I am married to a wonderful man living in the UK to make a living for his family. He has a daughter from a previous marriage and has full custody. For diverse circumstances the little girl must live in his parents household in Pakistan where she is being well taken care of. As the distance is so far, he can only visit her once a year.
My husband has gone through so much turmoil with his previous marriage and at the moment is not able to have me with him neither emotionally nor financially.
I am currently at my parents home in America for the holidays, also came to renovate my foreign visas.
My question is regarding my duties towards his child: Should I be with my husband, or should I take care of his child in another country and for how long?
In other words, who should I be more dutiful towards, my husband that lives in the UK or his child that lives in Pakistan?