My name is Rizwan. I am 26 year old. I got engaged a month ago. After the engagement I talked with my fiancé by message just to get to know about her nature, whether she is compatible with me or not. Now I'm in trouble. I don't want to talk with her because I know talking on phone and falling in love after that are hateful towards Allah.
I told her 3 times "I don't want to talk with you; I want to wait until we get married." But whenever I told her I don't want to talk to her, she says "I'm alone, I need your company", bla, bla.
Any suggestion what I should do? Is it permissible to chat with my fiancé?