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Manner of correcting spouse

In response to behaviour that is unappealing to him and perhaps negative in general, what evidence is there of the manner in which a husband gives his wife necessary guidance about her behaviour (or ...
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Why is Qur'an 33:53 (which describes specific behaviors in relation to the Prophet) inside the Qur'an?

A friend of my whom I try to convert to Islam is reading the Qur'an and read this verse: 'O you who have believed, do not enter the houses of the Prophet except when you are permitted for a meal, ...
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How to express condolence to a person stricken by calamity and how to adequatly answer?

During our lifetime we encounter usually a couple of happy and sad incidents like that of the death of a beloved person or that of a relative. And as we are informed from the sunnah: “The ...
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If one was bullied their whole life by all kinds of people, and has developed hatred towards those people, does Allah still blame him/her?

If someone is really shy or quiet they are easy to get picked on by others. So if someone or a bunch of people who belittes you constantly for their own sense of humour amongst their friends, or ...
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Judging someone who embraced Islam , cause of not having straight hair . [closed]

I just need someone’s opinion or input on this topic . I highly disagree to the title , I’ve met someone who embraced Islam 2 years ago and a family member was not happy with this person wanting to ...
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Is sarcasm prohibited in Islam?

When being sarcastic, usually what is being said is opposite to the truth but in an expression or tone which can give away that one is being sarcastic. So is it considered forbidden and same as lying?
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What is considered 'insulting a Muslim'? And is it a sin? If so, is it a minor or major scene?

Assalamu 'Alaikum, My question is kinda lengthy here. So, the important question is regarding a situation. So, there was this guy who bought a wrong book, since it had the same name but the book ...
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To remain silent after talking about someone

In this video, the interview goes like this (approximate translation from the french) : "It was the famous story told to abu Bakr... I will remain silent for a moment, for believers who are watching, ...
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In Sunni Islam, what is the place of grace in human life, and how does grace fit into the requirements of the Five Pillars?

Sunni Islam: What is the place of grace in human life, and how does grace fit into the requirements of the Five Pillars? For a project, I am researching this Sunni Islam but have had a challenging ...
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Is there any Islamic reasoning behind giving 'shinni' when someone completes recitation of the Qu'ran or when someone dies?

In Bengali culture, it is accustomed to give 'Shinni' (any food) to friends and family when one finishes recitation of whole Qur'an or when someone dies. Is there any Islamic reasoning behind this or ...
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Can someone behave with his parents “rudely” if his parents are torturing him emotionally? [closed]

Someone's parents are very strict and unfair at many things. They torture their son emotionally. In this situation, does the son have any right to behave with his parents rudely? If the parents ...
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Is it haram for a Muslim girl and a Hindu boy to have a relationship?

I met a girl on social site and met her only once during her birthday. The main problem is that she’s a Muslim girl and I belong to a Hindu family. She refused by saying that her religion doesn’t ...
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Does the Qur'an promote violence?

If Islam is a religion of peace, then why violence verses are there in the Quran? How can Muslims justify this?
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Is “imitating disbelievers” interpreted holistically?

I'll start with an example. Suppose a person: is obviously a Muslim, in their dress, behavior, etc., and no Christian would ever think "they must be a Christian", and participates in a Christian ...
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Is looking at or thinking about good-looking celebrities zina of the mind/eyes?

There is a celebrity and I like I daydream about him sometimes. It's a celebrity so I never expect to ever have or be with this person in real life. Is looking at or thinking about good-looking ...
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Is competitiveness a desirable Muslim trait?

There's a range of human behaviors which are desirable (e.g. forgiveness, patience) or undesirable (e.g. suspicion, anger) in Islam. In this question, I'm interested in competitiveness: possession ...
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Is mindfulness meditation haram?

Just sitting and focusing on breath (no chanting Buddha and Hindu deities and such involved). Is it allowed?
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Is dancing allowed in Islam?

Is dancing allowed in Islam? The first part of my question is in regards to dancing in public. I am pretty sure it is not permissible, but is there any evidence of reasoning to support this view? ...
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How should one remember Allah while programming? [closed]

I'm fairly new in islamic study. I just read that we, muslim, should focus on our imaan and taqwa before anything else including science and technology and should be able to relate the study to the ...
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Is the hadith “I did not see anyone walk faster than [Prophet Muhammad], as if the earth folded for him” authentic?

From Shama'il Muhammadiyah, Book 18, Hadith 116, we have: Hazrat Abu Hurairah radiyallahu anhu says, "I did not see anyone more handsome as Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihe wasallam. It was as if the ...
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Are people lazy because they are destined to be lazy?

I recently came across the following Hadith and I am curious about the implications of it: Ali narrated that one day the Messenger of Allah was sitting with a wooden stick in his hand with which ...
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If I gain pleasure from spanking men, would it be haram to do so?

During the spanking, everyone would be fully clothed, and my hand would never touch his buttocks or body at all. I would be spanking him with an object. The man being spanked has agreed to be spanked. ...
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If a Muslim friend started drinking alcohol in front of me, how can I appropriately react?

I live in China, where we have lots of Hui Muslims. The level of devoutness among this group of Muslims varies considerably, with many who are not all that up tight about following (or are even aware ...
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Is it sunnah to put hands on chest/heart after shaking hands?

I have seen people putting their right hand on chest or heart (I don't know exactly) after shaking hands and saying salam. Is this sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) ?
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What is the difference between “adab” and “behavior”?

There's some overlap between the word "adab" and "behavior", but I'm not sure if all proper Muslim behavior is considered "adab". Adab in the context of behavior, refers to prescribed Islamic ...
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How does a Muslim woman balance friendliness with shyness?

