I met a man whom I fell in love with and he loved me too. We did not make a haram relationship, instead we waited so he could buy a house and marry me. We did not see each other a lot because we wanted to do it the right way. I last saw him just before he was murdered. I miss speaking to him and I feel sad that he is gone because he was the only person I had in my life that genuinely loved and cared for me. My question is, will we be United in jannat?
As far as I know, there is a hadith: "You will be with those Whom you love". I give the hadith below:
A man asked the Prophet (ﷺ) about the Hour (i.e. Day of Judgment) saying, "When will the Hour be?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "What have you prepared for it?" The man said, "Nothing, except that I love Allah and His Apostle." The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "You will be with those whom you love." We had never been so glad as we were on hearing that saying of the Prophet (i.e., "You will be with those whom you love.") Therefore, I love the Prophet, Abu Bakr and `Umar, and I hope that I will be with them because of my love for them though my deeds are not similar to theirs. [Sahih al-Bukhari 3688]
If you die with Imaan and he did also, then inshaAllah, you will meet with him in jannah(as we learn from this hadith). The rest Allah knows....