I give a bath to my two sons(whose ages are 7 years and 9 months, respectively). Occasionally, I need to take a bath, too, at the same time when there is no one there to attend to the children. What ...
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Who are the orphans in Qur'an 4:2?
Surah an-Nisa verse no-2
And give orphans their properties, and do not substitute the bad for the good. And do not consume their properties by combining them with yours, for that would be a serious ...
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Does Islamic scripture have an equivalent to "be fruitful and increase in number"?
Genesis 1:28 in the Bible states:
God blessed them and said to them, "Be fruitful and increase in number; fill the earth and subdue it. Rule over the fish in the sea and the birds in the sky and ...