assalamu alaikum, I am a muslim girl, al hamdulilah convinced but always trying to love more my religion by knowing more, it can honestly get a little bit because I live in spain but i really try my best. So, when it comes to religion my references are quraan, books, the internet and of course my mother.

so we were talking about girls who got raped, and she basically said that she'd probably rather for the girl to be dead than raped. She is my mother, with all respect , I said: would you rather see me dead than raped? she just didn't answer.

I want to know what islam thinks about a girl being raped. Everything, from how she should be treated from where she should stands on the eyes of people.

english is not my first language I hope you understood me.

I am really overwhelmed with this, I do not know what to answer her because she is my mother. Also I must clarify that she is an educated woman, she went to college, but she was raised in a very very conservative family in which woman had no right to say 'NO', so i think that tradition rule more than religion, something i try my best not to follow because I do not think it is correct. Please correct me if I am wrong. I want to be a better muslim and I seek knowledge.

thank you very much for your time. assalamu alaikum.

I am a muslim girl, al hamdulilah convinced but always trying to love more my religion by knowing more, it can honestly get a little bit because I live in spain but i really try my best. So, when it comes to religion my references are quraan, books, the internet and of course my mother.

so we were talking about girls who got raped, and she basically said that she'd probably rather for the girl to be dead than raped. She is my mother, with all respect , I said: would you rather see me dead than raped? she just didn't answer.

I want to know what islam thinks about a girl being raped. Everything, from how she should be treated from where she should stands on the eyes of people.

I am really overwhelmed with this, I do not know what to answer her because she is my mother. Also I must clarify that she is an educated woman, she went to college, but she was raised in a very very conservative family in which woman had no right to say 'NO', so i think that tradition rule more than religion, something i try my best not to follow because I do not think it is correct. Please correct me if I am wrong. I want to be a better muslim and I seek knowledge.

thank you very much for your time.