Salam alaikum! I am getting married soon insha allah. The girl's father is separated from her mom. And for personal reasons cant state why. But he isn't involved in her life and has been for 15 years now. She has two young brothers both mature.

Now the question is. Do I still need to get in touch with her father to ask permission even though he won't pick up the phone? My mum is insisting that we must get in touch with him otherwise the marriege won't be valid.

I just wanted some islamic answer to know how to tackle this matter through the sunnah.

Jazakallah kheir

  • What about girls paternal grand father? Then maternal grand father? Mar 10, 2021 at 18:45
  • No. So her mother is originally melwaian. And her dad is Pakistani. So when he married her he took her away from her family. So her dad was very abused so her mom decided to get divorce and have nothing to do with his side of family. Now the only people men available are her brothers and sisters. But no mom and dad. Mar 10, 2021 at 22:51


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