Assalamu'alaikum, I was wondering this for long time. I suffered because of my parents ignorance since childhood, they denied to provide necessary things,they just provided me least minimum survival foods and suffered a lot due to lack of treatment. They don't even teach life lessons, or guide me, or made a life plan. I needed to be grown up to be my own guardian to make my life plan, so I became late. They say what is their profit raising a child, why did I come to this world. My question is, is it me who chose to come to this world or did they bring me to suffer? They don't want to work, don't gain and implement knowledge, and kept hoarded all the properties. Since childhood they lied, and deceived me. I was physically and mentally abused, there are so many things that can't be written here in short. They also influence me to suicide (because of money).
But it's not only about me, but also about the children like me who suffered because of their parents. Some poor parents do work hard to give the best to their children, but what about those parents who were reluctant to do so and thinks why would they do the little to their child and make the children's lives valueless. Abuse the children to death. And I grew up seeing my rich relatives who's children were over pampered, their education, their behavior, learning, life plan and many thing are just the inheritance of their parents hard work.
And there is no ruling in our country for parents. A man become angel when they give birth, no matter how they raise their child here. All the faults of the parents are forgiven because the rulers are parents, but children's are the blameworthy one. It's not a regular case, most of the time parents are dedicated, but there are truly some children who are really suffering most because of their parents, and where is the help?
Thus, my question is, why would the children suffer because of their parents? Why????
JazakAllah khairan
