A wife is supposed to wear what her husband wishes if I am not wrong so my question is that if the husband wants his wife to wear tight, seethrough or short clothes in public can she wear it or not
To start with the phrase,
A wife is supposed to wear what her husband wishes
If your husband is following the Sunnah of our Islam, then definitely he won't be asking you about this request.
According to our Hadith and Holy Quran, a Husband can ask his wife to wear whatever he wants, provided it should be in private and within our Shariah laws. Also if the wife is not comfortable, then she can tell him the same.
Note the Keyword ASK has been written.
But to be in Public, it should be something to which body parts can't be visible or seen through or the structure of different body parts can be notified.
So, my dear sister, you should inform your husband of the same, so that he can understand it in a better way.
"There is no obedience to the creation if it means disobeying the Creator".
I consider myself a very reformist and left leaning Muslim and I really think the laws of women's clothing need to be reinterpreted for Muslims living in 21st century (for example I don't think sisters should be covered completely in burqahs, unless they really want to be).
But at the same time I do believe the Quran encourages modesty in clothing and in that regard any dress which reveals a woman's body too much (such as the types you mentioned, tight, see through and short) cannot be encouraged.
At the same time, just like the laws of clothing need to be revisited, I think so do the laws regarding husband and wife relationships.
My dear sister, you seem to think it is an obligation on you to dress how your husband commands. I am not sure that is from Islam either. I don't think Islam commands blind obedience to the point where a wife becomes like a servant.
But I also advice you to be patient with your husband, because even if there is no blind obedience, the wife is commanded to please her husband just as the husband is commanded to please his wife. The more that we give for the other, the more we will be given by our Creator.
But if he is commanding you to something clearly haram, I would refer back to the maxim with which I opened this answer and Allah Knows best.