My question is in regards to this hadith:
Jabir b. 'Abdullah reported: ... He then walked on till he came to the women and preached to them and admonished them, and asked them to give alms, for most of them are the fuel for Hell. A woman having a dark spot on the cheek stood up and said: Why is it so, Messenger of Allah? He said: For you grumble often and show ingratitude to your spouse. ... -- Sahih Muslim 885 b (sunnah.com)
Question: In what ways do Muslim women show ingratitude to their spouses?
I'd like to identify common examples of how women show ingratitude to their spouses, so as to better mental picture of the circumstances in which the hadith applies, and so that I can avoid showing ingratitude myself (if inshallah I find a suitable husband).
Perhaps it's just long-term nagging and nit-picking, or maybe there's more to it.