One thing I struggle with as a convert is haya (shyness, modesty, shame). A recent instance was where I bought a non-mahram (probably non-Muslim) man a coffee in Azerbaijan. People stared. I ...
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Is “venting” halal, or even sunnah?

Wiktionary defines "vent" in a few ways: a verbalized frustration or to express a strong emotion. Google describes it as: ...give free expression to (a strong emotion). These emotions or ...
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Why do some Muslims have triangular green flags with frills at the edges on top of their houses?

Why do some Muslims have green flags on top of their houses? A triangular flag with frills at the edges. I have mostly seen these on those from sub continent. Is this a sunnah or a cultural practice?
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Should I correct an imam who forces his opinions on his community? [closed]

Salam, my masjid has a new Imam who seems to be a very friendly and knowledgeable brother Masha Allah. But one thing he does is in Salah, he seems to force the congregation to follow his opinion on ...
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If the food at the host's house is bad, what is the sunnah regarding this case?

I have seen lot of people when they are as guests and are served food at the house of host, and if that food tastes bad, some of the men talk rude/bad things behind, about the food. What is the Sunnah ...
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Does telling people you have an academic credential amount to arrogance?

The 17-th item in Major Sins by Al-Dhahabi is Arrogance, Pride, Conceit, Vanity And Haughtiness (ref.). He references the Qur'an and Sunnah, e.g.: ...Indeed, Allah does not like everyone self-...
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Why do some Muslims fold the top right of their prayer mats?

Why do some Muslims fold the top right of their prayer mats? I asked a few who said that we should either remove the prayer mats or fold a portion of it else Shayatin will pray on it!!! IMO (atleast)...
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Is there any verse in the Quran which states that dancing is haram?

Mostly people express their happiness in some form of actions (eg. by dancing, like at weddings or some sort of occasion). My question is very simple: Is there any verse in the Quran which states ...
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Is harm through inaction a sin?

Let's say that X knows a person B, who is an alcoholic and beats his wife. X does not report B to anyone who could take action on B. He chooses to do nothing. Eventually, B's wife is killed by B in a ...
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What does not being “obstinate in religious matters” mean in everyday life?

Islam Q&A (article 88206) writes about Muslims eating kosher meat, quoting Shaykh Ibn 'Uthaymeen: It is not essential to ask about that which was slaughtered by a Muslim or a kitaabi, and how ...
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To what extent is “thinking for myself” forbidden in Islam?

In the comments to this question, I expressed a desire to "think for myself" when it comes to deciding whether or not to perform an animal sacrifice during Eid ul-Adha. It was suggested this might be ...
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Is it wrong to “sever ties of kinship” in the case of an abusive relative?

It seems severing ties of kinship (family) is a serious issue. From Sunnah.com: 'Abdullah ibn 'Awfa reported that the Prophet, may Allah bless him and grant him peace, said Mercy does ...
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Is calling someone “a god” to mean “a very nice person” shirk?

I watched on television a person who was so grateful for being given food that he called the person who gave that person food a god. He meant this to mean "a very nice person". I laughed after ...
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What is the appropriate time to visit a grave?

As the title says, what is the appropriate time to visit the graves of fellow Muslims? Or is there anything such as an appropriate time? Most men visit after Friday prayer. I ask so, because one day ...
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Is speaking without knowledge not about Islam still a sin? Is being biased haram?

I know speaking of Islam without knowlege is forbidden. But what about speaking without knowledge not involved with Islam? Example: Many non Muslims write their own biased and personal definitions of ...
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Is not loving what you love for yourself for your fellow Muslims a form of kufr (disbelief)?

“Love for the people what you love for yourself and you will be a believer.” [Sunan Ibn Mâjah] If one is greedy and doesn't wish the best for others does that mean you are a disbeliever despite being ...
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Is bowing to the audience at the end of a play shirk? [duplicate]

Bowing or prostrating to anyone other than Allah (may he be exalted and praised) is shirk but does that also include what some actors do at the end of a play?
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Are whistling and clapping haram?

I heard that whistling and clapping hands are haram. I am looking for a clarification and the reasoning behind it.
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What is the punishment for sulking?

How would we be punished for sulking? Will we not be able enter Jannah and/or will be out of Islam? Definition of the term: Sulk: verb: sulk; 3rd person present: sulks; past tense: sulked; ...
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How to interact in a mixed-gender Islamic school? [closed]

I recently relocated to Malaysia and entered an Islamic school. However, classes are mixed. I do not talk to the girls unnecessarily, but the problem is that they start talking unnecessarily to me. ...
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Is vegetarianism accepted in Islam? [duplicate]

Islam teaches us what is halal food and what is haram food. It is said that we should eat from the foods that Allah has made halal for us. So, while some people become vegetarian, that is mostly ...
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Is it harm to curse (i.e., use swearwords)?

I curse a lot, because I am surrounded by many teenagers who also curse a lot. Is it haram to curse in Islam? What is the punishment? How can I prevent cursing? I heard that cursing is a major sin. I ...
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Is it allowed to cross in between two persons offering namaz? [duplicate]

After jumuah prayer, people were performing nafl. I tried to move out of masjid so I walked in between two persons who offering namaz. But one of those persons pushed me; I was unable to go back also....
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Is it a sin to laugh in Islam?

I noticed some elders laughing yesterday after which they said astughfirullah, I mustn't laugh. Why did they say that? Does Islam not allow you to laugh? As they were laughing, they said, ...
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Is it haram to tie a tiny knot around your finger to remember something constantly so that it becomes habit?

Is it haram to tie a tiny knot around your finger or wear a rubber band around your hand solely for the reason of trying to remember something constantly so that it becomes habit? For example: A man ...