Questions tagged [children]
Use this tag for questions related to rulings for children
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What exactly is the wisdom behind allowing husbands to have intercourse with prepubescent girls?
The option of puberty (assuming it can be exercised even if the contract was completed by the father) can only apply when the girl has reached puberty. This means that if the parents were to send her ...
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Is it permissible to touch a child of the opposite sex?
Is it permissible for a man , who has hit puberty, to touch a non mehram, who has not hit the puberty? She is still a girl in that sense, so is it haram?
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Ruling on having kids after marriage
Is it mandatory to have kids after marriage? What is the ruling on this in Islam?
I am asking this question in terms of couples who are perfectly healthy and can have babies but still choose not to ...
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Breeding concubines for desired features
As the status of the child is dependent on the status of the mother, the child of a slave mother would retain their status as a slave to the mother's master. As such, if the slave mother has a ...
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When the body of a child shows signs of puberty, but the mind is not
It is well known that a matur child get mukallaf: it will need to perform acts of worship and it's actions are recorded.
But what in case of a child who first of all has the look of a higher age, but ...
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Can a child who has not reached puberty lead prayer
Is it acceptable for a young child to lead nafl or the daily prayer if they have not reached puberty. If so, give a thorough explanation backed up by reliable references and sunnah.
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Father's share in daughter's salary
Does a father has 1/3rd Share in her daughter's salary or pension? Is this listed in the Shariah?
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Is it haram for muslims with disabilities to have children?
my name is Alessandro and I'm a 25 year old boy, I've been a muslim for about a year. I have a doubt that I'm not sure I'll find the answer in the Holy Scriptures.
I think it's a difficult question, I ...
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Conventions after divorce
What are the regulations after a husband definitely divorced regarding
maintenance of the ex wife after waiting period if she is not re-married
contact between minor children and their mother
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I don’t know if I have gotten through puberty and if my sins that i commit know are written down [duplicate]
Assalam walaikum, I'm a male 13 years old. (I am really embarrassed to say this) but i have masturbated and i don’t know if it is a sin because I don’t know if I have gotten through puberty, for that ...
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Two questions about oaths
I have two questions.
If a parent is paying kaffarah for their child who broke oaths does the child have to tell the parent what the oaths were? Also if you forgot how many oaths you've done would you ...
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Illegimate kid's father
Let's say Y is a boy. His parents are not married. His father left his mother as soon as she gave birth to Y. Then Y's mother was punished for committing adultery and she repented to Allah and married ...
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Can parents pay kaffarah for their children if they break an oath?
As-salaamu 'alaykum I've got a question. If a child breaks an oath can their parents pay kaffarah for them?
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Did I commit Shirk in my mind with these thoughts?
I am a bit frustrated right now because I am not sure if i committed shirk… So, the conversation in my head went like this:
“What are we for Allah?” “The children of Allah??” with that phrase i DID ...
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Is it allowed to treat sons better than daughters?
When this question is asked, Muslim 1623 is quoted on Islamic websites. But in the Hadith, the prophet (pbuh) only asks if the man has more sons. Does that mean it’s permissible to treat daughters ...
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Can a child join Salat in family?
Young Children (say, about 5 years old) do not have the obligation and are not supposed to join Salat; they are not fully able to understand the meaning and to do everything properly but they like to ...
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Why is the child considered fully human at 120 days
Bukhari 3208 :
‘Allah's Messenger (ﷺ), the true and truly inspired said, "(The matter of the Creation of) a human being is put together in the womb of the mother in forty days, and then he ...
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Descendant of the Prophet and specificities to have in life
Salam 'Alaykoum,
I am potentially Sayyid (Descendant of the Prophet), and I would like to know if there are any specific things to apply or recommendations for Sayyid people.
I am thinking of having ...
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How to deal with an abusive adult daughter? [closed]
Assalam o alaikum.
I have a sister who is 34 years old and unmarried (I'll refer to her as Jane henceforth). Jane lives in the same house with our mother. My brother, along with his wife and three ...
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What islam says about the parents who doesn’t care about their children’s religious practices i.e. prayer?
If the parents teach their children to prioritize worldly success over success in the hereafter or if they do not pay much attention about their children, whether they are committing sins or not ...
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Are step-children considered the same as a man's own children?
Does any children that come from the widow's previous marriage considered the same as a man's own children. Are a man's obligations towards his own children the same as what he has to the widow he may ...
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Does daughter allowed to live with her parents after marriage? [duplicate]
Assalamulekum wa rahmatullah wa barkatahu
I m from india.if I have two daughters and they grown up and get married and start living with their husband after that I will be living alone right?
I want ...
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Father & Mother Issue.!
Assalam o Allaikum everyone. A couple of days ago my friend asked me a question to which I am still kinda confused.
He said,
"My dad and mom usually quarrel a lot and both of them hate other's
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Is having sex not for the purpose of making children Halal? [duplicate]
In this answer one user states
sex outside of marriage is sinful and the only reason why one should ever have sex is to have children with their spouse.
