I am Noman, from Bangladesh, 8 months ago my guardian showed me a girl to marry who is my relative (my cousin's sister in law), after showing this girl, my mother went for the holy hajj and she showed positive attitude regarding this marriage, after that a relationship arose between us (that girl and me), but my mother has given negative decision after coming back from hajj. where she knows very well that we are in a emotional relationship. I asked my mother that why she does not agree to let me marry that girl? Is she a bad girl? my mother answered that the girl's status is not the same as me, and she lives in a village, that means my family is only concern to the social status. nothing else.
Please note, one of this girl's cousins is already been the wife of my other cousin and that marriage is done with the permission of all of my family members, but this time they don't agree.
In this situation i have done a mistake, that is- we got married in front of quazi and in that occasion two of my wife's cousins were present, and there were witnesses also, we still didn't announce our marriage to our family members because they will got hurt.
Actually we thought , our family issue will be managed, and we will get married again by their permission, but the scenario is different and not as we thought, my guardian is too strict and they are not allowing me to do so...... I am trying to manage and trying to get their permission but they are trying to make me walk on their way.
In this circumstance what should I do?
Now if I want to listen to my family then I'll have to divorce (secretly) that girl, and if I don't then I'll have to announce the marriage to society. so please advice what should I do.