Assalamu aleykum I had relationship with a boy for nearly 2 years. We chose each other for our deen and planned to get married. Alhamdulilah our parents accepted.

Within our relationship we had misunderstandings and conflicts but I was always the one who used to apologize first. Finally he decided to pray istikhara, he prayed for 7 days and he told me the result he felt was negative and he decided break-up with me.

I was so unhappy heart broken and told him to not leave me Allah will give us the best I did everything but he is saying his istikhara was negative and he will not disobey Allah for the feeling he showed.

Please advise on what I can do. I pray every night salatul leyl and make dua.

  • See for example this, this and this.
    – ياsr
    Jun 12, 2020 at 17:10
  • What I infer is the relationship is wrong in sight of Allah. Only when there is a wali you can communicate to that person for marriage. Aisha was offered by his father abu bakr for marriage. Mar 30, 2021 at 10:11


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