Salam. My wife is currently studying overseas and i can only see her when she comes back home twice a year and when i visit her. We just got married early this year. She stayed with me and we were very intimate for 6 months before she went overseas alone. Sometimes my sexual needs are overwhelming but I usually can control it by distracting myself with work/praying, etc. Recently, I feel pain and aching in my scrotum which prevents me from focusing at work. I can ignore my desires and thoughts but not the physical pain. This is the first time I am experiencing this and i do not know how to handle it. Usually when i have strong desires, i get wet dreams and i feel slightly better the next day but this time, it didn't happen which i believe led to this aching feeling. I have done my research and many non-Muslim websites suggested masturbation. I have never done that and will never resort to it. I would like to know other ways to cope with this.
Assalamualaikum brother, Welcome to our community
Masturbation is haram brother. and about your wife, if you are married and your wife is not near you, you can have another wife, who can stay with you (Ideally, its of no use to marry and stay away from each other) as it leads to fitna. husband and wife are supposed to stay together , so they can fulfill each others desires. Nothing is more important that fulfilling each others desires. i am not sure why your wife left alone leaving you alone (this is not acceptable) unless there is situation of life and death or you have serious issues, out of which there is no way
About your sexual desires, if you choose any other haram way (masturbate, watch porn, or any other way,) then you will destroy your married relationship. which is very bad
talking about solution? you should better talk to a doctor about the pain. Because as far as i know, sexual desire can never cause pain in genitals.
Best is that you must call your wife to stay with you. otherwise it will be fitna for you and your married life can be in danger too
May Allah help you in all your problems