My dad has been physically and verbally abusive to my family my whole life, especially to my mom. He pretends to be nice at times but does it again and he always talks about how much he hates us. There’s no way to talk to him and make him a better person he’s evil. I hate him also and I plan to abandon him completely soon, and I try to convince my mom and siblings to come with me. Would it be a sin? Even if it is I still will but I just want to know.
im that user above who asked this question, i dont remember those account details. I want to add that he’s extremely physically abusive to my mom and its been that way my whole life. Trust me he’s not a good person at all. My mom suffered a lot of damage in her eyesight and body because of him. I dont understand how it would be a sin to abandon him in this case?? To me he deserves worse than that
What you are planning to do is not only a big sin but it will decrease your life span significantly. You are not Allah and today is not the judgment day. Ask the god for forgiveness (towbah nasooh). If you are going to do it anyway, make sure to check on him from time to time, at least without he knowing it. The god is watching you, so even if you hate him, don't really abandon him, this way you avoid direct communication and you still are taking care of him. He can say he hates you, but you should not. However no body other than God knows if he really hate you (not even himself). He might be mentally sick and abandoning him would be a big sin. Find somebody that he respect and ask him/her for helping you by convincing him to see a psychiatrist.