I was wondering will parents and family be the same in Jannah as it was here in the Dunya? What if I don't want to ever see my family or parents for eternity? Can I have that choice? Will Allah grant me this? I want to serve Allah and be free and happy without them. I don't want them to recognize me. Or I to recognize them.
The thing you need to realize is, no person will ever be the same person as they were in this world in paradise.
So the family you dislike or hate may be the same people, but more appealing to you.
There will be no hatred, envy, jealousy, anger, etc. in paradise so all the grudges, family conflicts you’ve had in this world will no longer exist in paradise.
The family you once hated won’t be the same type of people you knew in this world once you Inshallah see them in heaven. So you don’t have to worry about hating them or wanting new people because while they will be the same people, their personalities will be different, everyone will be much kinder towards each other.