Hi today i had a massage from a male i am also a male during massage i was naked and got really aroused he masturbated me till i came none of us had oral sex no pentration he just masturbated me with his hands is this sin the same level to sodomy or bit less severe to it as there was no oral or anal sex between us.Also i paid him for the massage did the money i give him haram or not cuz i paid for the massage not the masturbation?
I believe the Quran very clearly reads you should not lay with another man the way you lay with your wife. The condemnation is based entirely on the story of prophet Lut.
26:165-166 reads: "Of all the creatures in the world, will ye approach males, "And leave those whom Allah has created for you to be your mates? Nay, ye are a people transgressing""
Hadith will make clear that homosexual activities are punishable by death... May you ask Allah for forgiveness, I believe it would be one of the most challenging things to live life getting turned on by men and having to abstain forever. I hope you find the strenght!