I would like to clear these points before asking this question:
I am fully aware that marriage is sun nah(Highly recommended sun nah).
I am fully aware that marriage is a natural way to fulfill your desires and remain chaste.
I am fully aware that Allah provides sustenance and a person should not be worried about it.
But after testifying to all of the above points I have the following concerns regarding marriage:
Sustenance is provided by Allah but the person has to earn it. A person becomes stable at the age of 30+ in the present time if he completes his education because of the scarcity of jobs and competition in the market. Now the point to ponder is that the average age in Pakistan is 66 years so what is the point of marrying at the age of 30 when half of the life has already passed without any partner?
If I don't marry I can do a lot of other stuff freely with more dedication . For example I can support my parents fully financially without worrying about saving some money for my children and wife . I can give more charity , I can spend more time in performing my religious duties.
To cut the long story short what is the point of getting married at the age of 30 when half of the life has already passed and you can do far better things with your life rather than paying the bills and doing multiple jobs to earn a middle class standard?