However, another user challenges this saying
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Ruling on a child missing prayer
In websites, it's written a healthy adult missing prayer intentionally is a grave sin. What about young children who have not reached the age of adolescence (i.e. puberty)? Is there sin on them? ...
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Can a child have mother's surname?
Im really confused .My daughter has her mother's surname since birth and I agreed to it. But I read online some sites are saying should fathers and others saying it doesn't matter aslong as identity ...
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Till what limits is it completely fard on a son/daughter to obey his/her parents?
Salam everyone,
This is a question that has been on my mind for quite a long time. I will present an example so that it makes more logical sense. I know that it is not permissible to disobey my ...
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Aisha's age in the book of Ibn Saad
Salam.
Is it true that Ibn Saad in Tabakat wrote that Aisha was 9 years old at the time of the engagement, and 12 years old at the time of consummation?
Similar things are written about Ibn Hillikan.
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Is it haram to adopt instead of giving birth?
I'm a young muslim woman who wants to have children in the futur when i'll get married, but i always wanted to adopt and not give birth to my own children. I was wondering if it was prohibited to do ...
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Is it ok for parents to hit their children?
I just wanted to know if it's haram for parents to hit their children because my parents always slap me if I do something wrong
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Is there a minimum age for having intercourse with a female slave?
Can someone please verify these quotes which are alleged to be taken from Chapters on Marriage and Divorce. It seems that from these quotes, there is no minimum age for having intercourse with your ...
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Infertility=Useless?
I’ve read on this sight that it is a requirement that all people are to have children to keep our communities flowing. But what if one is incapable of conceiving for whatever reasons aside from using ...
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is this hadith authentic - how can i undestand the hadith?
"....As for the resemblance of the child to its parents: If a man has sexual intercourse with his wife and gets discharge first, the child will resemble the father, and if the woman gets ...
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Forcing to read the Quran
My parents are Huffaz الحمد لله and they want me to practice the Quran as well, I love the Quran, but I do not like being compelled to read it, because I would only see the efforts of my parents and ...
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Is it permissible to have intercourse with prepubescents according to 65:4?
I heard that Surah Talaq Ayat 4 (65:4) proves that it is halal to have sexual intercourse with pre pubescent wives. I wonder if this is true?
I searched it but every website says different thing. One ...
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Did a sin when i was 13 or 14
Assalamualaikum.
Salamuaikum
I do not know if you are responsible for this but I am desperate ..
I’m a sister and Religious Alhamdulillah.
I have a concern that has not let go of me for years.
In my ...
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Is it ok to hit the child for not offering salah?
Is it permissible for parents to beat their children,
if children are not offering salah?
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Who to choose between husband or parents? [duplicate]
My husband and I had issues which led to separation for 8 months. My husband has apologised for his mistakes and wants me back. My parents are against that although I have forgiven him. Who should I ...
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Are parents responsible if a child leaves Islam?
Salam,
Are parents responsible if a child decides to leave Islam ? If parents did teach Islam, rules, to the child during childhood.
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What does "spend according to your means" mean in islam
The statement
"let the rich man spend according to his means; and the man whose resources are restricted, let him spend according to what Allah has given him" (65:7)
isn't quite clear to ...
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What is a Heavenly Father? What is spirit-possession in a human being?
If the language of the God-family is disagreeable with the understandings or dogma of Muslim belief, how can I understand the belief that it is possible for a non-human being to possess or inhabit a ...
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children name with adbul or we can name without abdul with Allah name
asslam o alaikum
***Allah blessed me a baby boy i want to name MoizBari or we should add Abdul is mandatory to add
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Can I still go to heaven if I had unintentional gay sex before puberty?
My cousin and I were alone one night and we were bored. He tempted me to have intercourse with him. I'm a boy and so is he. It was such a situation for me that I couldn't reject, but now I am very ...
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Is it halal to use condom even if you can provide for the kid and don’t have any medical issue
I often hear people ask this question and the answer Can you use condom if you can’t provide for the kid? And it’s yes but imagine the couple can provide for the kid but don’t want one yet so they ...
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Child exploitation
Assalamu alaikum brother, my question is that Islam orders the child to obey his parents even if they ask him to leave his wife and give away his wealth as charity. But my question is if the father ...
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I don’t want to have children, is it haram?
I’m getting to the stage of my life where I’m starting to think about marriage. However, with marriage comes the topic of children. I for one don’t want children and won’t change my mind - I am ...
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About a small child doing zina
I know a small boy doing zina because of being oppressed and beaten up.He is a poor one.I feel sorry for him I need to help him.
What is the punishment for zina for small children and how should it be ...
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Muslim husband seeing his child with her mother alone in their home
My husband just found out he had a 1 year old child. The mother is non Muslim. He goes over there to see baby alone. I do not like mother’s dialogue with my husband. She is personal with him and way ...
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Rationale for enslaving children
Assalamualaikum just a quick question. Can anyone help explain the rationale behind enslaving children. In most of the battles in the Prophet's time we see women and children being enslaved together. ...
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What age to bring kids to graveyard
My son grandma passed away and he is 3 years old. I wanted to ask what age should we bring kid to grave yard as there is a dispute in my family and I know that 3-4 is too small to bring them here. ...
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