I understand and know that marriage is a big deal. I am looking forward to getting married, Alhamdulillah and Inshallah.
Question is: What if I find that when meeting a potential spouse that the compatibility based on questions seems to be there (with limited contact/meet), but then when we have nikah, maybe we are not exactly compatible? It may be that we are good people but when it came down to it, we just are not exactly compatible and by no ill will or bad means, we decide to divorce.
Would this be a haram act or an immoral act?
I don't want this to seem like a temporary (Mutah) marriage like Shia's believe but the reality is that things DO happen. It may seem very nice to begin with but then after the fact (of Nikah), things may not be so well as once thought or were alluded to.
I'd appreciate a solid answer with references as to this potential matter.