I made a mistake 2 years ago by getting into a relationship with someone. I said kobul to him 3 times without the permission of my parents. We are not together anymore as I've realised that being in a relationship is very much haraam. I ask for forgiveness all the time.
I want to know whether or not we are tied in marriage by saying kobul?
My mother found out about the relationship and made me realise that I went astray and did not approve of him.