In the name of God, the Most Merciful, the Most Kind.
All praise is due to God, the Lord of the worlds
Answer:
Your question: I want to know how long is permissible for a husband to leave his wife without touching her?
I’m sorry to hear this, but you could ask your husband to stop being like this because, it is not right.
Sahih Al-Bukhari Hadith 4.460 Narrated by Abu Huraira God’s Messenger (saws) said, "If a husband calls his wife to his bed (i.e. to have sexual relation) and she refuses and causes him to sleep in anger, the Angels will curse her till morning."
This means, even if a husband is bad with his wife, his wife must ask her husband to stop being like this as you described “when I make a move, he complains to be tired from work.” I understand that your husband is tired but, your husband and you can have a relaxation moment, right? So, you can ask him, if he refuses, then tell him that the angels will curse him.
Abu Dhar al-Ghafari reported: The Messenger of God (saws) said: there is a reward for you [even] in sex with your wife." The companions asked: O Messenger of God (saws) is there a reward if one satisfies his passion?" He (saws) said: "Do you know that if he satisfies it unlawfully he has taken a sin upon himself? Likewise, if he satisfies it lawfully, he is rewarded."
Tell your husband that God Almighty Said:
”And be afraid of the Day when you shall be brought back to God. Then every person shall be paid what he earned, and they shall not be dealt with unjustly.”
Quran (Surah Al-Baqarah, Verse 281)
Tell your husband that he must take good care of you without violating your desires, because that are 2 basic pillars of a family. Uh, tell your husband not to be mean with you.
Imam as-Sadiq (a.s) stated:
”One of the characteristics of the prophets of God is that they are all kind towards their wives',"
Related by Ahmad and Muslim.
I hope this is a good answer.
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