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Is it a sin if my actions cause others to swear?

I have a cousin. Sometimes we both get angry at each other and I annoy him, which leads him to cursing me with vulgar words. Once we both cool down, I ask for forgiveness to Allah for both me and ...
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Saying hurtful things in your mind in moments of anger

Is it a sin to think or say hurtful and mean things about someone in your head when you're angry, but you keep silent and do not utter those hurtful or mean things to anyone and you restrain your ...
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Does God become angry?

As I understand, God forbade Muslims from becoming angry at one another. So, can Allah become angry at a Muslim, even if the anger is not directed at but for the Muslim's situation? Shouldn't feeling ...
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Does questioning someone's imaan out of irritation make me a disbeliever?

In an argument with a non-practicing Muslim friend, I became irritated and asked him Do you even believe? (or something similar). I apologized immediately afterwards. Does this make me a disbeliever ...
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Why is it recommended to perform wudu' when one is angry?

I often hear statements like: "Anger is from Satan" And that one should perform wudu' to calm down from anger. I'd like to learn more about this practice therefore here my questions: Does this ...
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What is the Sufi interpretation and method to control anger?

I just answered How to control anger according to sunnah?, and it struck me as likely that Sufis might have a different interpretation of anger and a different approach to coping with anger, perhaps ...
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Am I still Muslim, and married to my husband, after saying bad words out of anger?

New convert concerns: Am I still Muslim if a said bad words out of anger that I couldn't control when I had my menses? I really get it bad and the pain and mood swings. I blamed Eve for all woman ...
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In anger, I signed a letter to my wife saying talaaq thrice; is this divorce valid? [closed]

A letter was sent out to my wife stating that I give you talaaq thrice. 3 points I want to make: I was not in a stable frame of mind, I suffer from depression. It was in a moment of anger. I did ...
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If my husband has on repeated occasions said “talaq” but later apologised, are we divorced?

I am extremely upset about the whole situation. My husband had an extremely abusive childhood & real tough life throughout his 20-40's which actually made him very bitter & angry. I did my ...
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My husband divorced me in front of our parents out of anger. How to proceed from here? [closed]

I and my husband are now living separately, and have been for about 4 months now. The reason we argued is because of his wrong doing, and he divorced me in front of both our parents. After a couple ...
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How to control anger according to sunnah?

I pray regularly fives, give sadakas (voluntary charity) and do other ibadats (rituals). I have a very weak point that I sometimes fail to control my anger. Most of the time I have a very hot temper. ...
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What is the way to win over lust, anger, fear, tension, ego?

I believe "lust", "anger", "fear", "tension" and "ego" are main internal enemies of human. Does Islam provide a way to win over these enemies? If yes what is that way?
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What to do when a Muslim convert husband claimed to be a non-Muslim out of anger?

I’m a Muslim. I’m married to a man who converted to Islam before we got married. We have now been married for 11 years. In one of his mobile text messages to me, out of anger he said that he is not a ...
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If the husband hits the wife in anger, can the wife hit back?

If there was a misunderstanding between the husband and wife and if the husband hits the wife in anger, can the wife hit back?
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Do I need to fulfil an oath made out of anger?

I made an oath about a thing in anger. I didn't actually want to make an oath, but my situation and my anger made me do it. My question is: do I need to fulfil the promise, or I can break it?
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How to control anger towards siblings?

I get angry towards my brothers or sometimes towards my sister or even on cousins for their behaviour with me. When they don't talk with me or when they don't care of my point of view or call me "baby"...
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What should I do if I accidentally swear to do something bad out of anger?

For example, my child spends all his/her pocket money for snacks in one day. Then, I swear that I won't give any money to him/her forever. What should I do after a situation like this?