Is it ok, to talk to fiance? I been engaged and i am not into talking with her because i believe its a way of giving a confidence before marriage but people around me insist on saying to talk to her as she is engaged to you? What does islam says about talking to your fiance before Marriage/Nikkah?
As long as there is a Mahram with you there is no problem. A Mahram is needed so that both of you are not alone because when a girl and a boy are alone with each other, there is a third person present there and that third person is Shaytan. He will tempt you to do haram.
Umar Ibn al-Khattab narrated that :
The Prophet (saws) said, "Whenever a man is alone with a (non-mehram)woman, the Shaytaan makes a third." [Al-Tirmidhi Hadith 3118]
Yes you can talk, and a mahram does not need to be present unless you are in a private setting like a closed off room. If it is in a public place a mahram does not need to be present. Also, you can communicate via electronic means. But, and this is important, there needs to be guidelines and you cannot get to casual because you are not yet married. You should get to know the person, but do not get too informal.
Sister, before nikah, the man is not your mahram... so all rules of non-mahram apply to him for you.. you cannot talk to him on phone,chat, or physically being there.
and there is NO concept of Fiance, engagement in islam.. Nothing makes a girl, be open to the man, unless they are both in nikah, otherwise they have no right to talk, engage with each other openly, and never alone as well..
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